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Initial response

I think this is a great idea, I'm most certainly interested! --Girl-razor 19:21, 27 September 2006 (UTC)

I agree :) Judgesurreal777 22:35, 27 September 2006 (UTC)

Some Feedback

Great idea. However, I do wish the adopt templates didn't look like the new messages box. -- tariqabjotu 03:19, 28 September 2006 (UTC)

• Count me in! Goiter McWilliostein, P. I. ^{You can't control me!} _{I'm a P. I.!} Save Stargate SG-1! 13:16, 28 September 2006 (UTC)

Hmm...yeah, that's understandable. I can fix that. ~ Flameviper 15:09, 28 September 2006 (UTC)

Yes, great idea! Could the template be userbox? NCurse _work 19:19, 28 September 2006 (UTC)

Will the Wikipedia:Welcoming Committee let new users know that this sort of assistance is available? I tend to think that it might be one of the few ways that a newcomer would know it is possible. Also, I do have some reservations about the word "adopt", as it could be perceived as vaguely insulting to the newcomer. Maybe "coach" or "tutor" or something like that might work better. Badbilltucker 19:31, 28 September 2006 (UTC)

I disagree. I believe that Adopt is fine... perhaps we should vote! Goiter McWilliostein, P. I. ^{You can't control me!} _{I'm a P. I.!} Save Stargate SG-1! 07:57, 29 September 2006 (UTC)

Voting is evil Batmanand | Talk 10:02, 29 September 2006 (UTC)

Interesting idea, it would be nice to see newbies have easier access to personal help. I'm not sure what tone you want to establish, but I have to say that "adopt" did seem a bit inappropriate to me as well. Coach or tutor sounds a little less intimate to me. --Bookandcoffee 16:55, 29 September 2006 (UTC)

I think the userboxes should look more.. uh.. Userbox-y. Maybe add a picture of a baby or something an a slightly smaller font size. - Zero1328 _Talk? 11:16, 30 September 2006 (UTC)

You're right. I created a test template, what do you think? :

This user is seeking to be adopted by an experienced editor.

NCurse _work 11:31, 30 September 2006 (UTC)

Looks quite good in my opinion, but I'm wondering what everyone else thinks of it. - Zero1328 _Talk? 12:22, 30 September 2006 (UTC)

It definitely plays up the "baby" aspect of the "adoption" process. Personally, I'm not sure that I'd want to use it myself, as I think I'm a bit more "adult" than the picture is. I still think that something like a "big brother/big sister," "tutor", "coach" or the like might get more newcomers to actually use it. Maybe something like this:

This user is a newcomer to the wikipedia family and would appreciate finding a family of one or more experienced editors.

Yeah, it could use a better image, but that's the idea. And I definitely think that, if this is implemented, the Welcoming Committee should make sure that they tell all newcomers about this option. Badbilltucker 00:42, 1 October 2006 (UTC)

This is a good idea and it should be more publicised some more and expanded. This page could be added to Template:Welcome; you never know. --lEoN2323 21:27, 1 October 2006 (UTC)

• "Voting is evil Batmanand | Talk 10:02, 29 September 2006 (UTC)"... yeah, that was the joke... Goiter McWilliostein, P. I. ^{You can't control me!} _{I'm a P. I.!} Save Stargate SG-1! 08:37, 2 October 2006 (UTC)

Oh, and don't forget this. Goiter McWilliostein, P. I. ^{You can't control me!} _{I'm a P. I.!} Save Stargate SG-1! 08:38, 2 October 2006 (UTC)

Could a person have two or more 'tutors' or a 'tutor' adopt two or more people at the same time? Some people might want to coach, say, 3 people (for examlple), or maybe someone wants help from two different users.

Ilikefood 20:52, 4 October 2006 (UTC)

I would hope the answer to this could be "yes". I'm thinking that if someone were, for instance, involved in adding information on insects and the politics of the Ivory Coast, that they might benefit from having "mentors" (I like that word better) from each of the fields in which they are involved, if there is no single person involved in both fields available. Also, it would definitely be useful if someone's designated "adoptor" were to go on an extended break for whatever reason to have someone else already familiar with the newcomer available to step in immediately. Lastly, if we have a true saint who can deal with several newcomers at once, I would definitely want them to be able to do so. Badbilltucker 23:50, 5 October 2006 (UTC)

New idea?

Intresting idea but isn't this already being done per most welcome messages saying "if you need any help you can reach me on my talk page"? - Tutmosis 22:40, 28 September 2006 (UTC)

You're right, but Category:Wikipedians looking for help is hard to watch. These templates help us to reach new users much easier. NCurse _work 17:23, 29 September 2006 (UTC)

The thing with {{Helpme}}, is that the helper only helps with that one problem. However, in Adopt-a-user, the helper stays helping the user until one person says they want to stop or something. --lEoN2323 21:10, 1 October 2006 (UTC)

{{Helpme}} is pretty much useless; the only thing that happens is that somebody leaves a template on yuor talk page, and if you want to talk to them, they're long gone. It might as well just automatically spawn a template. ~ Flameviper 17:10, 2 October 2006 (UTC)

thoughts - Renaming etc...

Nice effort...but before I decide wether I like this or not I suggest you rename this program. --Osbus 16:52, 30 September 2006 (UTC)

I tend to agree. Do you have any specific ideas? I'm thinking something like "Find-a-Friend", "Find-a-Family", "Big Brothers/Big Sisters" (not word-for-word, copyright problems there), or something like that might work better. Badbilltucker 23:57, 5 October 2006 (UTC)

I have removed the request rename template as obviously no one has been pushing for this idea any more, an the concept of adoption has stuck. So unless anyone wants to bring it up again I have removed the rename template from the project page. Cheers Lethaniol 14:49, 5 December 2006 (UTC)

Sounds Good

Let me know when it's ready. People Powered 00:47, 2 October 2006 (UTC)

Two styles of it?

Hmm...Well, it technically isn't supposed to be a userbox, it's supposed to be at the top of your userpage. But yeah, if it would be used as a userbox, then it should look more like a normal userbox. It should be more userboxy, if you will. I was thinking that we could go both ways and include two versions of each template; one for the top of the page and one for a userbox.

The "adopt me" and "I'm adopting" templates are supposed to be big and at the top of the page to get your attention, but the "I adopted" and "I got adopted" templates don't neccesitize attention-grabbing tactics; actually, they're kind of annoying. So, hypothetically, the "seeking adopting" templates would be big and the "I'm a happy camper" templates would be nice, non-blatant userboxes (although everyone might not want to conform to that).

Whatever you guys want. ~ Flameviper 17:21, 2 October 2006 (UTC)

I'm thinking...

Not something I do often. I am thinking that we should find a way to publicise ( excuse my misspellings ) the whole program. I agree that maybe it could use a new name, although I like the WP:ADOPT shortcut. If we find experienced editors and asked them if they would be interested in joining, and also send new users a message asking them to join, and maybe get one of the welcome templates changed so that it includes something about WP:ADOPT. I think that we need to make the project page more user-friendly before we get it added to a welcome message, as new users inexperienced in Wikipedia will be using it frequently. Also, I think that maybe we should consider become part of Esperanza, as someone suggested on Flameviper's talk page. I will work on making the page more newbie-friendly. Color Me Invisible 14:37, 3 October 2006 (UTC)

I definitely think that, if this idea goes ahead, we might want to talk to the Welcoming Committee and get something about the adoption program included on some of the "Welcome to Wikipedia" templates. We would also probably want to have a sort of "directory" of adoptors, indicating their specific fields of interest and abilies (graphics, writing, referencing, categorization or stub work, whatever). Badbilltucker 23:54, 5 October 2006 (UTC)

Interesting idea, but...

...please reconsider the spamming of user talk pages with this idea. It sounds good, but some users object to spam they haven't signed up for and the bandwidth required for creating it saps the project and the reverted spam polutes edit histories. Thanks. ➨ ЯEDVERS 20:28, 3 October 2006 (UTC)

...Wha? I have no clue what you're talking about...it's not like a newsletter, as you're insinuating. It's just another sentence on {{welcome}}, and, um...all in all, your comment makes no sense. Perhaps you could clarify what you were saying? ~ Flameviper 16:21, 6 October 2006 (UTC)

Bot

Maybe users wishing to adopt or be adopted should have the option of using a bot to give suggestions of who to adopt/be adopted by. The bot would go through userboxes and pick people who match up best. (obviously, it would be the people's choice whether to follow this advice or not).

Ilikefood 20:50, 4 October 2006 (UTC)

Um, yeah. I suppose if Adopt-a-User was something really, really important, we could make a bot...kind of like SuggestBot? You're thinking of something where it would pick users with similar interests? Well, that would be great, but SuggestBot is already popular...another bot that did the same thing for two different people and then took energy to compare the two would require some maverick programming, and a lot of power. But OK. ~ Flameviper 13:16, 11 October 2006 (UTC)

Main Page

Try putting something about it on the main page (or at the top of the community portal page). That would get plenty of attention for it. Ilikefood 16:31, 5 October 2006 (UTC)

I think you could get attention for this on {{welcome}} and possibly MediaWiki:Loginsuccess. Otherwise, go for it. Anything that helps newbies is good. >Radiant< 22:12, 5 October 2006 (UTC)

Wow, MediaWiki:Loginsuccess? That's one of the most prominent MediaWiki templates! Gee whiz! ~ Flameviper 20:49, 31 October 2006 (UTC)

Capitalisation

Shouldn't Category:All users involved with Adopt-a-User be called Category:All users involved with Adopt-a-user? --lEoN2323 20:27, 6 October 2006 (UTC)

No, the non-capitalised state of "user" in this project page's name was a capitalisation error on my part. Sorry. ~ Flameviper 13:14, 11 October 2006 (UTC)

Categories

Do we really need: category:Users adopted by USERNAME? If so, what is the top category? I've categorised Users adopted by Stevenfruitsmaak under "Users who have been adopted", should others do so too? Otherwise it leaves ugly redlinks.--Steven Fruitsmaak (Reply) 15:27, 7 October 2006 (UTC)

There is a discussion going on about this at Wikipedia:User_categories_for_discussion#Wikipedian_.22adoptions.22.--Steven Fruitsmaak (Reply) 22:03, 7 October 2006 (UTC)

I can respond to that; that whole category thing was a stupid idea that I decided to enact. It was supposed to be a hancy way of doing things, but really, it just wastes category namespace for at most, 3 actual pages. It was stupid to even consider; I'll remove it. ~ Flameviper 13:13, 11 October 2006 (UTC)

Users seeking adoption

There should be separate categories, such as 'Users wanting to be adopted', or 'Users seeking to adopt other users'. (I know, the category names are terrible, but I'm sure someone else could make up much better names for the categories.) Ilikefood 22:24, 9 October 2006 (UTC)

IRC Channel

Not sure if I should've or not.. but feeling bold, I decided to :) Hopefully we'll have hundreds of people flocking to #wikipedia-adopt on Freenode — Deon555^talk_Review 01:18, 18 October 2006 (UTC)

Sweet. Unfortunately, I don't have IRC :( ~ Flameviper 15:46, 18 October 2006 (UTC)

Category names

Per discussion], I have changed the names of all categories involved with the project to more apprpriate names. I've edited all of the templates and all pages involved (I think). Looks like a good project, I'll join in. --Daniel Olsen 03:56, 22 October 2006 (UTC)

I've also split Category:Wikipedians seeking adoption in Adopt-a-user into

• Category:Wikipedians seeking to be adopted in Adopt-a-user and
• Category:Wikipedians seeking to adopt in Adopt-a-user

to help facilitate the adoption process. --Daniel Olsen 04:18, 22 October 2006 (UTC)

Shweet. ~ Flameviper 16:46, 23 October 2006 (UTC)

Adoption complete

I adopted User:PStrait. Hooray for me! The Duke of Copyeditting, Bow before me! ^{You can't control me!} _{I'm a P. I.!} 11:44, 26 October 2006 (UTC)

Yay! ~ Flameviper 15:15, 26 October 2006 (UTC)

Length of adoption

Will these adoptions (with the accompanying adoption notices) be permanent? Maybe we should have something on WP:ADOPT that says: "once you feel that you have learned the ins and out of wikipedia, feel free to remove your adoption tag from your userpage and from you're adopter's userpage, but don't forget to thank him/her!" or something like that. Thoughts?

I hadn's thought about that. Good idea, go ahead and add it. ~ Flameviper 15:52, 27 October 2006 (UTC)

Esperanza

I got a link here placed on the Esperanza mainpage. Hopefully this will lead to more participation. --Daniel Olsen 02:59, 31 October 2006 (UTC)

Nice going, bud. And happy Halloween! ~ Flameviper 16:13, 31 October 2006 (UTC)

I joined because of it. Good job! Happy Halloween! Randfan 18:46, 31 October 2006 (UTC)

Is this wrong

I adopted two new users because I've had previous contact with them and after ____ weeks they still haven't done any real edits. Is this wrong? Please respond on my talk page. Randfan 18:47, 31 October 2006 (UTC)

I'm thinking about making an {{template:adoption_congratulations}} (see here) for these people. What do you think? Randfan 18:56, 31 October 2006 (UTC)

okay, I combined the adoptmessage template and the welcome template to create {{this}} ({{AdoptCongrats!}}). Tell me what you think. Randfan 19:59, 31 October 2006 (UTC)

Well, that's OK, but the colours are kind of abrasive. ~ Flameviper 20:45, 31 October 2006 (UTC)

you can edit it. Randfan 22:25, 31 October 2006 (UTC)

We already have {{adoptmessage}} for telling new users they've been adopted. If they haven't edited very much, well, that'll happen, but you should be there in case they have questions. Feel free to adopt another user or two if you'd like to help more. --Daniel Olsen 00:58, 1 November 2006 (UTC)

Criteria

Should we make some criteria for you to become an adopter? Like must have 150 main edits and must have been a user for a month and be a member of Ezperenza and the Kindness Comittee. Please respond on my talk page. Randfan 18:47, 31 October 2006 (UTC)

should there be a limit on how many users one can adopt (I say it should be a max. of 3 or 4) Randfan 18:49, 31 October 2006 (UTC)

I was thinking that you should only adopt one or two people. But yeah, there should be a limit. And yes, there should definitely be adoptioner requirements. Probably just being a member of Esperanza, that has its own requirements also. Good idea. ~ Flameviper 20:47, 31 October 2006 (UTC)

I made some rules for entering (currently 8) and we'll need someone to enforce them for those people who want join. I think you, Flameviper, would be the right person for this. Randfan 00:02, 1 November 2006 (UTC)

I really object to these and I've reverted the page until this is discussed further. --Daniel Olsen 01:16, 1 November 2006 (UTC)

The criteria were rather hastily enforced without consensus. I think we should talk about the criteria before slamming them down. After all, they were rather draconian, given that at least 3 of the rules excluded me. I don't think that adopters need to be completely flawless; certainly the "no blocks for a year" rule is going a bit overboard? ~ Flameviper 17:30, 1 November 2006 (UTC)

I agree I've made a new proposal here but I still included the no blocks rule (I hadn't read your thought until after the proposal was made).

News Letter

Can we make an Adoption Advertisement through a news letter to all members wishing to adopt. It should have a list of all non-adopted adoptees. Maybe we can advertise it at the Coffee Lounge or give it to users who we think are qualified for this but didn't sign up for it/don't know about it. Randfan 18:53, 31 October 2006 (UTC)

Excellent idea; I'd be more than happy to help out. anthony^[cfc]

Esperanza

Since when are we part of Esperanza? Memebers should not need to be part of Esperanza or any of its programs in order to participate here. What's with all of these requirements? "Must have a co-adopter, must have two co-adopters if you want more than 3 adoptees, 6 adoptee limit" Things lke this are why Esperanza's admin coaching is so backlogged. It really only takes one user to help another user, and who says one user can't help many others? And requiring participants to get a certain quota before being allowed to leave?? Please discuss changes like this on the talk page before you slap them onto the project page and semi-protect it for no reason. --Daniel Olsen 01:27, 1 November 2006 (UTC)

I agree. I'm adding a new subpage for the proposed criteria, here. ~ Flameviper 17:31, 1 November 2006 (UTC)

Page design

Hello how are you all? So I was being bold and changed the design completely, and I hope people don't mind. If you have any criticism or suggestion, please don't hesitate to slap my face :P. Cheers -- Imoeng 00:19, 4 November 2006 (UTC)

I like it, looks E@-ey, and blue is great for it. Randfan 22:11, 6 November 2006 (UTC)

It takes a hell of a redesign to make Flameviper lean back in his chair and say "holy shit". You, my friend, have done just that. Bravo. ~ Flameviper 16:11, 9 November 2006 (UTC)

New Adoptee

I have just adopted a new user. As far as I can see, this is the first time that this has happened, unless I am looking in the wrong place. If I am right, does this not mean that newbies are not being adequately directed to the help that many of them sorely need?--Anthony.bradbury 23:27, 12 November 2006 (UTC)

OK, I have found the right page, and I see that some newbies have been adopted; but not many, and I think my point remains valid; are they being adequately directed to this page?--Anthony.bradbury 00:09, 13 November 2006 (UTC)

Adoption Article

Also I have inserted an official link from the Adoption article here. If anyone can think of other pages that should have a link/redirect then either sort yourself or leave it here and I will sort it later. Cheers Lethaniol 18:10, 14 November 2006 (UTC)

Adoption Templates

Hi there, I have formatted all four adoption templates - I hope it makes easy reading and use. Also I corrected the final sentences of both Adoptee and Adopter template where they were the wrong way round. If someone could check my work it would be helpful - as obviously these templates are very important. Cheers Lethaniol 15:13, 15 November 2006 (UTC)

Whoa, Lethaniol!

That's a lot of headings created by you. Good work, though. Thanks. ~ Flameviper 19:39, 16 November 2006 (UTC)

Sorry did not realise I created so many headings - but I think each of the issues is important - and might deserve separate comments. Am really enthusiastic about this project - so you need anything doing leave a note on my talk page :):) Lethaniol 23:31, 16 November 2006 (UTC)

Thanks

I just got adopted and i think this program kicks ars thanks--"P-Machine" 07:28, 27 November 2006 (UTC)

Welcome Template

Need to get this project kick started - have requested on the template Welcome's talk page that a link to Adopt-a-User is put in. Surely that would be best to attract new users especially as this template is often used. Cheers Lethaniol 17:44, 14 November 2006 (UTC)

Have put in a further argument on this issue talk page. Lethaniol 18:20, 5 December 2006 (UTC)

Help:Contents

Have a link to WP:Adopt from Help:Contents. Lethaniol 15:43, 15 November 2006 (UTC)

This was removed as "unessential" - please follow help with discussion at Help talk:Contents. Lethaniol 18:08, 5 December 2006 (UTC)

Notifying new users of Adopt-a-User

Is it permissible to inform new (good) users of the existence of Adopt-a-User, and recommend them to join? I notice many good new users out there who need help, but don't know that this project exists, and would probably benefit the most from it. –- kungming·2 ^(Talk) 07:57, 27 November 2006 (UTC)

Absolutely. I have adopted two users, and since doing so, which is not all that long, I have had three new editors come to me with perfectly sensible questions which an adopter could have helped them with. I sorted them out, of course, but my point is that they were wholly unaware of the WP:ADOPT scheme.--Anthony.bradbury 14:27, 27 November 2006 (UTC)

I have also adopted two users (though unfortunately one turned out to be a sockppuppet of a permanently banned user) but found they weere both relatively experienced. Adoption should be targeted to the newest of users - and I see no problem in proactive in getting new adoptees A.Bradbury. If you dont want more adoptions you can always point them to WP:Adopt

See above, but I did recommend that WP:Adopt be part of the welcome template. OR we could change some of the warning templates to get more adoptions (though this might lead to more vandalism). Any other ideas people on how to advertise. Lethaniol 16:57, 29 November 2006 (UTC)

I was(am) adopted by Lethaniol the adopting god, and I guess my editing style was, well, as he put it "relatively experienced". To be honest, I was not all that experienced, but with Lethaniol's help, I quickly learned some of the "tricks of the trade" on how to become a better editor. The most important thing that Lethaniol taught me was that I should be ALWAYS ready to learn something new from ANYONE trustable and more experienced.

I took his advise and learned from the admin of the US History project, among others. Lethaniol really was(is) a GREAT mentor - I'm very glad that he adopted me and was willing to put up with my somewhat, um, unique, sense of humor and writing style....

oops.... forgot to sign: NDCompuGeek 20:49, 9 December 2006 (UTC)

Important - Future of Adopt-a-user

I, Flameviper, am the founder of this project. Unfortunately, I am currently busy in Real Life and won't be able to take care of Wikipedia things. Thus, I bequeath the title of adoption-master upon a successor. Who will be the new leader? I leave that to you. Good luck, ~ Flameviper 16:22, 30 November 2006 (UTC)

Things to do

As our founder has left us with the running of WP:Adopt, I suggest we come up with a list of things to do, so that the project can have some direction and progress goals. I will start with three suggestions, please add, remove, comment as necessary. Thanks Lethaniol 15:02, 5 December 2006 (UTC)

1. To finish the adopter criteria at this page.

   1.a.: Decide whether the "rules" are actually rule or guidelines, if we want them. Also figure out how strict, how to enforce them, how to decide "punishment"/"reward", etc.

   1.b.: Decide when to start to enforce them and create deadline for discussion to end.

   2.a.: If rules/guidelines don't become accepted, decide how this project is to be run

   2.b.: Repeat: #:1.a.:, #:1.b.:, and (maybe) #:2.b.: until majority is happy.

2. To increase Adoption awareness - by advertisement e.g. Wikipedia Newsletter, word of mouth and links to the project from places where new users will see e.g. help pages, welcome template etc...

   To increase number of adoptees to over 100 and adopters to over 50, currently 68 adoptees and 30 adopters at 15:02, 5 December 2006 (UTC)

   Figure out how to advertise and increase numbers.

3. Maybe create a page or common problems for new users and a place where a new user can post a question to all adopters. Kind of like the Help Desk or the {{{helpme}} but specifically to us (also have specific help instead of leaving a template on their talk). On this page we should have the question, the answer, and other comments or further questions posed which stemmed from this question. We should also have the answer left on the new user's talk page to make sure they get it.

   We probably should tell them how to respond to the user who helped them here because I've met some new users who didn't know how to do this.

   From an adoptee POV, what about naming the adoptee help desk {{{adopteehelp}}}? Appropriate, and easy to remember.... NDCompuGeek 20:49, 9 December 2006 (UTC)

4. Select a leader,if we haven't already, though I think we agree with Lethaniol being the leader. Also, confirm the name, some concerns are posted above or the archive (see below) about this.
5. Find a page for these project needs and their answers. Such as: Wikipedia talk:Adopt-a-User/To-Do List/future of Adopt-a-User.

—¡Randfan! 20:18, 5 December 2006 (UTC)

Good Idea - once we get a few more thoughts down here I think we should then move it. Lethaniol 12:19, 6 December 2006 (UTC)

Criteria.

Looking at the Wikipedia talk:Adopt-a-User/Criteria/Discussion fo exact rules, it seems we can all agree that:

• Adopters should be available often to help their adoptee(s).
• Adopters do not have to be members of Esperanza, Concordia, or Kindness Campaign.
• Adopters should not be current adoptees. (added current as I think that is what is meant Lethaniol 12:44, 6 December 2006 (UTC))
• Adoptees only need to have one Adopter (though they can have more).

I think also clear that agreement on the following but with the specific to be sorted:

• Adopters should not have any recent blocks or too many vandal warnings. (need to decide on length of time/number)
• Adopters should have a minimum number of edits (need to decide on number and if location important)

discussion

Have written up these decisions on Wikipedia talk:Adopt-a-User/Criteria/Discussion fo exact rules, please read and comment if you oppose. Lethaniol 12:44, 6 December 2006 (UTC)

Have added a note to that on the page, see that one if you want. —¡Randfan! 21:25, 6 December 2006 (UTC)

For the block guideine, I say we should have it somwhere from 45 days-3 months, though probably on the lower side. —¡Randfan! 21:33, 6 December 2006 (UTC)

Leader and hierarchy

As for choosing a "leader", who says we need one in the first place? Is Jimbo our leader? Wikis are collaborative and work by compromise and consensus. I don't think anything needs to change just because Flameviper, or any of us, gets busy. --Daniel Olsen 00:14, 6 December 2006 (UTC)

I agree (though I am flattered Randfan) - I don't believe that we should have a leader, or any hierarchy at all, and we should (like we have been anyway) aim for consensus. We need to have a group of users though who are happy to help out with the admin of Adopt-a-user - I being one of them am happy to any (but not all) of the dog's work :):) Lethaniol 12:19, 6 December 2006 (UTC)

I too think we should follow this but I had afriend who was looking over my shoulder as I was doing this and sugggested that I pt it down. He saidwe don't have to follow it but it didn't hurt to put it in there. I agreed and added, I don't think it should be decided by any one person and didn't see any harm so I added it. Of course that is quite hypocritical,on my part, due to the criteria thing :)... —¡Randfan! 21:16, 6 December 2006 (UTC)

archiving

I've just put Wednabot on the job to archive this page. I thought it was kind of long and should have an archive, even if I'm being a little preemptive. Do you think it was a good idea? —¡Randfan! 19:33, 5 December 2006 (UTC)

Fine by me Lethaniol 19:50, 5 December 2006 (UTC)

Me too, obviously... —¡Randfan! 20:22, 5 December 2006 (UTC)

After adopting...

Should we have something specific to do once we've adopted? I've been asking my adoptees if they need any help, so far with no reply, but maybe, as been mentioned before, we should have a certain page for questions as well as the adopters' talk pages. The only problem with this is that it would quickly become something like the Newcomers' Help Page, so what would be different about this page that would merit its creation? This also gets over the sort of awkwardness of personally contacting someone. Just an idea- CattleGirl ^{talk | e@} 02:22, 7 December 2006 (UTC)

I, too support this idea (see aove for suggestion). —¡Randfan! 02:40, 7 December 2006 (UTC)

Help space for Adopters

Hi guys - I am going to act on this soon unless there is some major issues.

I think a subpage where Adopters can put there experiences down, how they dealt with it, and whether anyone has any suggestions would be a good. I think this should be separate from the talk page, so that it is easier to navigate and does not get archived (would be able to manually sort it into different categories of problems).

In case any one is interested - I will be adding my dealings with suspected sockpupper adoptees - my first adoptee was banned for being a sockpuppet of a user who was banned for issueing death threats , my third adoptee is in the process of having a sockpuppet action gaining force againist them. Ah what a life... See my talk page :) Lethaniol 18:11, 7 December 2006 (UTC)

I like this idea (maybe we should have this and the thing above combined) and I have two adoptees (friends in real life, actually) and I want to help them but there never on. Should I "drop" them? This should probably be moved to that page. Oh, and it shold be called something like: wikipedia talk:Adopt-a-User/archives/diary/experiences and if the proposed page above is to be created but under another name it should probably be: wikipedia talk:Adopt-a-User/archives/diary/questions and answers. —¡Randfan! 00:45, 8 December 2006 (UTC)

Sorry, I was logged out onto a shaed network IP. —¡Randfan! 00:45, 8 December 2006 (UTC)

Hey I don't think there is any hard and fast rules as yet. Personally if I had 2 relatively inactive users, I would keep them on as Adoptees, and adopt others if I wanted. I don't think it is about how many adoptions you have, but about being able to help out the adoptee out appropriately. So if you take on a high-maintenance Adoptee it would be irresponsible and unfair to take on another until that one finds it feet. If you have x mature Adoptee who only need occasional help you may feel you can take on another. Hope that helps

I will add the issue you have brought up to such a page when it gets created - I think this is the sort of thing that will happen often. Cheers Lethaniol 00:52, 8 December 2006 (UTC)

Okay, thanks! —¡Randfan! 01:05, 8 December 2006 (UTC)

I think these are some really good ideas. If you've adopted users that are relatively inactive then there's nothing that should impair your 'adopting ability' (trying to think of a better term, hopefully you know what I mean) with more users. I agree that we should have a page for our experiences- CattleGirl ^{talk | e@} 02:35, 8 December 2006 (UTC)

I'm going to start a page, as it seems to be a very good idea- find it at Wikipedia:Adopt-a-User/experiences . Edit it there- and you may like to add more of an introduction as well- CattleGirl ^{talk | e@} 02:44, 8 December 2006 (UTC)

I thought it would be a good idea to create space where all the information for Adopters can be found see Wikipedia:Adopt-a-User/Adopter's Area, the Experiences bit is a sub page of this Wikipedia:Adopt-a-User/Adopter's Area/Experiences Lethaniol 13:35, 8 December 2006 (UTC) Now is this a good idea, or should all this information / links just be on the mainpage - i.e. is the subpage unnecessary? Cheers Lethaniol 14:44, 8 December 2006 (UTC)

I think we should keep it this way, though I must say, I would have liked it to ention "Diary" because that is a place where one is able to record their experiences... But this diary would be accessible to the public so they can use it as an "advise column". Should we sort it (meaning the Experiences page) all into "Adoptee issues", "Adopter issues", "Both" or something like that. For example, what we have currently could be cassified under "Adoptee isssues".... —¡Randfan! 21:36, 8 December 2006 (UTC)

link on main page?

Should we have a place on the main page like: {{/box-header|''Adopter's Area''|{{FULLPAGENAME}}/Adopter's Area|}} {{Wikipedia:Adopt-a-User/Adopter's Area}} {{/box-footer|}}

Or something... —¡Randfan! 21:41, 8 December 2006 (UTC)

I did and reverted it and did again and reverted it... If someone can do it correctly, lease do so. —¡Randfan! 21:51, 8 December 2006 (UTC)

What exactly are you trying to add? --Daniel Olsen 04:06, 9 December 2006 (UTC)

Nevermind, I figured it out. Does the links section at the bottom of the page work? Otherwise the adopter's experiences page would rather overwhelm our nice pretty formatting nad make ugly subtables. --Daniel Olsen 05:04, 9 December 2006 (UTC)

Moving this discussion

I propose that we do as the title says, for it's getting long and will be easier to check recent edits/comments/questions/answers to it if we do so. I will at the end of the UTC day, today, if no one objects. We can always revert and delete the other page... —¡Randfan! 21:51, 8 December 2006 (UTC)

On this issue of setting up the Adopter's area, I was thinking of waiting a few days - spending some more time developing/constructing the area - then linking from main page and leaving a note on every Adopter's page about the new area, asking them to visit and contribute. What do you think?

Also other areas to possibly add to Adopter's Area:

1. Adopter's tools including templates and common reference sources.
2. Future of Adopt-a-User and Things to do - though might want to mirror onto the main talk page.

Cheers Lethaniol 00:10, 9 December 2006 (UTC)

Ditto. —¡Randfan! 17:19, 9 December 2006 (UTC)

Offensive talk page notice?

What kinds of mixed messages are you trying to send here? This talk page uses red "shouting" at the readers as the very first thing they see. I would think a page like this would use something more refined, like {{consensus}} Rfrisbie^talk 20:50, 5 December 2006 (UTC)

I agree. If anyone disagrees, it can always be changed back. - Che Nuevara 00:45, 6 December 2006 (UTC)

I agree looks better, thanks Lethaniol 11:30, 6 December 2006 (UTC)

Ditto. —¡Randfan! 01:05, 8 December 2006 (UTC)

Welcome templates

The suggestion that a link to WP:ADOPT be included in the {{welcome}} templates has been suggested here by several users over several months. But it has not happened. I cannot see anywhere any negative comment, so why hasn't it happened? Who ultimately can decide the format of major templates such as these? And have they been asked to change them? Or can they be asked? So many questions, so few answers.--Anthony.bradbury 00:34, 6 December 2006 (UTC)

See Help talk:Contents and Template talk:Welcome. --Daniel Olsen 06:01, 6 December 2006 (UTC)

Also, if you've got your own custom welcome template (like I do), you can of course at it there. - Che Nuevara 06:16, 6 December 2006 (UTC)

Have asked on both pages - the Help:Contents can be edited by anyone, but the Template:Welcome seems to be Admin only. Could probably do with some help in the discussion at Help talk:Contents Lethaniol 11:26, 6 December 2006 (UTC)

Also see discussion at Wikipedia:Village pump (proposals)#WP:ADOPT which Anthony.B start up, cheers Lethaniol 15:05, 7 December 2006 (UTC)

Che, we haven't all got our own customised welcome page, though I may come and steal yours (unless you object). I would like to see the prompt included routinely on every welcome template.--Anthony.bradbury 20:45, 8 December 2006 (UTC)

If you look at the mainpage WP:ADOPT have made a slightly altered welcome template for use by anyone, though I would not suggest using subst as of yet Template:Adopt-a-User Welcome Cheers Lethaniol 00:05, 9 December 2006 (UTC)

Adoption or Sponsor or Mentor?

I think this is a great idea, but I have concern about the choice of the word adoption over sponsor. Adoption, in the sense of building families, is a permanent act. It creates what are known to some adoptive parents and children as forever families. I'd rather see the term Sponsor used. (I get the same way when people talk about adopting members of the military who are deployed overseas as well.) Just my two cents. --EarthPerson 00:16, 8 December 2006 (UTC)

I think changing the name of the program could have some strange consequences, but the title of the person (id est: Adopter/Adoptee) could work. I think Mentor might work... —¡Randfan! 00:49, 8 December 2006 (UTC)

It's funny that you suggested Mentor. I thought of the same thing not five minutes after I'd posted, but was already done for the day. --EarthPerson 15:28, 8 December 2006 (UTC)

I think the name's fine- I see what you mean about how adoption implies more of a permanent thing, but on the project page we can see it's not. I think we should leave it how it is, however I must say we can perhaps play up the mentoring side of the project rather than the adopting side. CattleGirl ^{talk | e@} 02:51, 8 December 2006 (UTC)

Thanks for your thoughts. I wish I'd found this earlier and could have suggested it earlier. --EarthPerson 15:28, 8 December 2006 (UTC)

I agree with CattleGirl. We could change some of the templates/welcome messages etc... to explain that adoption is a mentoring program - but I am not sure about changing titles like Adoptee to Mentee and Adopter to Mentor. Lethaniol 15:43, 8 December 2006 (UTC)

I'm good with that. —¡Randfan! 21:30, 8 December 2006 (UTC)

As an adoptee, I feel relatively permanently linked to Lethaniol the adopter god - but because of what he has taught me and shown to me through this program, not because of a stupid title. To be completely honest, I hope that Lethaniol and I will continue this relationship - mainly because I'm sure I will always have questions, and he will always have "seniority" on me! NDCompuGeek 06:31, 11 December 2006 (UTC)

Lol - I wish that was true - anyway when I finish my PhD and go to work in real world I suspect I will have less time for Wikipedia - sulk - then ND will gain more experience than I. Anyway that is not what Wikipedia is about - though experience matters in completing technical matters, more important is that everyone is equal with respect to their opinions, and even the newest of users can bring new information or have the best solution to a problem. Cheers Lethaniol 14:28, 11 December 2006 (UTC)

On a slightly different issue, I think there comes a point where adoptees should be encouraged to brave it on their own and even start adopting themselves. Hopefully the relationship will remain - and questions can be asked both ways. Lethaniol 14:28, 11 December 2006 (UTC)

Excessive adoption?

I have come across a user, or to be fair the user has been pointed out to me, who has adopted seven new users. The Adopter in question whom i will name on this page if any editor asks me to, has a total of 448 edits of all kinds at this time. I question whether this indicates a broad enough basis of experience to adopt anyone, let alone seven. One of his/her adoptees has come to me with help with a problem, being unable to get advice elsewhere.

I really feel that we should set minimum standards of experience for adopters. I know that this has been discussed elsewhere, but it needs to looked at urgently. I would suggest not less than 1,500 edits, excluding edits to the editor's own pages; at least six months editing; and no blocks (except fault-free autoblocks) for at least six months. There should also be a limit of say three adoptees per adopter at any one time. Comments, folks?--Anthony.bradbury 20:53, 8 December 2006 (UTC)

I think you set your standards are very high - if you got time also comment at Wikipedia talk:Adopt-a-User/Criteria/Discussion fo exact rules we can help push through the standards we expect of Adopters. I think the real issues that will come out of it are:

1. How long part of/how many edits/in what areas of wikipedia do we expect of our Adopters?
2. Are they rules or guidelines?
3. If we make them rules how do we enforce?
4. If we make them guidelines when do we tell an adoptee / adopter about an inappropriate situation
5. And finally who has the dirty job of doing this enforcement.

In this case Anthony, I suppose I would suggest having a chat with the Adopter concerned - being honest that a concern has been raised, but ask how the adoption process is working for them - without being to aggressive (blimey am I saying that?!?!) Cheers Lethaniol 00:21, 9 December 2006 (UTC)

Hello. I found one user who has 22. Now that's excessive. --EarthPerson 02:09, 9 December 2006 (UTC)

23. What's excessive about it? I'm on frequently and love to help. --Daniel Olsen 04:04, 9 December 2006 (UTC)

Nothing I suppose. There was no offense intended. My post here was simply a reply to Anthony.bradbury's post. Glad you are willing to help. But, I think I'll be taking this page off my watch list. It's nothing anyone has said; I simply object to the term adoption used in this context. I do find it odd that I'm the only one. --EarthPerson 04:19, 9 December 2006 (UTC)

Page2

Does anyone know why we have a second duplicate page of this project - see Wikipedia:Adopt-a-User/Page2. Cheers Lethaniol 18:27, 7 December 2006 (UTC)

I didn't even know it existed.... —¡Randfan! 00:48, 8 December 2006 (UTC)

Maybe for tests?.... —¡Randfan! 22:12, 8 December 2006 (UTC)

Anyone mind if it's deleted? Deleted. Was just a sandbox for formatting tests. --Daniel Olsen 04:09, 9 December 2006 (UTC)

Categories

The cateogries are a great way to find people involved with wikipedia or people to adopt, but we have to be careful to keep project pages out of them. I recently edited Wikipedia:Adopt-a-User/Templates to effectively subst the templates and keep them, as well as edit the main project page to remove another incorrect category link. Please keep these things in mind and always remember to change the {{Adoptme}} userbox to {{adoptee|Your Username}} when adopting so that other adopters don't get confused and accidentally try to adopt a user who's already been adopted. Happy editing, and happy adopting! --Daniel Olsen 05:14, 9 December 2006 (UTC)

Criteria

I think it's time to make a decision on the criteria found at Wikipedia talk:Adopt-a-User/Criteria/Discussion fo exact rules. The criteria listed have been there for a while, longer than the original 15 days, and there seems to be a consensus on most, if not all. Anyone else think it's ok? Just wanted to make sure- CattleGirl ^{talk | e@} 05:29, 9 December 2006 (UTC)

I agree. —¡Randfan! 17:10, 9 December 2006 (UTC)

I as well.--SUIT 21:36, 9 December 2006 (UTC)

Agree. –- kungming·2 ^(Talk) 05:13, 10 December 2006 (UTC)

Ok, I've gone through the page and have done either an approved/not approved/no consensus 'ruling', however feel free to discuss it more here- we also need some more input on the no consensus ones. We also need more input on Note 1. CattleGirl ^{talk | e@} 10:02, 10 December 2006 (UTC)

Thanks CattleGirl - I hope I have not stepped on your feet but I have basically archived the two current discussions, written up the consensus points and started debates on the specific issues that need to be resolved. If I have done wrong then add/change the info.

So people please go to Wikipedia talk:Adopt-a-User/Criteria, vote on the proposed criteria, raise any objections, and hopefully we can put this baby to bed soon. Cheers Lethaniol 13:54, 10 December 2006 (UTC)

That's great, Lethaniol. Looks like we've almost established our criteria! CattleGirl ^{talk | e@} 06:25, 11 December 2006 (UTC)

Tidy up Main Page

Have tidied up main page - so all the boxes look well formatted. Merged the two links boxes. But beware not great at code so may not be perfect :( - seems to work for me though on firefox 2 and IE 7. Cheers. Will hopefully get to expanding Adopter's Area now too - will add a Useful Information section - including template subsection. Lethaniol 15:44, 10 December 2006 (UTC)

Adoption program addition to "Welcome to Wikipedia" new user message

Everyone knows that new Wikipedians receive a welcome message on their talk page. It would be nice if a link to the adoption program were included in that initial message. CyberAnth 07:59, 11 December 2006 (UTC)

I see this has already been brought up at Wikipedia:Adopt-a-User/Adopter's_Area/Future#Welcome_templates. -- CyberAnth 08:01, 11 December 2006 (UTC)

Ah, but only new users that other suers have noticed AND sent a welcome message recieve one- another thing that would be good to work on, although there is a project on this already- Wikipedia:Welcoming Committee. CattleGirl ^{talk | e@} 08:04, 11 December 2006 (UTC)

Welcome Idea

• Lightbulb* IDEA! Ok, we've all been talking about how to get more users interested in the program, especially new users... Suggestions have been made to put it onto the official welcome templates, however we forget that there is something else we can do... our own personal messages! I propose that we create an Adopt-a-User welcome message that's extremely similar to the usual ones, except with a mention to the project in it. Discussion? CattleGirl ^{talk | e@} 08:09, 11 December 2006 (UTC)

Have made a slightly altered welcome template for use by anyone, Template:Adopt-a-User Welcome, it should be substituted Cheers Lethaniol 14:21, 11 December 2006 (UTC)

Have added it to the following page - Wikipedia:Adopt-a-User/Adopter's Area/Resources - which is Linked off Adopter's Area. Please add to the page as I am sure there is lots missing. —The preceding unsigned comment was added by Lethaniol (talk • contribs) 19:28, 11 December 2006 (UTC). Go away bot - I went back to sign - literally two seconds - and got in conflict with this bot - oh well - :):) Lethaniol 19:29, 11 December 2006 (UTC)

Adoptee's area

Started a new subject on the creation of an Adoptee's area similar to the one we are creating for Adopters - see Wikipedia:Adopt-a-User/Adopter's Area/Future#Adoptee's Area Cheers Lethaniol 18:27, 11 December 2006 (UTC)

Template:Adopting

I have fiddled with the Template:Adopting so that there is a link to the category of Adoptme users - so to make it easier for adopters to check if there is anyone needing adoption. I have tried my best. If anyone else can think of a way to write this in three lines have a go :) Lethaniol 12:35, 14 December 2006 (UTC)

Ah Flameviper has made a useful alteration, certainly makes it look "nicer" Lethaniol 16:33, 14 December 2006 (UTC)

Pride

Have just noticed that the Portuguese wiki has taken on the idea of Adopt-a-User - thought everyone would like to known - see pt:Wikipedia:Tutoria. Cheers Lethaniol 16:33, 14 December 2006 (UTC)

That's REALLY good- I've noticed more and more users are becoming interested in the project- it's really lifting off. Well done on all your efforts, everyone- this is working REALLY well. CattleGirl ^{talk | e@} 06:36, 15 December 2006 (UTC)

Criteria

Since we have unanimous support of the rules in their current version, I was bold and updated the main page. --Daniel Olsen 04:35, 15 December 2006 (UTC)

Thanks for that- CattleGirl ^{talk | e@} 06:37, 15 December 2006 (UTC)

Yes I think we reached consensus - have rewritten the main page version a bit - corrected block duration to 6 months and added vandalism. Also noted that was guideline and if someone did not meet then should ask on this talk page.

Cheers Lethaniol 10:29, 15 December 2006 (UTC)

Okay have updated the Adopter's Area too - with a bit more info too. Also have taken snapshots of the current adopters and users wanting to adopt, so can check new ones as they join.

Current Adopters:

• User:Amarkov
• User:Anthony cfc
• User:Anthony.bradbury
• User:CattleGirl
• User:Chris is me
• User:Culverin
• User:Daniel Olsen
• User:DarknessLord
• User:Dfrg.msc
• User:Editor at Large
• User:Flameviper
• User:Hunterd

• User:JoeSmack
• User:Kungming2
• User:Leon2323
• User:Lethaniol
• User:Llama man
• User:Lovelaughterlife
• User:Mikedk9109
• User:NCurse
• User:Pedant
• User:Randfan
• User:Rat235478683

• User:ReverendG
• User:Rockpocket
• User:Ryanpostlethwaite
• User:SUIT
• User:Samsara
• User:SaturnYoshi
• User:Stevenfruitsmaak
• User:The Hybrid
• User:Valrith
• User:VodkaJazz

This is information only: Out of these users all but 2 meet the 500 edits (the vast majority are well over 1000), and these two have 451 and 435 edits each - so I do not think there is any worry there.

Adopters seeking Adoptees (duplicates removed):

• User:CJ King
• User:ChrisGriswold
• User:CyberAnth
• User:Emperork
• User:Hello2112

• User:It's-is-not-a-genitive
• User:Miller17CU94
• User:Mr Rookles
• User:Philc 0780
• User:Skully Collins

• User:Tomtheman5
• User:Gray Porpoise
• User:Lawilkin
• User:Walter Humala
• User:Xiner

This is information only: Out of these users all but 2 meet the 500 edits (again the vast majority are well over 1000), and of those one has 204 edits, and one has 15 edits. I have taken the liberty of contacting the user with 15 edits and asking if they meant that they wanted to be adopted (have removed their adopting template for time being). I am not sure whether to contact the user with 204 edits or not (note of those 204 - 68 are of their Userpage, but 108 are of Mainspace).

Great! Good job, all! —¡Randfan! 21:00, 16 December 2006 (UTC)

Have started list currently at User:Lethaniol/Adopters, where I check all new adopters against the criteria - basically check talk page history for vandal tags, block log and total number of edits using Kate's tool [[1]]. Help there would be helpful, not sure whether to host such a page as a subpage of WP:ADOPT. Lethaniol 11:39, 17 December 2006 (UTC)

Absent adopter

Hello everyone, I’ve been recently adopted by a very nice and helpful adopter, but the problem is that he’s paying very little attention to me. I was adopted over a month ago and so far he responds to my queries after an average of 3 to 4 days, last massage was posted a week ago, and to this moment didn’t receive an answer. The adopter is very kind and informative, but since I’m here almost everyday I’d rather have someone more available to adopt me. I don’t know what I can do about it, I don’t want to offend my adopter. Does anyone have any suggestions? By the way, at this point I’d prefer to stay anonymous, thank you. —The preceding unsigned comment was added by 80.230.191.25 (talk) 22:43, 16 December 2006 (UTC).

My suggestion = explain to your adopter that though they are really helpful, that because they are not on all the time, but you are, that you would like a co-adopter (a second user to adopt you), so you can ask that user a questions if the other is not around. A number of adoptees have more than one adopter - either to help out a new adopter, or because an adopter is not around all that often. So if you want a second adopter - just put the Template:Adoptme back on your userpage, check with any new adopter that they are on regularly, and away you go. Hope that helps :):) Lethaniol 23:57, 16 December 2006 (UTC)

A reminder

Just a reminder that we've created a page for adopters to relate their experiences on Wikipedia, which can then be discussed and questions asked. This page can be found at Wikipedia:Adopt-a-User/Adopter's Area/Experiences, so if adopters and adoptees alike can go over there and contribute, that would be great. Thanks- CattleGirl ^{talk | e@} 08:25, 20 December 2006 (UTC)

Page of adopters

I think there should be a page here that lists all the users willing to adopt. It can have a "status" whereas they may not want to take on new adoptions for whatever reason (too busy IRL, too many adopters, etc) but would also list what they are especially good at here on Wikipedia and a "sales" pitch perhaps. That way new users can go "shopping" for an adopter on this list and not just sit and wait around for someone to post on their talk page, though that certainly could be how some do it and there's nothing wrong with it. At a minimum it should have the adopter's username, link to user page, status and a space avaiable for the adopter to write what they want, but they don't have to. Any thoughts? --MECU≈talk 15:55, 20 December 2006 (UTC)

I think there is some merit in this idea. Am currently busy with other aspects with Adopt-a-User, but if someone would design and promote such a page I would add my details there. If this could be done soon, if it is going to be done, could add into Adopter's Area and promote at the same time. Lethaniol 22:47, 20 December 2006 (UTC)

I think this idea is a good one- it means the adopter and adoptee are more similar- for instance, if an adoptee wanted to know more about vandal fighting, they'd choose a user that did a lot of that. However we have to advertise it a lot more and change the adoption userboxes to fit this page in- just some re-wording. I'll be glad to get started on the pages, though- any thoughts on the page name? Adopters Area or Adoptees Area? CattleGirl ^{talk | e@} 02:12, 21 December 2006 (UTC)

Erm I would say Adoptee's Area - as it is for there info - but it does not really matter because it will be easy to move. Thanks Cattle Girl Lethaniol 12:03, 21 December 2006 (UTC)

Good point, I'll start the page now. Find it at Wikipedia:Adopt-a-User/Adoptee's Area/Adopters. Change the name if you think necessary- CattleGirl ^{talk | e@} 03:55, 22 December 2006 (UTC)

Congratulations - 100 Adoptees on the books

Congratulations all - we now have 100 Adoptees on adoption - and thanks to all your hard work - keep it up. Onwards and Upwards - Lethaniol 18:49, 20 December 2006 (UTC)

Do you think it might be sensible routinely to survey our adoptees, say a month after adoption ,to find out what they expected from adoption and whether they got it?--Anthony.bradbury 21:46, 20 December 2006 (UTC)

Yes and no. In the near future once have fully developed Adopter's Area and Adoptee's Area - hopefully this next week - will leave a message on all Adopters and Adoptees talk pages linking to the new areas and asking them to contribute their experiences. So that should do for getting a survey and input of the current Adoptees.

In the future though I am not sure. Am already keeping track on all new Adopters at User:Lethaniol/Adopters, keeping track of all Adoptees will be even harder work! Maybe should change the Adoptee template to encourage them to use the WP:ADOPT pages or we could request that all Adopters after a month contact their Adoptee for feedback. But unless someone physically communicates with all the adoptees on their talkpages I think it will be difficult. Maybe we need to rely on the Adoptee to bring us a problem if there is one - see example a few sections above here. Also Adopters could be damaging if they don't help out their Adoptee but at the end of the day that won't stop their access to Wikipedia or its many other support mechanisms.

So the conclusion I come to is - generally no contact from Adopt-a-user centrally. Request Adopters encourage their Users to contribute here. Add Adoptee's Area link to Adoptee user template and Adopt-a-User Welcome messages. Lethaniol 22:44, 20 December 2006 (UTC)

I was actually planning to send out a happy holidays notice to my adoptees, reminding them that I was always there to help. The way I see it, the important part of this program is not to create a good social bond between members (that's what got esperanza MfD'd) but to always have someone to turn to when you have a question. --Daniel Olsen 00:16, 21 December 2006 (UTC)

Just to clarify - I totally agree with Daniel - it is the individual relationships that matter. But if things go wrong, or a adoptee wants other support they need to be aware of the WP:ADOPT central area where they can ask. Again see section a few above where one such Adoptee did. My suggestions above were only to try to find ways of promoting the Central area to adoptees (and adopters too) Lethaniol 00:37, 21 December 2006 (UTC)

Future page

No one is using this page: here, so suggest we carry on any discussions about the future of the program on this talk. Instead I will make a to do list which people can contribute to.

Have added a to-do page at top, which can be added to or completed. If have any suggestions for the future of the Adopt-a-User program add them into the discussion. On consensus (or already obvious) add to the to do list. Lethaniol 14:41, 24 December 2006 (UTC)

Great New PR for WP:ADOPT!!!

Simply go to Special:Log/newusers where you will see loads of new wikipedians! Wonnabees just like we used to be!!! Now paste {{subst:welcome123}} into their talk pages, its nice looking soft colored template. This new template refers them to the WP:ADOPT program and so far is working with great success!! I am working on proposing a welcomebot to put these templates on all new users that join wikipedias but first I would like to study the reactions to this new template. As you may know, going on a welcoming spree is something other wikipedians contest, so I need to study the facts. frummer 00:57, 28 December 2006 (UTC)

Welcoming users is fine, but the bot policy will interpert highspeed generic editing (such as sending a welcome template to everyuser) as an unauthorized robotic edit, and blocking may be applied. Requests to run an authorized bot for this purpose CAN be requested at WP:RFBOT. Having an account flagged as a bot is important to prevent the recent changes and new pages lists from being flodded. Thanks <From the bot approvals group>, — xaosflux ^Talk 02:05, 28 December 2006 (UTC)

Construction of Adopters and Adoptees Area complete

Well sort of - the structure is there and there is content in all the areas, but if people could go there and check out and do the following:

1. Copyedit out and silly errors.
2. Sort formatting out to make it look pretty.
3. Add content, in both Areas, to make it more useful.

Links to each section are now prominently shown in Intro box, on the main page.

Next Stage

I will add a message explaining the new Areas and services of Adopt-a-User to the talk-pages of the following:

1. All Adopters
2. All people who want to Adopt, or have shown an interest in the past.
3. All Adoptees.

May wait till first week in Jan - to 1. Make sure these areas are clean and tidy (please help) and 2. That people wont miss the message in the holiday period.

Cheers Lethaniol 02:48, 29 December 2006 (UTC)

This program

Am i the only one who feels this program encourages new user to be over be reliant on users and goes against WP:Be bold . I feel that new users shouldnt be mothered in this way and should be encourage to be bold and make use of the {{Help me}} template (Gnevin 13:47, 29 December 2006 (UTC))

This program is to teach new users skills to be bold with. Also, isn't using the helpme template relying on other users anyway? This gives the users more personal, long-lasting, and more specialized help then the helpme provides. Also, we are mentors, not mothers, and there is a very big difference. -- THL 14:54, 29 December 2006 (UTC)

Concur with THC - have you got a specific situation/issue that you have come across Gnevin that suggest excessive mothering. Also there are millions of users out there, one form of help and support will not be right for all of them = see [2]. Adopt-a-User is just offering another way to help users edit Wikipedia in a constructive way. Lethaniol 15:06, 29 December 2006 (UTC)

As an adoptee of the program, I feel that my adopter really did and is helping and encouraging me to reach out of my 'comfort zone' and try new things. For instance, even though I have only been actively editing for about two months, I have already started a portal, done significant edits for the US Military History task force, and tried my hand at template-making. If it were not for the assistance of my adopter, I definitely would not have even tried these things, let alone successfully wrote these articles and activated this portal.

My adopter has also taught me some of the basics of the Wikipedia philosophy, the most notable (that I got out of it) was that the article does not belong to me - I must let others make edits and let the community rule by consensus, not by the 'since I started the article, it's mine, and I won't let anyone else edit it' rule. He has also taught me that if I see something that needs fixing, just go ahead and fix it - be bold, but get the references!

I can see where Gnevin may be coming from. There are those that might become overly reliant on their adopter, not try new things, and not grow their abilities. In my opinion, the AaU program helps this kind of user to get more familiar with their comfort zone things, and with this familiarity become more willing and able to do more things sooner on the Wikipedia site.

In summary, yes, I probably needed a little 'mothering' to get me out of my initial "stagefright" and get to editing, but once I was encouraged to stretch my wings and write, my adopter has and is a great asset that I am very glad that I have. NDCompuGeek 15:58, 29 December 2006 (UTC)

Urgent Proposal - New Users seeking Adoption...

Hi everyone,

There is plenty of people looking to be adopted, so get to it. Anyway to the proposal:

As Adopt-a-user is becoming more popular, the Category:Wikipedians seeking to be adopted in Adopt-a-user is filling up fast. I am sure I am not the only one to notice that sometimes people create an account, use the adoptme template, and never return. Also people may get contacted by a few adopters, but still lag in removing the Adoptme template. So to try and make the Category easier for wannbe Adopters to use I suggest removing the Adoptme Template in the following circumstances -

1. With a new user, who has had very few edits, who adds the Adoptme template, and then over the next 3 days makes no further edits.
2. A new user, who has been contacted by two or more adopters, and who after 3 days has not removed the Adoptme template.

With both of these suggestions the user concerned will be told why the Adoptme Template has been removed, and that they are welcome to reinstate it. Unless anybody has any major objections to this, I will enact it a day or two. Cheers Lethaniol 09:23, 23 December 2006 (UTC)

As no one has objected I will enact this - especially as there are currently 22 people odd waiting adoption. Cheers Lethaniol 20:29, 27 December 2006 (UTC)

Further Help Required

Eh - have just cleaned up the backlog of people that fit the criteria above - but still have 25 users with the Adoptme template - and a bust category therefore. So how on earth are we going to keep this category ticking over, and not put off new adopters??? At least 2/3 of these new users have been contact by adopters but it takes time to check them. Any thoughts please??? Cheers Lethaniol 00:38, 2 January 2007 (UTC)

How do you adopt?

Well,how do you?~~GAURA~~ 00:37, 4 January 2007 (UTC)

I think the main project page states that. What specifically do you mean? —ScottyKnows 02:30, 4 January 2007 (UTC)

I'm back

Hello. This is Flameviper, saying that I'm back to my happy home here at Wikipedia. I had to leave here for a month or so, for reasons I will not discuss right now.

And for other reasons that I will also not discuss right now, I have realized that Wikipedia is the place for the Flamey Snake. So, without further ado, I'll discuss the current state of things.

As far as Adopt-a-User, I want to say that I am very proud of its current progress and that Lethaniol seems to be doing a great job at managing the ever-growing program. I must say that at first, I had some doubt at whether somebody else would be able to do the same thing I did, but after periodically checking in to see what Lethaniol has done, I am assured that Adopt-a-User is in safe hands.

Although Lethaniol is doing a great job currently, I don't think that one person will be eventually able to control the huge program. And so if you need any help with things, just call on me. I'll be there in a flash.

Lopng live Wiki, ~ Flameviper 15:02, 7 January 2007 (UTC)

Hi Flame - thanks for the compliments - but it was your ideas and hard work that got the program up and running - credit where credit due.

There is still lots of things to do with the development of the program, from updating the Adopter's and Adoptee's areas to coming up with a system that allows easy adoption for an increasing number of users that want it (see suggestion above).

Will up date the to do list properly tomorrow - with both development things to do and generally day-to-day stuff e.g. keeping the list at User:Lethaniol/Adopters up to date.

Anyway glad to have you back Flameviper, and I hope you and others will help take the program to the next level - a valued wikipedia project. Cheers Lethaniol 00:10, 9 January 2007 (UTC)

Lots of People wanting to be Adopted!

It is becoming obvious that as the Adopt-a-user program becomes more and more popular, the Category:Wikipedians seeking to be adopted in Adopt-a-user is becoming a bit cumbersome. This is because it is harder for newer Adopters to find people that they want to offer adoption to, and that some user seeking Adoption are currently not offered it. The solution mentioned above to remove the Template:Adoptme from users that have been offered multiple adoptions or been inactive since adoption offer – has worked to some extent cutting the numbers to about 2/3, but that still leaves 30 odd users seeking adoption and that number is only going to get bigger.

One of the reason for increasing demand has been the Template:Welcome123 which has advertised the program extremely well. I made an alteration recently [3] that removes the instructions on how to add Adoptme to a user page, and instead guides people to the WP:ADOPT page. This means new users will have to read up about Adoption, giving them more buy in, before learning how to be Adopted.

Another change I have made is to the Template:Adoptme itself, adding a link to Wikipedia:Adopt-a-User/Adoptee's Area/Adopters so that users can track down potential adopters themselves.

New Category Proposal

On top if this I have the following proposal:

Create new category for example – Category:Wikipedians seeking adoption with the Adopt-a-User that have already been offered adoption by one or more experienced users.

Create a new user box that Adopters replace the Adoptme user box with once they have offered Adoption to a user. This user box will obviously add that user to the category mentioned above.

Initially someone (likely me :( ) will have to go round and change these user boxes, but once people get into the swing the Adopters themselves can do this 10 second job. One of main advantages of this proposal is that it will still allow us to keep an eye on users that have been offered adoption but not adopted as yet, as well as leaving them a user box with links/info on how to request another adopter if they do not like the user who has offered adoption. The main disadvantage is the extra editing that each adopter has to do.

What do people think – yes or no? If no please come up with some other suggestions on how to improve the situation at Category:Wikipedians seeking to be adopted in Adopt-a-user. Again if no reply in a few days I will enact upon this. Also I will get on creating the required user box and category in the meantime. Cheers Lethaniol 16:23, 6 January 2007 (UTC):

I like the new category, but can we think of a shorter name? --TeckWiz^TalkContribs_@ 15:08, 7 January 2007 (UTC)

Okay I have enacted this - and there is now Category:Wikipedians having been offered adoption and Template:Adoptoffer - I have changes the Adoptee's Area to reflect these changes and I will update the other areas soon. Cheers Lethaniol 16:02, 10 January 2007 (UTC)

Contacting All Adoptees and Adopters

Right - have implemented Template:Adoptoffer - see above.

The next thing I would like to do is leave a message on all the users who are/or have been involved in the program to push up interest in the new Adopter's and Adoptee's Areas as well as boost interest. So for the following people I was thinking of leaving the follow info

• Current Adoptees

1. Tell them about the new Adoptee's Area
2. Ask them to add resources they found useful
3. Ask them to leave info on their experiences

• Current Adopters

1. Tell them about the new Adopter's Area
2. Ask them to add resources they found useful
3. Ask them to leave info on their experiences
4. Ask them to leave details here.
5. Explain the new Adoptoffer user box and sub cat.

• Adopters awaiting to adopt

1. Tell them about the new Adopter's Area
2. Ask them to add resources they found useful
3. Ask them to leave info on their experiences.
4. Ask them to leave details here.
5. Explain the new Adoptoffer user box/sub cat, and that they might need to approach users directly if they wish to adopt.

• Users who showed an interest in the program but never got involved (e.g. during setup loads of users left messages of support on talk page, see archive, but have not come back)

1. Tell about the success of Adopt-a-user.
2. Encourage them to come and look, and get involved.

Right any objections. I known this a bit like unsolicited spam, but I think it should be okay as a one off. Hence why I want to get all the information in there that needs to be there - anything missing. I will likely send out these messages on Saturday, and maybe could do we some help - please. Cheers Lethaniol 17:13, 10 January 2007 (UTC)

Wow, this will make everything a lot clearer and easier to browse through. I'll go through Category:Wikipedians seeking to be adopted in Adopt-a-user and change templates. --Daniel Olsen 05:37, 12 January 2007 (UTC)

Right have sent out message to all the last three cats on the list above, just need to get around to writing and sending out messages to all current adoptees. - anyone fancy helping out???? Cheers Lethaniol 15:42, 13 January 2007 (UTC)

Some questions.

How does adoption work? Do you keep an eye on them and offer advice when they make mistakes, or just wait until they come to you with questions, or what? How long does a typical adoption take? Dev920 (Have a nice day!) 11:42, 13 January 2007 (UTC)

Well here is my opinion - other opinions would be really welcomed. Generally I let the adoptee ask me questions, and keep out of their hair. If an adoptee does not ask many questions or has been silent for a while, I drop by their talk page give a friendly hello and maybe check out their contributions to see what they have been up to. Only if they are having obvious problems e.g. blocks, vandalism tags, conflict with another user, or minor things like not signing talk pages or using edit summaries will I seek to offer obvious advice.

In terms of the process of adoption the standard way seems to be to drop by the category for users seeking adoption, asking up to a couple of these users if they want adoption (you will generally not get a 100% success rate when you offer adoption - but should be prepared for it if it happens), wait for them to confirm on your/their talk page, confirm adoption by updating adoption templates, and then ask them what they would like help with. The adoption then continues either until:

1. The adoptee becomes suitably experienced to graduate from the program (for an average user probably between 1-3months).
2. The adoptee becomes inactive or does not respond to your offers of help.
3. The adoptee is unhappy with their adopter and wishes a new one or wishes to leave the program.
4. The adopter becomes unhappy with their adoptee - e.g. in the rare case that an adoptee is using there adopter to hide behind when they get into conflict.

The length of adoption is interesting because I have found that I get lots of simple questions early on, and then as the adopotee becomes more comfortable with Wikipedia less questions, but when you do get them they tend to be of a more involved nature e.g. dealing with conflict, setting up templates, wikiprojects etc.. or reviewing their work.

Well I hope that helps, Cheers Lethaniol 13:08, 13 January 2007 (UTC)

Yeah, that answered my questions. I'll go add myself to the list of adopters and find an adoptee. Thanks! Dev920 (Have a nice day!) 18:14, 13 January 2007 (UTC)

What to do when one adopter is not enough?

Hi! May be I am asking too much, but don't you think an adopted user can get tied down with only one adopter when he may need more than one. With due respect to my adopter (who has been very good to me so far), how do I request co-adoption. One may need more than one opinion, quicker answer to a question or wider area of expertise. Moreover this is program is a tremendous opportunity for new users like me to learn stuff and clear the doubts. Please Help! Mahalo!! --Vikas Kumar Ojha _{Talk to me!} 19:20, 14 January 2007 (UTC)

Hi Vikas - you are welcome to have a co-adopter - either put the {{Adoptme}} back on your userpage, and leave a message on you talk page stating that you would like a co-adopter for the above reasons (do not forget to tell your current adopter :):) ) or better yet search through here and contact an available adopter you like, yourself. Cheers Lethaniol 19:56, 14 January 2007 (UTC)

Thanks Lethaniol! I'll give it a shot right away. Hope my current adopter is not offended, as that would be very unfortunate. He has been good to me and we share many interests. I don't know if I can choose someone from the list who may be able to help me my way. I need someone, along with my current adopter, who can give me more time, take more interest in my work I am doing and also teach me what I don't know about WP with a planned approach. I see that you have a lot adoptees, is there a place for one more? Or may be you could suggest someone who can meet my inappropriately heavy demands. Just Kidding! :) Mahalo!! --Vikas Kumar Ojha _{Talk to me!} 03:23, 15 January 2007 (UTC)

I am a bit busy to take on another active adoption at the moment - I have no suggestions really - as far as I have seen the vast majority of Adopters on the list mentioned above are top-notch users. Have a look through them - if you see one or two you like approach them. Cheers Lethaniol 15:43, 15 January 2007 (UTC)

Taking a break from Adopt-a-user work

Hi everyone -

You may have noticed that I have been putting a lot of work into Adopt-a-user over the last two months - well now it is time for me to take a break and play around with other things in Wikipedia. I will stay as a very active Adopter and continue to Adopt new users, also I will continue with the following tasks:

1. Complete and send a message to all Adoptees as mentioned above.
2. Keep up to date the Adopter list at User:Lethaniol/Adopters.
3. Sort through Category:Wikipedians seeking to be adopted in Adopt-a-user and move anyone that has been offered adoption to Category:Wikipedians having been offered adoption i.e. change {{Adoptme}} to {{Adoptoffer}}.

I hope that someone will take on the developmental work and take Adopt-a-user to the next level. I am always here though if you need any help or advice. Cheers Lethaniol 14:05, 16 January 2007 (UTC)

Cheers, Leth. Good luck. ~ Flameviper ^{Who's a Peach?} 17:18, 16 January 2007 (UTC)

Wikibreak, possible retirement

I'm taking a long wikibreak while I contemplate quitting Wikipedia. I have adopted User:Xero Anarian, User:Darkest Hour (who may be ready for graduation), and User:Lazylaces. Do what y'all have to do with them. Peace, -- The Hybrid 04:10, 21 January 2007 (UTC)

• I'll take them. Are you okay with that? Peace. --James, La gloria è a dio 00:09, 22 January 2007 (UTC)

• • Yep, -- The Hybrid 04:04, 22 January 2007 (UTC)

Adopted

I have adopted my Grandfather even though I have been banned in the last 6 months. -- Punk Boi 8 05:46, 22 January 2007 (UTC)

I started the program 2 days after being unbanned :P

Don't worry about it. That rule's only there so we don't have little Willies on Wheels running around being a bad influence on other users. ~ Flameviper ^{Who's a Peach?} 13:33, 24 January 2007 (UTC)

Categorization and userboxes

Hello. I just wanted to let the people who administrate and edit this great help forum know that I have just gone through all the pages (at least the ones I could find) and categorized the pages under Category:Wikipedia Adopt-a-User. This way, it will be much easier to a) find all the forum's pages in one place, and b) update all pages using AWB if something needs to be changed in the future.

I also tweaked the userboxes very slightly by adding category suppression to them. This way the actual userboxes can be displayed on the templates page instead of a substituted version. This gives a "live preview" of the actual userboxes, which also helps to detect if anyone has vandalized the boxes. I have also tried to track down the non-user pages where these userboxes have been displayed and suppressed the categories on those pages (since they aren't users, the pages don't need adoption).

If anyone has any questions about what I did or would like more details, feel free to ask. I think this is a great idea for a program, and I have recently adopted three Wikipedians. I thought it would be nice to give back to the program a bit, too. Cheers! --Willscrlt (Talk·Cntrb) 03:14, 30 January 2007 (UTC)

Help:Contents

Just 2 links off the main page, that is! Huzzah! ~ Flameviper ^{Who's a Peach?} 17:27, 31 January 2007 (UTC)

Page reworked

I recently alphabetized the adopters list. I hope I didn't make any errors, but it might be worth examination from a second pair of eyes. Dar-Ape 01:00, 14 February 2007 (UTC)

Criteria for adopting

I think that those who have been blocked from editing in the past 6 months because they have used a proxy such as Google Web Accelerator should still be allowed to adopt. If they already are, that needs to be specified. —The preceding unsigned comment was added by Jesin (talk • contribs) 18:42, 19 February 2007 (UTC).

Eh, clearly such a thing would be allowed, I would think. Apply common sense--we want to avoid instruction creep. --Sopoforic 06:38, 20 February 2007 (UTC)

Backlog

Hi guys,

I see there is a growing backlog at Category:Wikipedians seeking to be adopted in Adopt-a-user, any ideas on how to sort this, some suggestions to get the ball rolling:

1. Recruit more Adopters
2. Encourage all Adopters to take on one or more new Adoptees

Not sure if these ideas will work but certainly needs something done! Cheers Lethaniol 16:38, 5 February 2007 (UTC)

How rigid is the 500 edits criteria? And can you count edits on other wiki projects.Urbane User (Talk) (Contributions) 22:00, 9 February 2007 (UTC)

Not particularly strict - if you discuss on this page first. If someone has plenty of experience on other wiki projects where the policies etc... are similar then I am fine, and I sure many others, would be fine in them adopting. Cheers Lethaniol 23:35, 9 February 2007 (UTC)

I would like to adopt a user. I do not yet have 500 edits on wikipedia, but i do know it's policies and techniques, and i laso have significant experience on wikibooks. Would it be okay for me to get involved in this way? Urbane User (Talk) (Contributions) 18:34, 22 February 2007 (UTC)

Yes I think that would be fine but I suppose there is one proviso - IMHO you need to be editing on Wikipedia regularly i.e. every day or two so that you can respond to any questions that your adoptees might have. Cheers Lethaniol 20:10, 22 February 2007 (UTC)

Even if not actively editing i am always able to respond to messages each day. though i try to edit each day Urbane User (Talk) (Contributions) 11:38, 23 February 2007 (UTC)

Using AWB

I see no problem with it, however, I just want to make sure it's okay to use AWB to change {{adopt me}} to {{adoptoffer}} on their user page. Is it? --TeckWiz ^ParlateContribs_@ 03:07, 3 March 2007 (UTC)

I don't see anything wrong with it in principle, but wanting to use AWB implies you would be offering adoption to a plurality of users, and you should be careful not to offer adoption to too many users at once. I know you are a capable person, though, and I'm sure you have it well under control. Dar-Ape 03:41, 4 March 2007 (UTC)

It doesn't seem like adopties are that active. I usually get only one question per day. I guess they're still getting into Wikipedia. So, I have plenty of space for people. --TeckWiz ^ParlateContribs_@ 03:59, 4 March 2007 (UTC)

I do not see a problem with using AWB (though you should be using something like the piped link templates: {{Adoptoffer|Lethaniol}}. Obviously I too have quite a few adoptees, but I find that their question load is low. Hence when I offer adoption I normally do so to a handful of users (4-8), because although the initial workload will be high, it soon drops off. Cheers Lethaniol 12:10, 4 March 2007 (UTC)

Inactive users

Some people like WillStott (talk · contribs) make only a few edits, sometimes only to their userpage and within a very short period of time, add {{adoptme}} to their userpage, and then leave. These users, as in this case, show little or no interest in the project and seem unlikely to return, but fill up Category:Wikipedians seeking to be adopted in Adopt-a-user and make it more difficult to identify active users who need assistance. Is there a solution to this other than removing {{adoptme}} from dormant users' pages? If not, how long should one wait before doing so? Dar-Ape 17:24, 24 February 2007 (UTC)

I'd say after a week, certainly two, just remove the adoptme. If they come back they can re-add it. --MECU≈talk 17:32, 24 February 2007 (UTC)

This was the main reason why I created Template:Adoptoffer so that users with very few edits could be offered adoption, but not clog up Category:Wikipedians seeking to be adopted in Adopt-a-user. So please everyone replace {{adoptme}} with {{adoptoffer}} when offering adoption. Cheers Lethaniol 10:59, 7 March 2007 (UTC)

I dumped my adoptee

I noticed a new user, Saikano who was getting in some minor trouble and was listed as seeking adoption. Unfortunately, he showed little interest in improvement, so I have "dumped" him. Is there any procedure for this aside from removing the userboxes? —dgies^t_c 02:17, 7 March 2007 (UTC)

No procedure really as the programme is still quite new. Generally I try to keep an adoptee on, even if they are getting into trouble, and try and steer them onto the right track. Of course, if this has failed, and the user has obviously no intention of improving their conduct, then I would suggest leaving a polite note on their page telling them what you are doing and why. Also include that if they wish another adoption they can put {{adoptme}} onto their userpage, but suggest that they will need to want to improve their outlook if they want a successful adoption. Then remove the adoption templates from yours and their userpages.

Basically, and I have had some experience with "bad" adoptees, including sockpuppets, I always try to assume good faith and give the adoptee every reason to come back to WP:ADOPT if they want to improve their conduct. Hope that helps. Cheers Lethaniol 10:56, 7 March 2007 (UTC)

Yeah I tried several times to point him in the right direction, but it seemed all he wanted to do was work on his user page. See his talk page history if you want the gory deatils. —dgies^t_c 18:23, 10 March 2007 (UTC)

Boosting Adoption

Hi there everyone,

As you may have noticed Category:Wikipedians seeking to be adopted in Adopt-a-user is quite "full". Has anyone got any creative ideas on how to get more people adopted?

My only idea is to leave a message on all adopters user talk page requesting that they take on more adoptees (especially as most adoptions go quiet after a few days). Thoughts please. Cheers Lethaniol 16:02, 10 March 2007 (UTC)

Go on an advertising campaign. Tell friends and family. Hit up all the admins you know and tell them to Adopt-a-User. The Jade Knight 09:09, 11 March 2007 (UTC)

Not all prospective adoptees seem to understand how the system is supposed to work. Over the past week I have offered adoption to six editors, and only one replied. At all.--Anthony.bradbury 14:44, 18 March 2007 (UTC)

I have similar experiences Anthony - I normally offer adoptions in batches of 5-10, but find only about 1/3 reply. This probably for two reasons.

1. That new users will sign up for the adoption service, and then get bored of Wikipedia - hence why we have the category for users who have already been offered adoption.
2. That the user had been waiting so long for an Adopter to offer adoption that they have got bored.

Now I think the first problem has been dealt with, but the second one does need sorting and that is what this section and the section below is about. Cheers Lethaniol 14:24, 19 March 2007 (UTC)

Waiting for adoption

Is there any way of listing those seeking adoption in date order of when they asked for it, instead of alphabetical order? I've offered adoption to a couple of people but had no idea whether they had been waiting for a much longer, or shorter, time than others. (I tried to avoid alphabetical bias by starting in the middle...) Thoughts? Bencherlite 22:43, 17 March 2007 (UTC)

Not a bad idea. Perhaps the template could include a date field, or something? In my case, for the record, I actually started at the back end, and included a bit of randomness to try to avoid alphabetic bias. The Jade Knight 00:12, 18 March 2007 (UTC)

Well, I am a sort of technological wizard if I do say so myself. I'll see if I can come up with something that fits the bill. Ok? Zazzer 14:33, 18 March 2007 (UTC)

Usually to make the template include a date field we need a bot. --Deryck C. 04:26, 19 March 2007 (UTC)

This sounds like a good idea if someone can make it. Ideally we should try to keep the number of people looking for adoption low though - say less than 20 - that way this wont be an issue. Cheers Lethaniol 14:01, 19 March 2007 (UTC)

I believe some other templates that use dates do it by making a wrapper template that you subst, which includes the real template and some magic words as parameters. I've never made a template, but as I understand it, it wouldn't be that hard to add auto-dating to the template. --Sopoforic 09:49, 20 March 2007 (UTC)

How can an adopter choose suitable adoptee?

We can sort them by language, issues and some other criteria. For example if adopter and adoptee have the same language - when non of them are native speakers of English- or both of them participate in the same issues it can be more helpful and successful. For example I'm persian therefor I can adopt persians better than the other.--Sa.vakilian(t-c) 08:49, 20 March 2007 (UTC)

I suggest to make a form for who seek adoption and ask him/her language, time zone and some other important issues to help adopter with finding more appropriate one. --Sa.vakilian(t-c) 09:47, 20 March 2007 (UTC)

I got confused

I can't understand the difference between Category:Wikipedians involved with Adopt-a-user#Pages in category "Wikipedians involved with Adopt-a-user" and Category:Wikipedians who have adopted in Adopt-a-user--Sa.vakilian(t-c) 08:44, 20 March 2007 (UTC)

The first should contain everyone involved in Adopt-a-user, adopters and adoptees alike (though most should be found only in the subcategories. I wonder why they're not). The 2nd is only those who have adopted others, not those seeking to adopt or adoptees. The Jade Knight 23:07, 28 March 2007 (UTC)

Does this give the wrong idea about Wikipedia?

It seems like a program like this may give new users the wrong idea that Wikipedia is a social networking site rather than an encyclopedia. Is there some purpose to adoption that can't also be served by the normal type of feedback that editors will get from other editors? Friday (talk) 23:25, 28 March 2007 (UTC)

There was a little discussion about this in the archive of this page, see [4]. If anything, through the adoption program, it should be made clear we are not a social networking site, along with all the other policies. Not everyone learns the same. If we can convert a few extra, different-types of members that might have not stuck around otherwise, then the program has benefit. --MECU≈talk 01:58, 29 March 2007 (UTC)

How to find a suitable adoptee?

I am looking into adopting a user, but to make sure my first experience with the project is a good one, I'd like it to be a user in a specific field of interest. I don't want to be unable to help them out because I happen to be clueless on the subjects they edit. Has anyone found an easier way to find adoptees that do not involve checking every user who is seeking adoption by hand? - Mgm|^(talk) 12:37, 24 April 2007 (UTC)

I don't know of any way to do this other than checking each user by hand, but in my opinion, it's not that important. The questions an adoptee will have won't be along the lines of, "I'm confused about the different styles of artwork used during the Renaissance." They'll be more along the lines of, "How do I add references/images/etc. to a page?" or "What do I do if XYZ keeps reverting my changes?" You should be able to answer those questions regardless of the field of interest.

Even if the question is something like, "Is XYZ notable enough to warrant its own article?" you can provide information on notability policies, and let the adoptee figure out the answer themself. —P^urpleRA^IN 15:54, 24 April 2007 (UTC)

New member

Hi there, I've just signed up for this program and have also recently 'graduated' as an adoptee of coelacan, who feels I am ready to adopt other users. I am very interested in supporting and encouraging users who wish to become part of the project.

I have offered adoption to a few people on the list and notice that there are some who have been on quite a while and wonder if there is a way to sort the list by date so that those waiting the longest can be contacted in a more timely fashion.

I also noticed the above thread re: a waiting period before becoming an adopter. Does anyone have a problem with me jumping right in?

Thanks!--killing sparrows ^(chirp!) 04:38, 24 April 2007 (UTC)

I have no problem with you 'jumping into' adoption, seeing your edit list I do not believe that there would be a problem with you adopting a user, if you feel up to it. Urbane User (Talk) (Contributions) 05:59, 24 April 2007 (UTC)

I agree that sorting potential adoptees by date would be helpful. I think what probably happens sometimes is that someone signs up, but is not adopted for a while, and figures things out on their own, or with the help of others. They never bother to remove the userbox/category, and stay on the list, even though they've been active on Wikipedia for a while. —The preceding unsigned comment was added by PurpleRain (talk • contribs) 15:34, 24 April 2007 (UTC).

As one way of dealing with this I have left a message offering adoption on a few pages and also said something like...I see you've been around awhile, if you feel you no longer need adoption you could remove the 'adoption' tag from your user page. Still, it would be nice to have a chronological list. I was offered adoption within a few days of posting my interest but some have been waiting for months!--killing sparrows ^(chirp!) 16:29, 24 April 2007 (UTC)

I'm one of the newbies happily being adopted by a chinese bird killer like killing sparrows. ;-) I'm not a newbie to Wikipedia, English simply is not my first language which makes contributions difficult. Sometimes I just don't understand the abrvs on help pages. Tonight I suggested to adopt the adoption system to de:WP. Isn't that a brilliant interwiki idea? --MrsMyer 00:59, 27 April 2007 (UTC)

I don't know....

I'm wanting to get more involved in Wikipedia, and have been doing a considerable amount of vandal fighting over the past fortnight. I've been contributing for some time, mostly anonymously, though I can certainly say my first edit was 31st Dec 2005. I registered a username with which I made my first edit 22/03/06, but I have abandoned this account some time ago because it is a pseudonym that is very easily associated with me generally, and anybody could find out my home address etc just using my username and a simple WHOIS. If anybody needs to know, I will tell them that old username, if they ask by email. So that's why I've abandoned my old account.

I'm not big on writing articles outside my own knowledge, I will find, fix, and correct articles within my limited knowledge. I'm fighting vandals. I am a reasonable person with fairly sound judgement, and a cool temperament; I can deal with vandals and their friends without getting into a rage. I'd like to get more into copy editing, and am usually open for discussion on any issue. I'd rather a discussion than an attack.

Anyhow: should I adopt, or should I be adopted? Or, would it be best for me not to get involved at this point? Jsc83 23:30, 25 April 2007 (UTC)

In my opinion, if you want to adopt, you ought to be fairly familiar with policy, so that you'll be able to help your adoptee when they ask questions. You should probably also be ready to give general advice about the articles your adoptees are working on.

The edits in your contrib history are mostly (entirely?) vandal-fighting; based only on that, I'd say that you probably aren't ready yet to adopt. You say that you've been around longer, though, so you may already know enough, but if you haven't been involved in any of the processes previously, you ought to look around project space, to be sure you understand the main processes a new editor is likely to encounter (probably WP:AfD, WP:CSD, and WP:FUC; WP:DR might be a good idea, too).

If you'd like to try being adopted for a while first, just to be sure, I'd be happy to adopt you. My current adoptees are very quiet, so I was about to go looking for someone else to adopt, anyway. If you do choose to become an adopter, then please also feel free to ask me if you need any advice. --Sopoforic 01:45, 26 April 2007 (UTC)

Thanks for your kind response. Upon consideration though, I feel that while I may not have all the knowledge yet to be able to adopt a new user, I don't think I need to be 'adopted' either. I have studied the policies and guidelines many times over many months, I know what they are and why they are there, though I haven't really put them into practice.

This account has mainly been used for vandal-fighting, yes, but that is mostly because it is so easy. Vandalism can be spotted a mile off (especially with the tools by Lupin), and I can do it while concentrating on something else, like TV. I've created at least one stub article, such as Evening Star (Ipswich). This is a paper based in my town, it's been around for over 100 years, I know it well as my family used to (and still) buy it daily for as long as I can remember. I remember taking a tour at their offices as a school trip when I was about ten! So I want to create that article and make it both interesting and informative. I've held back pending a response from them after I requested some information on their history, notable campaigns etc.

Back on track, my point is that while I'm not doing everything right now, I'm aware of what's happening. I'm not creating or improving many articles factually, because I haven't got much new to contribute right now. Most of the subjects I know anything about exist, and usually teach me a thing or two! I'm not an outspoken person anyway, so I won't jump into a discussion or debate where I don't need to. If I know something is wrong, I will probably add my two cents.

I think I'll just abstain from the adoption programme right now. I feel I don't qualify at this time to either be adopted or an adopter. Cheers though, made me think about my role on WP more. I wish this project every success. Jsc83 20:25, 27 April 2007 (UTC)

Adopter who has been blocked

Zazzer has recently been blocked, but has 4 3 adoptees, which seems to violate the general guidelines for adopters. Should anything be done about this?? -- Whereizben - Chat with me - My Contributions 20:26, 28 March 2007 (UTC)

Well, something should probably be done. At least leave a message on his talk page and give him a chance to explain himself. The Jade Knight 23:04, 28 March 2007 (UTC)

They only have 3 current adoptees. One in the list graduated. I would say a block is a block is a block and we should de-list them as an adopter and spread out the remaining three over other willing adoptees. I'd be happy to take one of the three. --MECU≈talk 23:18, 28 March 2007 (UTC)

I was thinking that myself. As for explaining, pgk has repeatedly warned them about copy violations, which they seem to have ignored, which is why pgk blocked them, from what I can see. I could probably take a person on, but I am not certain I am experienced enough yet, so I would defer to the judgement of others. -- Whereizben - Chat with me - My Contributions 13:07, 29 March 2007 (UTC)

He/she seems like an untrustable person for something like this, and when I went to his/her talkpage he/she said that he/she had retired from Wikipedia. Dreamy 14:57, 28 April 2007 (UTC)

is this still a problem ? if so we can always have multiple adopters to each adoptee to relieve the amount of work for each of them. Matthew Yeager 05:30, 30 April 2007 (UTC)

re: Adoption program

Hi all,

I've been going through the list of users seeking adoption, just kinda browsing it to see what the users are like and such and I've noticed a few things.

• There are more than a few users who have had their names on the list for some time, even months!
• There are some users who seem to have tons of user boxes (including the adoption box) and few if any other edits.
• There are some users with the box who have zero edits and seem to have 'left' WP.
• There are some users who have tons of UBX's and tons of edits and seem to have found their own way around.
• There are some users who have tons of UBX's, and tons of edits, but their edits are mostly vandalism and/or edits mainly on other user pages

So I was thinking how we might deal with all this and promote the program and help improve WP. I am a great believer in the program because it helped me when I started out here. I think there are many new users who may have much to contribute but are put off by a variety of things such as learning wikimarkup, getting a first edit or article slapped down with abrupt comments (whether intentional or not), or terse references to WP:THIS or WP:THAT, etc. I'm sure you all know what I mean. Adopt-a User is the best system I have seen here to help newbies over the first few months and allow them to become valued contributors.

WP is probably at the point where many of the articles that need to be written are already here and perhaps now we could use the input of people outside the mainstream of the internet, both to write the articles that are in addition to those needed and to help maintain and expand the existing ones.

My mom is 73 and has a wealth of info and references on quilting (history, styles, 'famous people' in the quilting world) and is a great typist and copyeditor, but she wouldn't stand a chance in an AfD debate or edit war, and she is just one example. These people may come here and for a variety of reasons not be encouraged or welcomed and supported. I realize that some of this spills over into civility and other problems, but I see that this program is a place to start. So here are some ideas I have thought of...

• Try in the next month to go through all the names on the list and offer adoption or at least find out if they are still interested.
• Try to recruit new adopters.
• Partner with the Welcoming Committee and Help Desk to promote the adoption program to new users.

I have ideas about all these things and I don't mind being bold but I'm also new here and don't want to be seen as trying to take over or anything like that. Wikipedia, to me, is a great example of what the WWW was supposed to offer in the way of collaboration and connection between people. Although I'm very new to the program I am a big supporter and plan to be a part of this for a long time and I want to see it grow and become a valued resource. So I want to start a dialog here. I am willing to do much of the work but would like to hear your thoughts and advice on this. Thanks!--killing sparrows ^(chirp!) 06:31, 27 April 2007 (UTC)

Look at all the discussions on this talk page. The problem is that no one knows how this is supposed to work. The concept is vague, we're meant to mentor and show new users how to take part and function well on Wikipedia. Most of the program depends on both adopter and adoptee to go and take part in the adoption process, and it doesn't really help when everyone appears to be timid or waiting for the other to pick. It looks like you need to initially know WP:BOLD to take part in this, but that policy is the fundamental part of what one would learn from this. There isn't really a guide or a streamlined way to do this. This needs to be revised thouroughly. - Zero1328 _Talk? 13:07, 27 April 2007 (UTC)

Absolutely. I think our biggest problem is that the "founder" of this program is now indef banned and no one else feels ownership of it. Everyone also seems too timid to assume ownership. I like killing sparrows's ideas; maybe he/she would be willing to take "ownership?" One thing we need is a better description of the adoption process, without ambiguity. Who is responsible for contacting whom, when? If we are going to have people doing some of the tasks described above (contacting "expired" adoptees, recruiting new adopters, etc.), who will that be? What "qualifications" must they have? How often will they perform their duties? How will they be selected?

I don't have the extra time to devote to this, but I propose that someone who does, writes up a set of concrete rules/policies related to Adopt-a-User, and those who are active here can comment on them or tweak them as necessary. When we've come up with something solid, then maybe we can appoint/elect/affirm/whatever someone or several people to be "moderators" of Adopt-a-User, responsible for ensuring that everything is going smoothly.

And I think partnering with the Welcoming Committee/Help Desk is a great idea, but it shouldn't be pursued until we've figured out what we're doing here; otherwise we'll end up with an influx of potential adoptees, and even more confusion.

What do others think of these ideas? Is anyone willing to step up and try to solidify Adopt-a-User? Any thoughts on how/who we should select our moderators/overseers/whatever?

—P^urpleRA^IN 14:44, 27 April 2007 (UTC)

I don't think that it's necessary for anyone to 'own' the Adopt-a-User project. We should be able to come to a consensus about any issues we may have without needing any authority figure to tell us what to do; that's how Wikipedia works, after all.

If you (or anyone else, of course) have any ideas about what things might need changed, by all means, make up a proposal so that we can discuss it. I may even do this myself, after I've read over what instructions we do have. I don't remember having any problems (I just picked a couple of people and offered to adopt them, as far as I remember), but it's possible that the instructions aren't very clear. --Sopoforic 17:24, 27 April 2007 (UTC)

Sorry, a poor choice of words on my part. When I spoke of "ownership," I meant someone (or several people) who's willing to invest the time to ensure that Adopt-a-User is working well: Matching people up when necessary, weeding out those adoptees who are no longer around, recruiting adopters, etc. Someone who knows what's going on overall with the program, and can confidently answer questions that come up. That's what is lacking right now.

I'm not trying to imply that this program isn't working at all; it is just somewhat disorganized, and I think it could benefit from a little more structure and intentional guidance. As I mentioned above, I don't feel like I have the time to write a proposal right now (although I might in the future), but I would happily welcome any proposal you or anyone else might write. —P^urpleRA^IN 18:55, 27 April 2007 (UTC)

I think what you mean is something like a leader. Like Jimbo, for example. They don't really own it, but they can help guide and advise the community when they need the help. We lost our "leader" a while ago, and even before that he stopped working on this project, so it was left relatively incomplete. We need someone to fill in those shoes. - Zero1328 _Talk? 22:15, 27 April 2007 (UTC)

Re Imagining Adopt-a-User

Background

I was adopted by User:Coelacan in February (I think), and with blessings was graduated and have now adopted 5 users. My experience is limited but perhaps reflects what others have had. If not, please point out where your thoughts, experiences and expectations differ.

I asked about a dozen questions over the two months I was in the program. You can see my Q's and Coelacan's A's here.

You can see my current adoptee talk pages here and here

I had no previous experience with WP, not even as a reader. Don't ask me how that happened as I am a true information junkie, although I have spent a good part of the last 5 years doing volunteer work in Nepal. There is Internet access there but it is slow and uncertain and I used it mostly for email. I had previously been pretty active on the web, had a web page, etc. so wikimarkup wasn't a foreign language.

I immediately ran into some issues that I had no idea how to deal with and wanted to learn and ended up in the program and got great, detailed and specific advice. I started hanging out in AfD because I sent some articles there and was then inundated with all the WP:THIS and WP:THAT and so I read the policies and guidelines and looked at the articles nommed and the arguments for and against and picked it all up pretty fast.

I was and am still struck by the in-group atmosphere that prevails here. I am not being critical of anyone or anything except that I see this atmosphere as something that may be discouraging and driving away people who have something to offer WP. I have great respect for and gratitude to those who have built WP, I think this is something that is way bigger and more important than perhaps many of us realize. I admit I am a dreamer and have high expectations of my fellow wo/man, but most of the time when I assume the best of others and let them know it, I find my expectations are met.

The reason I want to be involved with Adopt-a-User is to encourage and support those people who, if assisted a little bit early on, might become useful contributers to this project, and through this project help make this world a better place. That might sound weird or fantastical but I think WP really has the potential to be part of the change the world needs.

I am saying all this to both tell you where I'm coming from and to tell you where I would like to go with Adopt-a-User, and also to show that I have thought about this and am committed to putting in the effort and time to see it through.

That said, here are some thoughts:

• I imagine adoptees to fall into several broad categories:

1 Those who sign up on a whim and never or seldom ask questions.

2 Those who are looking for a social experience.

3 Those who are problem users, either before or after signing up.

4 Those who barely get it and need lots of help.

5 Those who get it more or less quickly and become valued members.

• I don't want anybody here to waste their time.

Adoptees in group 1 will require little or nothing. I'm not proposing Handhold-a-User

Adoptees in group 2 will need to be reminded what WP is and is not, again little time invested.

Adoptees in group 3 will need to be brought up short, not slapped down. I have seen through talk pages a few users who have reformed and become contributing members, but I am not proposing Fix-a-User.

Adoptees in group 4 will be the most time consuming.

Adoptees in group 5 are the ones that will make it all worthwhile.

The Adopt-a-User program is a privilege, not a right. We are giving our valuable time to these folks because we want to make WP a better place.

Anyone who is disruptive, who wants to chat or vandalizes the project can and should be dropped at the discretion of the adopter. If the adopter is willing to work with them, fine, if not, that is also fine. They are free to request another adoption but we should have a place to list jerks and trolls so that everyone is aware of them.

This is not rehab. If someone is a problem elsewhere, AaU should not be used to counsel them back into the fold. An adopter can take that task on if they choose, but only if they choose.

No anonymous IP's, I think the reasons for being a registered user outwiegh any reasons for not. It also show committment to doing something here.

Other Stuff

• I imagine adoption to last about 2 or 3 months, more or less depending on the adoptee.

• I can imagine a kind of protocol for adoption, I do an edit analysis by using Interiot's edit counter to get an idea of the adoptees interests, WP usage, 'attitude' (talk page etiquette, any vandalism, edit summary usage, etc.), I don't read it all (Goddess forbid), but 20 minutes spent looking at the data and checking where their most frequent edits are, can tell you alot about the user. This will be less valuable for the newest users obviously, but as you work with someone it can be repeated. You can see how I use it on the first adoption talk page I listed above.

• I want this to be easy, I would be willing to develop some standard 'form letters' to use for the most common tasks, such as offering adoption, first contact (which spells out the general process), usual problems (to be determined as we go), etc.

• I would favor not actively promoting the program for the first 3-6 months as we develop ideas and put in place the infrastructure.

• I don't expect anyone else to have the high-minded ideals that I have and I don't want to assume any ownership of this project. I am willing to do the work and to work with anyone else who has ideas about how we improve this project. I am committed to consensus, I think it's the single most important word in Wikipedia.

• I think everything any new user needs to know is already in the WP policies and guidelines and I imagine most of our work to be just pointing the adoptee to those guidelines and having them read them. We may have to explain some things and relate them to specific issues, but those guidelines are the framework here and anyone who wants to be a part of this project has to learn them, use them and abide by them.

• Adoption is about the basics. I don't think we should be dealing as a matter of course with how to design templates, infoboxes, or other advanced stuff. Once a user finds their way around and feels comfortable they can learn that stuff somewhere else. This is not to say that an adopter can't help with that, just that that is not our real focus.

• Adopters need to be patient, gentle and civil. As I mentioned above, there can be a jargon-laden terseness to WP that we want to provide a transition to. Everybody needs to jump off or even be pushed off the dock at some point, but not from forty feet above the Bering Sea in January. (Been there, done that, but never again!)

• There are many parts of this that I can do and I'm willing to do, but there are things I can't do and others will have to do. I can't design templates and don't want to learn. I don't know how to make a chronolist for adoptees. I'm sure other things will come to me or be pointed out.

• I do have the time for the next year to put alot of effort into this but life is uncertain and anything can happen.

So there are some ideas for us to bat around. Thanks! killing sparrows ^(chirp!) 06:21, 28 April 2007 (UTC)

Well, that's a lot to read, so I'm going to try to summarize a few of the things that I want to respond to:

• Adopt-a-User is not a social endeavour: Agree, to an extent. We aren't here just to chat with, but I think that the main thing that makes this useful is that it provides new users with a single person that they can become familiar with, and so feel comfortable asking questions. If all we did was answer questions, we'd be better off promoting the help desk and answering questions there. Of course, we do some things that aren't appropriate for the help desk; personally, I've been asked my opinion of how to improve the tone of an article, and I occasionally look through the recent contribs of my adoptees to see if I have any advice. However, my point stands that making users comfortable asking questions and working in wikipedia is an important part of what we do, so you cannot completely rule out social aspects.

Yes, I agree. My comment was based on looking at the user/talkpage/edit histories of dozens of people on the adoptees list. I notice that there are several who have made few if any constructive edits, they mostly chat back and forth and exchange user boxes with others whom I assume are friends in the real world. My exchanges with coelacan and with one of my adoptees are a little chatty, but in the context of working on articles or discussing WP stuff. I think that this is great , but if I wanted to carry it much further I would switch to email or whatever for that aspect of things.--killing sparrows ^(chirp!) 22:04, 29 April 2007 (UTC)

• Major problems that we deal with are cryptic policies: This is true. I have answered quite a lot of queries from {{helpme}}, and most have just required me to point to the appropriate policy, along with perhaps a brief summary of the relevant portion. This is the same sort of thing that we may deal with when adopting users.

• "we should have a place to list jerks and trolls": Strongly disagree. If a user is a troll, he'll be banned, probably. Anyone who has not been banned has the possibility of contributing positively. Having a list of people you (or we, or anybody) thinks are not worth dealing with, and publicising that list, is a very, very bad idea, in my opinion. Any real problems will be pretty easy to spot by looking at the user's contributions, which I think we should do anyway.

Good point, I agree--killing sparrows ^(chirp!) 22:04, 29 April 2007 (UTC)

• Regarding a chronological listing for people requesting adoption: I made such a thing. See the section "Some thoughts to start with" for more info on that.

More from me later, probably, but that's it for now. --Sopoforic 10:58, 28 April 2007 (UTC)

Automation?

There seem to be a lot of people waiting for adoption in Category:Wikipedians seeking to be adopted in Adopt-a-user and a lot of people willing to adopt in Wikipedia:Adopt-a-User/Adoptee's Area/Adopters. It seems like many adopters are willing but not actively seeking adoptees, and I would guess that many potential adoptees don't have the know-how or inclination to seek out an adopter.

My guess is that the majority of both adopters and adoptees are waiting for someone else to make the first move. Would there be some way to write a script or bot that could automatically match potential adoptees with adopters who are willing? Even if actual automation is too difficult or impractical, could we develop a process whereby the two pages are regularly perused and matches are made?

We could still allow people to do things the old way, if they prefer to hand-pick their adoptee/adopter, but maybe have {{autoadoptee}} and {{autoadopter}} templates that would help automate the process? This might also help to deal with the problem of "dangling" adoptees (i.e. those who put up the template and then leave).

Any thoughts? Would my idea work? Does anyone have any suggestions on other ways to match people up? Does anyone else have the same perception that the majority of people are waiting for something to happen?

—P^urpleRA^IN 19:38, 4 April 2007 (UTC)

Sounds like a good idea to me. The Jade Knight 10:34, 7 April 2007 (UTC)

It's a good idea. Anyway, we can also go on and try to match 'em. If there no one object, I'll do it. Snowolf ^(talk) _CON ^COI - 12:32, 7 April 2007 (UTC)

Keeping in mind this page, of course. I agree with what PurpleRain said before- both groups are waiting for the other to make the first move. On the AAU home page it kind of outlines the reason- it says that an experienced user will offer adoption, or you can have a look at the adopter status page. Maybe we should just keep one of those? A more 'personalised' adoption will have the adoptees looking at the status page for an adopter that knows about a certain aspect of Wikipedia... thoughts? CattleGirl ^{talk | sign!} 07:33, 8 April 2007 (UTC)

Newbies are like infant babies. Being extremely green, they simply don't know what they need. Even if they know, they cannot tell. If an adoptee is up to the stage that they can tell what he needs, he will know who to find. --Deryck C. 04:06, 9 April 2007 (UTC)

Snowolf, please do match people, if you're willing. I guess you would need to notify both the adopter and the adoptee that they'd been matched, and let both of them know that either one can opt out if they don't like the match. —P^urpleRA^IN 19:28, 9 April 2007 (UTC)

Would drafting a template message be useful in this case? --Deryck C. 11:03, 10 April 2007 (UTC)

Probably. The Jade Knight 12:12, 10 April 2007 (UTC)

I can help if needed in most any aspect here. please let me know what i can do to help out ! Matthew Yeager 05:40, 30 April 2007 (UTC)

Alive?

Is this Wikipedian Project alive?

I've been adopted ages ago and see no difference. :))) --PaxEquilibrium 16:19, 9 April 2007 (UTC)

An adopter provides a person to whom you can go with questions or concerns when you have them. The adopter won't normally do much unless you ask a question or make a comment. If you need help or answers, post a message on your adopter's talk page. If they don't respond, then maybe you need to find someone else to adopt you. —P^urpleRA^IN 18:43, 9 April 2007 (UTC)

If you truly have over 12,000 edits, I'd find it hard to believe that you would need to be adopted. The Jade Knight 06:50, 10 April 2007 (UTC)

I think it'd be better if it was the other way around; you adopting Rat235478683. You have been here far longer than Rat and also appear to have sufficient experience. He also appears to have been leess active since the beginning of this year, and barely meets the recommended criteria for becoming an adopter.[5] - Zero1328 _Talk? 07:14, 10 April 2007 (UTC)

An adoptee becomes its own adopter's adopter... What is Wikipedia turning into...? ;) --PaxEquilibrium 00:47, 13 April 2007 (UTC)

agreed, we need to put some life into this project. there is much we can do with this, that isnt being done. Matthew Yeager 05:41, 30 April 2007 (UTC)

Adopters

If I find an adopter is not doing a good job, is there some way to ask for a review of the adopter? --Andrew Hampe ^Talk 19:34, 14 April 2007 (UTC)

After looking at this project, it appears that a person can just go out and become an adopter without any sort of approval or training. Am I correct in beliveing this is how the process of becoming an adopter is? --Andrew Hampe ^Talk 19:38, 14 April 2007 (UTC)

There is no approval system, but there is a criteria. Mahanga^Talk 01:45, 15 April 2007 (UTC)

I also see users who've just graduated from the program becoming adopters. I don't think this is good, as they probably still don't have enough experience. --TeckWiz ^ParlateContribs_@(Lets go Yankees!) 01:47, 15 April 2007 (UTC)

Maybe there should be a waiting period of a month or two to be eligible to adopt. Mahanga^Talk 02:14, 15 April 2007 (UTC)

I agree. If you've only just graduated, you probably wouldn't have enough experience to be an adopter yet. I'd say at least a month or two before being allowed to adopt. CattleGirl ^{talk | sign!} 08:17, 15 April 2007 (UTC)

Many editors are on more than one wikimedia projects though. wouldn't this have to affect the decision to allow or deny editors the status of adopter? Urbane User (Talk) (Contributions) 10:29, 15 April 2007 (UTC)

even without a review system, these guild lines are not being enforced. Matthew Yeager 05:45, 30 April 2007 (UTC)

Some thoughts to start with

Just throwing out some ideas on the current situation, in no particular order...

I agree that actively seeking new adoptees should wait until the current backlog is cleared. To help clear this backlog I propose drafting a message to all users curently waiting adoption something like this...

Hi There,

The Adopt-a-User program is a relatively new thing on Wikipedia and the participants are trying to improve it and make it a more vigorous program.

If you are still interested in being adopted, great! Leave the box on your user page or go to this page and pick from the list of people offering to adopt. Go to their talk page and tell them you would like to be adopted. There is a box next to each adopter's name indicating if they are currently accepting new adoptees. If you don't receive a response in a day or two, ask someone else from the list.

If you have been here awhile and feel you no longer need adoption please remove the request box from your user page.

If you have any questions or comments about the Adopt-a-User program please go to the project's talk page and let us know your thoughts.

If you have been waiting a long time for adoption, we apologize, we are trying to clear the backlog and improve the program. Wikipedia is an all-volunteer endeavor and new projects like this one take awhile to get going.

Thanks! (sig could be the person leaving the message or a link back to the project page or project talk page)

I am willing to be bold and start leaving this message or something similar on the user pages of those currently on the list if this is acceptable. Anyone wishing to help with that can offer to take a certain section of the alphabet from the current list.

I have left similar, shorter versions of this message on the talk pages of 5 or 6 users on the list, but it's probably too soon to expect results for those.

I also think it would be very helpful to have the waiting list organized chronlogically in addition to or instead of alphabetically so that requests can be dealt with on a first come-first served basis, but I have no idea how to do that. A chronolist would also help select nonresponsive users for a follow-up message after a period of time that would remove them from the list by us removing the request box from their user page after perhaps one more 'gentle prodding,' with a final message explaining why we were removing them and giving them the option to rerequest at any future time.

I will post additional ideas/thoughts about the project in the coming days but I think clearing the backlog should be the first thing we do. To assist with that we might each contact one other experienced user and ask if they would like to become adopters and encourage them to add themselves to the adopters table. --killing sparrows ^(chirp!) 19:41, 27 April 2007 (UTC)

The message you suggest to people on the waiting list is a very good idea - it might reduce the backlog, or at least prompt people into making a request. It can easily be added to talk pages using AWB, I would have thought, to save too much manual labour. As for the excellent idea chronological listing, the idea has been raised before, including Wikipedia talk:Adopt-a-User/Archive 1#Waiting for adoption where various suggestions were made e.g. fixing the template to include a date stamp. Whether we could generate a chronological list in this way, or whether we'd get a "category by month" in the same way that maintenance templates with date stamps generate Category:Articles needing a coat of paint from April 2007 etc, I'll leave to those who know more about template code than I do. Another suggestion was getting a bot to help - again, outside my expertise! Bencherlite 20:33, 27 April 2007 (UTC)

I made up a template that will order people based on when they put it on their pages. If you do {{subst:User:Sopoforic/Sandbox4}} it will put the adoptme template (actually, my modified version of it) on your userpage and use the timestamp as a sort key; thus, people will be listed in the category under the '2' heading, ordered with oldest-request-first. Someone with more knowledge of templates could probably make this nicer, but it seems functional to me. Let me know what you think of it; if it seems good, we can move it into template space and direct people to use it when desiring adoption. --Sopoforic 10:10, 28 April 2007 (UTC)

Yep, that works for me. I was having a go yesterday at something similar, trying to get a template that created categories by month. However (a) I couldn't! and (b) your system is neater in that it would put everyone on the same page and in strict chronological order, whereas just sorting by month wouldn't tell you whether someone had been waiting 1 day or 30 days. (And the thought of creating categories by day... far too tiresome!). Suggestion: we could just tweak the existing template to this format (as it won't have been subst'd by anyone). This will "freeze" the current list (albeit one that doesn't sort users by how long they've been waiting, but that's no different to now) and then new users will just join the bottom of the list. Thoughts? Bencherlite 10:34, 28 April 2007 (UTC)

Well, of course I created this just by tweaking the existing one--it took me about five minutes, counting reading the help pages. The way this works is that there are two templates: one which contains the userbox and stuff, and takes the sortkey for the category as a parameter; the other, which is meant to be substed, and generates the timestamp to be used as a parameter. This means that in order for this to work, you need to make a second template (call it adopt or something) that you direct users to subst on their user pages, which will then take care of everything. This ought to preserve the current template, and require minimal changes. I'll give this a day or so, and if no objections are raised, I'll prepare an 'official' template for use. Of course, any suggestions will be greatly appreciated. --Sopoforic 10:40, 28 April 2007 (UTC)

I think I understand both your improvement of my suggestion and your explanation as to why my suggestion wouldn't work! I'd overlooked the need to subst your template to get the date fixed. How about we change killing sparrows' message slightly as follows? We then get a list of willing adoptees in the order that they react to the message. Bencherlite 10:53, 28 April 2007 (UTC)

If you are still interested in being adopted, great! It would help us keep track of who is still waiting if you went to your user page and replaced {{adoptme}} with {{subst:adoptme}}. Also, you can go to this page and pick from the list of people offering to adopt.

Well, it wouldn't work quite like that. We'd have two choices: rename the current template to something like {{dated adoptme}}, as with {{dated prod}}, and use {{adoptme}} for the main one intended for substing; or, make a second template ({{adoptme2}} or such) for substing and leave {{adoptme}} alone. If we choose the first option, we will need to go through every user requesting adoption and make the change (AWB can probably do this). If me choose the second option, we won't have to do anything but point new users to the newer template. So, I'd go with just making a new template and silently modifying {{adoptme}} to support it. --Sopoforic 11:04, 28 April 2007 (UTC)

Well, Sopoforic, nobody else seems to have a view (and they've had 2 days to express it) so I'm with you on this one. Go for it! Bencherlite 15:06, 30 April 2007 (UTC)

(unindent) and does anybody have anything to say about the proposal from killing sparrows to send messages to all waiting adoptees? If not, I'll send it out tonight (UTC), unless killing sparrows has other plans. Bencherlite 15:06, 30 April 2007 (UTC)

I made the modification to {{adoptme}} and created {{dated adoptme}}, and edited the text on the main page to point users to it. If there are any questions, feel free to contact me. --Sopoforic 15:40, 30 April 2007 (UTC)

Would I make a good adopter?

Would I make a good adopter? I'm just curious to see maybe a few opinions since I only joined here in February, but I'm closing in on 2000 edits, and addicted to WP. Evilclown93 15:32, 29 April 2007 (UTC)

If you are interested in becoming an adopter, I would love to speak with you. Please message me on my talk page if you are still interested. I have an adopted user who we can both help out! This way the user can have two members helping him and you can learn the ropes at the same time ! Matthew Yeager 06:08, 30 April 2007 (UTC)

ADOPTEES

I have successfully woken up the adoptees, they are pumped and ready to learn. If you wish to adopt a user please contact me on my talk page... I have plenty for everyone :P Matthew Yeager 16:43, 30 April 2007 (UTC)

Yes, but (according to your userpage) you've also adopted 13 people - is that wise? Can you cope? Our existing guidelines say "Adopters should only take on as many Adoptees as they can practically cope with." For example, one detailed question I had the other night took me the best part of an hour to research and compose a reply, making sure I had the guidance right and (because it was a question about how to format footnotes, references etc) making sure I had the format right both in the text and the "<nowiki><nowiki/>" version displayed as an example. Don't underestimate what you are doing, please. Bencherlite 16:58, 30 April 2007 (UTC)

I have decided to participate in this as an adopter, but now it seems there are no adoptees waiting because Matthew Yeager is claiming them all. My thoughts on the scheme are that we shouldn't have to apply through him, or for him to offer adoption to all waiting then farm them off onto other adopters. That doesn't put him in a particularly good light as far as being a 'parent' goes in my opinion... –MDCollins (talk) 18:03, 30 April 2007 (UTC)

Oh - they've appeared again, maybe that's my mistake, or I looked during a change over period. Apologies if I have made any errors - I apologize to Matthew Yeager in particular for blaming him for something he hasn't done. Also, if he is keen an willing to mentor 13 adoptions, that is his business, not mine. –MDCollins (talk) 18:06, 30 April 2007 (UTC)

It was my mistake. I was modifying a template and made a mistake--but since categories don't update immediately, I didn't notice. I've since fixed it. I apologize for the inconvenience. --Sopoforic 18:20, 30 April 2007 (UTC)

I think Matthew might be willing to hand off a few of his adoptees. I don't think he expected such an enthusiastic response. If you want to pick up one or two, go to his talk page and ask him. This was a case of well-intentioned over-enthusiasm.--killing sparrows ^(chirp!) 19:06, 30 April 2007 (UTC)

Indeed, my intention was not to take all teh adoptees, and believe me there are PLENTY waiting. I was just generating some response and activity with the adoptees. You do not have to apply to get an adoptee through me, i was merely saying if you are looking for an active user to adopt, i know a few. now, you dont have to go leave countless messages to inactive users. If you wish to take a few adoptees from me, please do! if you are inexperienced and want to share a few adoptees, please do! I'm not trying to do anything except wake up the adoptees and find out who is active and who isnt. there was not place for me to say "if you are active go here" so instead i said if you are active, shoot me a message. the adoptees that have messaged me is because none of you have messaged them so far. that is not my fault. please have good faith, i'm not trying to do anything crazy. and if no one takes adoptees and I am to keep the ones i have, that is fine... I will devote the necessary time to them as appose to editing or PRC, its not a problem. i feel that they had no one to ask questions to, so now they at least have one person. i do understand the amount of time it takes to be an adopter, as i was answering questions last night and reviewing the work that an adoptee was doing and giving him feedback on everything he has done so far. I am merely asking for adopter's to help me out if they wish too. if you have any questions ask me, dont just think that i'm doing things in the worst way. Matthew Yeager 20:26, 30 April 2007 (UTC)

Don't worry, I was assuming good faith. However, before you start complaining that none of us had messaged them, you might have noticed that there was a discussion already going on further up the page here about sending out a message to waiting adoptees, and what it would say and who would say to contact. People knew that there was a backlog and were trying to work out the best way of moving forwards. Instead of contributing to that, you were ultra-bold and acted off your own bat. You may, of course, have missed this discussion, but I think you'd agree that, in hindsight, (a) you might have mentioned what you were planning to do first (as, dare I say, there are more experienced people than you who are adopters) and (b) nominating yourself as the point of contact was not the best of ideas. I would offer to take one or two off your hands myself, but I will be away for two weeks starting at the weekend, which renders it rather pointless for now. Anyway, I suppose at least something has been done - consensus-building is necessary, but does sometimes take time! Bencherlite 20:41, 30 April 2007 (UTC)

(edit conflict with Bencherlite)

It is just possible that this is partly in response to my message on your talk page, so I'll respond.

The issue I had was that you told people that if they wanted to be adopted they should contact you, which means that lots of them are going to you thinking that you are offering to adopt all 50 or so of them. If you'd read the discussion above you'd see that we were working out a nice way that potential adoptees could show that they were still interested, without having them all sending a message to one person or something.

These things aside, I have reservations about your ability to handle a bunch of adoptees since you only made your first contribution two weeks ago. I don't mean to disparage you, it just worries me that you might get a huge influx of people asking you for help, and be unable to handle them all. The reason that none of us had sent messages to many of those people was because there aren't enough of us to handle them all at once--that isn't going to change just because you sent a bunch of messages out.

I hope this clarifies my concerns. --Sopoforic 20:46, 30 April 2007 (UTC)

Founder indefblocked?

Somebody who says they started this program has been indefblocked. His name is User:Flameviper. Just wanted to let you know.--CJ King 01:47, 25 April 2007 (UTC)

Yes, Flameviper really did found this Adopt-a-user. And yes he has been banned for massive disruption. — MichaelLinnear 06:43, 25 April 2007 (UTC)

Hm, I'm not sure on whether I should laugh or cry. The irony is clear, but it's sad to see that he didn't practice what he preached. - Zero1328 _Talk? 08:39, 25 April 2007 (UTC)

That sounds interesting; I'll try to find out more about this Flameviper character. - Two-Sixteen.11.222.21 15:43, 1 May 2007 (UTC)

Wow! Flameviper seems like a pretty nice guy; it doesn't make sense that he would make massive waves. - Two-Sixteen.11.222.21 18:24, 1 May 2007 (UTC)

Adopter Question

If a user only had a few edits on wikipedia, but a significant amount on another wikimedia project and had an in depth knowledge of wikipedia policy would they be able to adopt? I see the list of users wanting to be adopted is quite large and there would appear to be a shortage of adopters. I would like to help out, the only thing that would stop me is my relatively little amount of edits on this project. Would the comunity mind me helping out by adopting, or would they feel more comfortable if i waited until i had more edits under my belt on this particular wikimedia project? ThirtyNineHundred Talk Cont 21:41, 28 April 2007 (UTC)

Well, I would guess that since we're the biggest Wikipedia, we probably have the most policies (that others don't) and things like that. I would say wait a little to learn about this Wikipedia. --TeckWiz is now R ^ParlateContribs_@(Let's go Yankees!) 00:38, 29 April 2007 (UTC)

There's only one "Wikipedia", so that means we're the biggest. I think experience from another Wikimedia project is fine, I'd say the minimum you'd need to check up on would be being a bit familiar with differences in policy between Wikis, so you can direct the adopted person towards them. They should be generally the same, though. - Zero1328 _Talk? 00:47, 29 April 2007 (UTC)

Ah, no. There are lots of Wikipedias. This is the English Wikipedia. That aside: I won't offer an opinion on whether it would be appropriate to adopt, but I will note that you should be sure you're familiar with WP:FUC and our processes (WP:AFD, etc.) before adopting, since those do differ between wikis. --Sopoforic 03:03, 29 April 2007 (UTC)

As I've learned in my short venture into the fr.wikipedia, even though I'm an administrator here and have a pretty solid understanding of process here, and while a lot of that is transferable, my very first act to try and fix a duplicate article didn't fit the way things are done there (thankfully they were very gentle with me and sorted out my erroneous listing :). Their copyright policy is also somewhat different as it has to meet French, not US, copyright requirements, etc. Orderinchaos 07:43, 7 May 2007 (UTC)

Thanks all, i'll take all of this into consideration. ThirtyNineHundred Talk Cont 08:25, 7 May 2007 (UTC)

Adoption Update

I do not demand respect, I respect others as much as they respect me. Yet I am one to earn respect through my actions. I think its unfair to assume that one is not capable of certain things merely because of the length of time they have been on Wikipedia (its not like i'm new to the world :P). Anyways... the update...
Despite popular assumptions on how things would go, everything is going awesome! adoptees are awake and getting their needed attention and at the same time, adopters have been able to locate the active adoptees and take some under their wing. Maybe we can keep some kind of activity time frame ?! for example, since i have posted on nearly every adoptees page we can revisit that and see how long has gone by... and maybe after 2 weeks we can call the person 'inactive' leave them a nice message asking for them to return to us and then remove their userbox. I really dont think the backlog is how it is... I think more then 75% of it are inactive... what do you guys think ? Matthew Yeager 23:29, 2 May 2007 (UTC)

Well, the point of this project is to provide adopters who are experienced with wikipedia, and length of time spent here is a good indicator of that. However, it's not just that you haven't been here for long: I wouldn't be at all certain that I myself would be capable of handling 50 or so adoptees, and I've been here for quite a while.

However, I'm glad to hear that it's going well for you. As for removing the userboxes from the inactive users after a while: that seems reasonable to me. If they aren't even here any more, the userboxes are just making the category less useful. Similarly, there are people in the 'users having been offered adoption' category who haven't edited in months; it might be appropriate to remove those as well, since that category will just keep growing as well. Let me know what you think. --Sopoforic 13:41, 3 May 2007 (UTC)

I agree, anyone else have comments ? we'd love to hear what you have to say. Matthew Yeager 17:23, 4 May 2007 (UTC)

I agree; I've already de-offered one offeree who never replied and am about to de-adopt someone who's not edited for two months since being adopted (freeing me up for more adoptees!) I've also boldly made some change to the text above the list of people seeking adoption here to suggest that would-be adopters discuss with "too-experienced" adoptees whether they'd be better off with Editor review or Editor assistance than a scheme designed for "new and inexperienced users". That might cut down the backlog too. See what you think and change at will. Bencherlite

Adopter Gone Incommuncado!

Hey guys, I am relatively new user and have been working with my adopter on a certain project. It had to do with an AfD and posting of a new article and all the jazz. They have been extremely helpful up until the past few weeks when they went completely incommunicado. Any ideas on what I should do? Should I get a new Adopter? I'd like to finish this project up as soon as possible. Thanks everyone. Julieatrci 16:21, 3 May 2007 (UTC)

(copied to User talk:Julieatrci)

Well, it seems that Lethaniol has indeed been away for a week or so. If you'd like, you can direct any questions you have to me until he returns. Of course, you are free to request another adopter if you'd like to do that, as well. --Sopoforic 17:02, 3 May 2007 (UTC)

Anybody got some AWB?

Hey there, I was wondering if we should send a message to all the folks listed as adopters and let them know that we are looking for input on the program. I looked at the program page and talk page history and see that there are several people who have been involved in the past that haven't weighed in on the ideas we've floated. I don't want to bypass anyone who has an interest and possible input. Just something simple that lets them know there is some new activity. Something like...

Hi there,

The Adopt-a-User program is looking for new ideas and input on the program. If you are still interested please stop by the talk page and read some of the ideas being floated and give a comment. If you want to update or change your information on the adopter's list page, now would be a great time! Thanks!

I don't have AWB and really don't want to go through the list manually. If nobody speaks up I'll probably request AWB, I've been meaning to do that for awhile and just haven't gotten around to it. Thanks!--killing sparrows ^(chirp!) 22:03, 3 May 2007 (UTC)

I have AWB. I can go ahead and do it momentarily. V60 ^{干什么？ · VDemolitions} 22:33, 3 May 2007 (UTC)

But doesn't the cat link mostly to user pages since that's where the ubx is? We don't want the messages on their user pages. I don't think you can do it with AWB. --TeckWiz is now R ^ParlateContribs_@(Let's go Yankees!) 22:56, 3 May 2007 (UTC)

Yeah, I can. I just do a "links on page" for the adopters page, and then filter out everything that doesn't link to a User talk: namespace. V60 ^{干什么？ · VDemolitions} 23:05, 3 May 2007 (UTC)

I as well can help out in this field if needed. Matthew Yeager 01:04, 4 May 2007 (UTC)

Has this been done yet ? if not whens the planned date \ time to run this ? Matthew Yeager 03:21, 7 May 2007 (UTC)

Messages are being delivered. V60 ^{干什么？ · VDemolitions} 03:43, 7 May 2007 (UTC)

Well, your message got to me at least. I'm a relatively new adopter - and to my surprise I rapidly got three adoptees. Two of the three are essentially idle - is this par for the course? It would be nice to get some advice on how to spur them into action. Some pages of advice from experienced adopters - even just in rough note format would be very welcome for us new adopters. SteveBaker 04:03, 7 May 2007 (UTC)

I have 5 adoptees and only two have asked any questions so I'd say your experience may be typical. Take a look at my adoption talk page here which has links to each adoptee's dedicated page. You can see the 'edit review' that I do for each adoptee on the pages I've set up for each of them. I don't know that it is necessary to 'spur' them. I think the edit review I do gives a good indication of what areas they may need help. I suppose in a few months I might do another review and drop them a line if there is no activity and perhaps ask if they still feel the need for mentoring.--killing sparrows ^(chirp!) 05:20, 7 May 2007 (UTC)

What now?

Hi, I just adopted somebody, and I want to know what to do next. Please reply as quick as you can. Thanks!--CJ King 23:33, 11 April 2007 (UTC)

Give the user a primer on how to use Wikipedia, like providing links to the MOS and the pipe trick.  V60 ^{干什么？ · VDemolitions} 23:52, 11 April 2007 (UTC)

What's the MOS?--CJ King 00:01, 12 April 2007 (UTC)

MOS: Manual of style.  V60 ^{干什么？ · VDemolitions} 02:35, 12 April 2007 (UTC)

Providing links is generally not as useful as teaching specific tactics. --Deryck C. 14:55, 12 April 2007 (UTC)

OK, thanks!!--CJ King 18:53, 12 April 2007 (UTC)

this question should have been asked before the adoption of a user :P I think we should move towards a reveiw committee or something for the acceptance of adopters. nothing big, but enough so we know that they know what they are doing! Matthew Yeager 05:43, 30 April 2007 (UTC)

I agree with Matthew, there should be some kind of review process before users can be adopters. Perhaps there should be a consensus like AfD or RfA (though certainly with a little less scrutiny). I think it is crucial that adopters have some kind of familiarity with WP:MOS and the five pillars. Were this system in place, it would be much easier to create a auto-adopt feature that would streamline the whole process of adoption, and we could avlid problems like this. - HammerHeadHuman ^(talk)(work) 18:26, 7 May 2007 (UTC)

Adoption Revised

Hello All, I've made some efforts to clean up the AAU program and have some ideas to share.

First, my efforts already. I have gone through the ENTIRE LIST of adoptees.

If they have been banned or are no longer in need of an adoption I have removed their tag.

I have found several adoptees who have been on the list for a great time and have not received a message about adoption or from anyone! with this i have messaged everyone on the list who had not previously been contacted. My plan is not to adopt everyone on the list, but to instead get some activity going.

Ideas

• I think work should be started with a couple users joining in with killing sparrows to create some standard forms for messages. (welcome, explanation of the program, filling complaints, etc.)
• Secondly i like the automation of the set up of matching adopters \ adoptees, I'm glad that is already moving forward.
• I think we should set up a committee for AAU. Not to have someone in charge, but to have like 5-7 people so that everyone knows who they can contact if they need help both adopter and adoptee. Have a user to address any concerns with the bot on there, someone with the welcoming \ forms section, and some overall leaders of this program.

• I would like to see this committee start regulating the process in which AAU happens.
• Create an approval system to become an adopter (nothing big at all just so we know they understand what this is and is not and to ensure that they know how to help new users)

• On this topic, I think that new adopters should first work with an experienced adopter, sharing an adoptee before taking on their own adoptee.

• Make a standard to review current adopters \ complaint review system.
• remove the back log of users seeking adoption.

I hope to hear everyones comments on this and hopefully we can change some things, add other idea and get this program back on its feet on way or another!

As for me, I'm very excited about this!!! tomorrow i'll be contacting all the adopters listed, in hopes that they will update their status and come back to help out! after a week or so we'll have a good idea of who is active in this group and what we have to work with.

PLEASE COMMENT ! Matthew Yeager 06:06, 30 April 2007 (UTC)

I dont mean to seem to forward about this, i'm just very excited. at the same time i understand this changes wont happen over night, I just want to make sure they get started. good luck, Matthew Yeager 13:23, 30 April 2007 (UTC)

Thanks for your work so far. You've got some useful ideas and some energy too, which is great! However, I don't think that a "committee" to run AAU or an approval system for new adopters are good ideas. Firstly, Wikipedia runs on consensus: editors discuss issues and come to an overall view on the best way forward. We may have editors who take more of an interest in what goes on at AAU compared to, say, WP:AFD, but that shouldn't mean that there needs to be "people in charge" even if that's not what we call them. :I don't have a problem with people volunteering to be on a list of people to contact with questions or problems, as long as they (and the rest of us) know that they're not the bosses.

Secondly, and linked to my worry about the approval system, it sounds bureaucratic, one of the "Nots" that Wikipedia isn't - see WP:BURO. I don't know how often, if ever, you look at the "Miscellany for deletion" page, but the discussions going on right now at WP:MFD#Wikipedia:Wikihalo and WP:MFD#Wikipedia:Barnstar and award proposals shows how many people react to "instruction creep" or worse. We don't want AAU going the way of the big red delete button!

I think we could do with agreeing a slightly more detailed set of criteria for adopters - not just edit counts and number of months editing, but also questions for them to consider and judge themselves against (rather than being judged against them by others) before signing up: e.g., do they consider that they sufficiently understand the criteria for / process for deletion (speedy/PROD/AfD), both initiating and objecting? Do they consider that they sufficiently understand the need for citing reliable sources and how to do it, etc? Could they demonstrate examples of likely issues from their own contribution history if asked by a user? Of course, no-one is going to know every bit of WP backwards and if we set the bar too high to become an adopter, nobody will do so. But if (on my suggested approach) someone thinks that they can answer "yes" to enough questions to be comfortable and they think that they would make a good adopter, that would be good enough for me, with the usual assumption of good faith. Of course, if there are problems with an adopter, an adoptee can always change parents, but I don't think we need a formal complaints system - that again sounds a bit committee-ish, and I'm already bored of committees in real life without generating more for WP!

Either for the purpose of new criteria and / or because it would be useful anyway, we could perhaps do with a list of points that adoptees often raise / FAQs - this could be usefully based on actual experience of current adopters. For example, I was asked about the differences between references, footnotes and external links. Others may have been asked about how to write an article about a band that doesn't get speedily deleted for lack of notability. You get the idea. Anyway, that's quite enough from me for now. Bencherlite 15:00, 30 April 2007 (UTC)

I essentially agree with you on all of these points, I think. As for having a list of people to contact with questions, though, I think it would be better just to have a project subpage, if anything. This page is the place to ask questions about the program; the help desk is the place to ask questions about wikipedia when you're unsure. I'm not sure I see any benefit at all to having yet another place to ask either of those kinds of questions, but perhaps there's something I'm missing.

I also agree than any evaluation should really be self-evaluation. e.g., "This is a list of things you probably ought to know to adopt. If you think you know them, go for it. Else, you should probably get some more experience."

A list of commonly asked questions would probably serve well as a 'list of things you probably ought to know,' so I think that's fine. Perhaps we ought to just work together to put together a sort of cheat-sheet with the very common guidelines/policies on it. I seem to recall there being something like that already, but if not, we could make one. Let me know what you think. --Sopoforic 15:29, 30 April 2007 (UTC)

I think some kind of approval system might be warranted. Wikipedia:VandalProof has an approval system, because use of that tool could provide vandals with the tools to do a lot of damage. Similarly, someone who wants to cause damage to Wikipedia could do a lot more by adopting a half-dozen users and intentionally misinforming them about Wikipedia policy. It could provide a vandal with their own "army" of "brainwashed" vandals.

On a less sensational note, I can see some relatively unknowledgeable people signing up to be adopters just for the "prestige," or the feeling that they're with the "in-crowd" in Wikipedia. That could be detrimental as well, kind of like the blind leading the blind. They would be unable to effectively advise their adoptees, and would hamper the program.

I don't know if we need official "approval," but some sort of validation might be in order, instead of everyone and their dog being able to sign up.

Sorry for all the "quotation marks;" they seemed useful in making my points. —P^urpleRA^IN 15:38, 30 April 2007 (UTC)

I understand the reasoning, but there are a couple of issues: first, we aren't really in a position to stop someone from adopting if they are intentionally going to cause harm--we might never know about it; second, we would definitely not want to have unreasonable standards, because we can use all the help we can get. If you could think of a way to address these, I'd be happy to hear about it.

And, not specifically replying to PurpleRain, but regarding my 'cheat sheet' proposal, we do have WP:QUICK, WP:CHEAT, and User:John Broughton/Editor's Index to Wikipedia which serve this purpose to an extent. WP:CHEAT is about wiki formatting, and isn't quite what we need; WP:QUICK is more of a guide for readers, sort of; the editor's index is much more what we're looking for, but it's pretty big. Both the editor's index and WP:CUTS will show pretty much all you need, but they are too big to be manageable. A brief search didn't turn up anything else, so we may want to make up a short page with useful links on it. --Sopoforic 15:50, 30 April 2007 (UTC)

(ec)Someone running amok with Vandalproof can cause a lot of damage; similarly WP:AWB is powerful in the wrong hands - misusing either will cause other people time and effort to revert, as you can affect many pages in a 5 minute spell of malice. An adopter running amok won't do the same damage - the pace will be much slower for a start, plus it's likely that any "non-policy" / vandalistic editing by the adoptee will be noted and reverted, and a comment/warning issued, before any real problems arise. The guidance to adoptees could say that if you receive a warning for something your adopter has told you is OK, you should contact someone (either using {{helpme}} or on an AAU talk page) for an outside view. Chances are that anyone wanting to cause trouble will be unlikely to sign up as an adoptee, and deliberately misinforming adoptees about policy to get them to do naughty things is likely to lead to a community ban for the adopter anyway. I'm not suggesting we remove the existing criteria about no recent bans / blocks for adopters, and we could make it clear that if an adopter gets banned or blocked (for 3RR, vandalism, linkspam or the like) their name can be removed on sight from the scheme by anyone. As for unknowledgeable people signing up, I really don't know whether that's a current problem - perhaps we need to send a different message to all current (and past) adoptees asking for any feedback they have? I don't know how many people (adoptees / adopters) watch this page - not many are contributing to this discussion at the moment, anyway! Bencherlite 15:56, 30 April 2007 (UTC)

sorry for the misunderstands... but i in no way am suggesting a committee to govern the AAU. I do like the self evaluation as a good compromise in weeding out not so good adopters. for example when searching through adoptees i found a post left by an adopter that said:

I'm offering to adopt you. I Know some stuff that can help you. Don't expect to learn to much if you accept me to Adopt you.

This is not what we want AAU to be portrayed as. I'm not sayign that adopter should be able to adopt, but if they had some kind of guidance and had to answer some questions and read through what we are about then maybe he would have worded his statement differently and had been better prepared to adopt. Matthew Yeager 16:42, 30 April 2007 (UTC)

Yes, perhaps we should have a "quiz" of sorts. List 20 carefully selected questions that might be typical of an adoptee, and say, "If you want to be an adopter, you should be able to provide detailed answers to at least x number of these." We wouldn't actually ask for the answers; it would just be a form of self-evaluation. If you realize that you don't know the answers to 90% of the questions, then you're probably not a good candidate for being an adopter.

Maybe the list of questions would be the Adopt-a-user FAQ, or WP:VFAQ, or a newly created list... —P^urpleRA^IN 19:01, 30 April 2007 (UTC)

Like the idea of a quiz, as long as I get to find out the answers(!). Bencherlite 19:55, 30 April 2007 (UTC)

Another thought - we ought to make it clearer, whatever edit count level we use as a guide(currently 500) that we're not including user and user talk messages in that total - otherwise people can get to 500 very quickly by messing around with userboxes on their user page and / or chatting with their friends. Bencherlite 19:55, 30 April 2007 (UTC)

Erm, I think I'll follow what you come up with. It's just, well, there is no "big red delete button". The button is plain grey. --Deryck C. 06:13, 13 May 2007 (UTC)

Another suggestion

I think the front page needs to be revised a little. What I would consider helpful would be two prominent links: "To adopt, click here," and "To be adopted, click here." These would link to subpages with itemized steps and links explaining exactly how to initiate the process. Currently, one must read over the page to find the pertinent information.

Also, I don't think it's a good idea to offer options: "Alternatively check out the list of Adopters...". We should have exactly one set of instructions for adoptees, and one for adopters. This makes it clear where the onus is at each stage of the process.

Lastly, I think a clear explanation of exactly what adoption is and how it works is needed. What needs does it serve? What questions are appropriate? Maybe a list of questions that would help someone determine if they are a good candidate for adoption/adopting...

I'll try to do some of this myself as I have time, but input from others is welcome and requested as well. —P^urpleRA^IN 15:54, 30 April 2007 (UTC)

This is an excellent idea. A single, visible "steps for adoption" section would probably be much nicer. Currently it's in the same box as the instructions for adopters, which we probably ought to hide behind a link. What do you think of replacing the entire text of the 'Joining' box with just (perhaps in a larger font) "If you wish to be adopted, place {{subst:dated adoptme}} on your user page." --Sopoforic 16:01, 30 April 2007 (UTC)

Perhaps after the 'To be adopted click here' link, leading to the info about adoption there could be a link 'To pick an adopter, click here' leading to the adopters list. I think seeing the names and brief messages (including availability) is more personal. To some newbies even cut n' pasting the template might be daunting.--killing sparrows ^(chirp!) 16:51, 30 April 2007 (UTC)

If cutting and pasting the template is too much, I'm not sure that it'll be any easier browsing through the list and contacting someone for adoption. After all, leaving a note on someone's talk page is essentially the same process as leaving a template on your own user page. Perhaps it would be appropriate to have the single-step adoption process, and below it a link with "For more information on adoption, click here," or something like that.

Well, I don't know what would be best. I exhausted my week's supply of wiki-creativity making the dated template thing, and I should really be worrying about my finals instead right now. I'll think about the redesigning idea, and hopefully some others will have brilliant ideas as well, so we'll see what happens. --Sopoforic 17:05, 30 April 2007 (UTC)

(ec with Sopoforic again!) I think there is a place for both options - some people may like to look to see who's available and pick someone, others may be shy and may want to be asked. For example, my current adoptee approached me and has stayed in touch well, but two others who accepted an offer of adoption from me have done nothing since... How about "Click here to choose your own adopter (leads to adopters' list) - click here to have an adopter find you (leads to short instruction on how to add subst'd template to your userpage)". (Sopoforic - go and revise for your finals, we'll still be here when you get back. Clear case of finding anything else to do other than revision (or in my case, work)!!!) Bencherlite 17:08, 30 April 2007 (UTC)

I like Bencherlite's suggestion with the two options, it gives the assertive and the shy each a way to go. Those who click to chose their own adoptee will help reduce any potential backlog in the future.--killing sparrows ^(chirp!) 19:02, 30 April 2007 (UTC)

Well, it would make things a lot easier. 01kkk 22:35, 7 May 2007 (UTC)

Adoptee Inactivity

If the adoptee has been inactive for more than 1 month, should the adoptee be considered a "graduate"? Real96 06:41, 7 May 2007 (UTC)

If you mean they have not edited for a month I might give them another month, depending on how long they've been on WP. If they just haven't asked any questions for a month, drop them a line and ask if they feel ready for 'graduation'. There are really no hard and fast rules for any of this, which is probably fine. My guess is that most adoptees will ask few, if any, questions, just because most new users will make few, if any, edits. My goal is to give the new editor who may be inexperienced or unsure an avenue to become confident and not be put off by the learning curve. If one out of ten becomes a good editor and makes positive contributions I'll consider it a success. So far I have had to put little time into answering questions. You can check out my adoptee talk pages here to see how I do an initial edit review of new adoptees and answer questions.--killing sparrows ^(chirp!) 07:00, 7 May 2007 (UTC)

I think "graduation" must be something of the adoptee's own conscious consent. If the adoptee does not reply, he or she should never be considered graduated. The adoptee should be considered withdrawn instead. --Deryck C. 15:33, 7 May 2007 (UTC)

The word 'graduation' bothers me in this context - it carries with it some connotation of achievement. It should NEVER be OK for an adoptee to claim "I graduated from adoption by User:XXXX" without XXXX having said they were ready. They can drop out - or be kicked out - or simply fail to do anything in Wikipedia post-adoption - but those shouldn't count as "Graduation". Consider this hypothetical: If I have an adoptee who asks to be adopted by me, I accept, I ask what their interests are - and then everything goes quiet for three months (aside from me occasionally dropping by at their Talk page and asking how they are doing - and checking on their 'Contributions' list - which is just empty except for a few Talk entries)...after that amount of time, I'm not going to say that they've "Graduated" - it reflects badly on me that someone I helped - and whom I claim has "graduated" from the SteveBaker school of WikiGoodness - is so completely useless. So either they remain my adoptee forever (which is no biggie because they have become zero maintenance effort) - or I have to tell them that I'm not going to keep them on my adoptee list and they've "Failed". SteveBaker 16:07, 7 May 2007 (UTC)

I agree that 'graduation' is something that should be decided by the adopter, or by some criteria yet to be developed, not by the adoptee or simply through lack of activity. I don't know though about the idea of telling them they've 'failed'. Users who don't take advantage of the program can simply be dropped after a time for inactivity (perhaps after some gentle prodding to take advantage of the program), kept on an adopters list (little effort involved in this as noted above), or, in the case a problem user, (one unresponsive to reminders about vandalism, incivility, whatever) can be told that the adopter feels the user is gaining little from the program, lets them know they are being 'unadopted' by the adopter, and suggests they reapply for adoption in the future if they would like. We don't want to get into disputes about this kind of stuff, especially with a user who may have demonstrated immaturity or incivility.--killing sparrows ^(chirp!) 17:05, 7 May 2007 (UTC)

Yeah - I like the term "unadopted" - we should reserve "graduated" for the much hoped-for situation where the adoptee has 'grown' to the point where they simply don't need more advice. Unadopted is better than 'failed' - after all, it could easily have been the adopter's fault. SteveBaker 01:43, 8 May 2007 (UTC)

To sum up, I think we can develop two terms for past adoptees: "unadopted" (or "dropped", I like this better) for adoptees who left Wikipedia for, say, three months without a reply; and "graduated" for those who has grown mature and whose progresses in AAU have gone to completion, in a sense upon the consent of both the adoptee and adopter. I think this is our way out. --Deryck C. 07:28, 9 May 2007 (UTC)

Suggestion

I was wondering if it is possible to add a link to the adoption program in the welcome templates... - TwoOars ^{(T | C)} 11:19, 7 May 2007 (UTC)

Problem being there are so many welcome templates... ;) I've already got it in my, but there must be hundreds on the welcome page. David Fuchs^{(talk / frog blast the vent core!)} 11:37, 7 May 2007 (UTC)

Thats true. - TwoOars ^{(T | C)} 11:41, 7 May 2007 (UTC)

This was discussed above, and it was suggested that we wait until some of the organizational questions around Adopt-a-User have been sorted out, so we don't end up with an influx of new adoptees while we're still figuring out how to make this all work smoothly. —P^urpleRA^IN 15:39, 7 May 2007 (UTC)

I agree. I think that we need to wait a while... Bowsy ^{(review me!)} 08:08, 8 May 2007 (UTC)

EOC?

Would it be possible (or even acceptable) for adoptees to develop personal EOCs (end of course exam) for adoptees based on what they have been taught? Or maybe even having a standard ADOPT EOC for adoptees if the adopter doesn't feel like creating one? ~ Magnus animum âˆµ âˆ« φ γ 11:41, 8 May 2007 (UTC)

I think this is acceptable as long as both you and your adoptee agree. --Deryck C. 07:24, 9 May 2007 (UTC)

Yes, that's what I was trying (but obviously failed) to say. Nothing on the !EOC should be something that an adopter has not taught his or her adoptee. ~ Magnus animum âˆµ âˆ« φ γ 11:45, 9 May 2007 (UTC)

Well I think it's acceptable if the things "not taught by the adopter" is something that can be found out by searching Wikipedia. --Deryck C. 06:57, 10 May 2007 (UTC)

I concur as virtually everything not taught can probably be found in the project-space. ~ Magnus animum âˆµ âˆ« φ γ 19:44, 10 May 2007 (UTC)

Thus I think it's more essential for the adopter to teach the adoptee how to apply the rules. Then an EOC has a meaning. --Deryck C. 14:33, 11 May 2007 (UTC)

Perhaps I'm in the minority, but I don't see the adoption program as some kind of organized classroom thing, but more as providing new users with someone they can ask questions of. I mean, I do occasionally look through my adoptees' contributions and make suggestions, and of course when asked questions I answer and provides links to relevant policies, but I don't go 'today we will learn about templates.'

That said, do you (anyone) think that we should have some sort of organized teaching of concepts? If so, then it'd be much more efficient to do it en masse than individually (e.g. by sending out weekly 'lessons' to all adoptees, or something). Perhaps this is something that should be considered, but otherwise I think that expecting any particular set of things to have been taught is not really appropriate. --Sopoforic 19:10, 11 May 2007 (UTC)

I don't know if there need be any formal curriculum or graduation process for this program. When I asked questions (as an adoptee) I got pretty detailed answers and pointers to the relevent policies and guidelines. When I am asked questions I try to give a good answer and also point to the WP:THIS and WP:THAT pages that contain more detail. I tell adoptees and others who ask questions that there is really no other way to learn the in's and out's of WP.

When I felt ready for graduation it was because I knew what pages to look at and simply didn't have many questions that I couldn't find the answers for. I asked my adopter if they thought I was ready for adoption and they agreed I was.

In the interests both of keeping this simple and preventing WP:CREEP I would rather avoid a formal process for teaching or graduation.--killing sparrows ^(chirp!) 21:47, 11 May 2007 (UTC)

Then we have the same opinion of how this ought to work, which is nice. What I was asking above wasn't so much whether we should have a formal classroom or lessons, as whether it would be useful to the adoptees generally to have weekly(-ish) notes with descriptions of common guidelines/policies (what is afd? csd? rfa? point?). It was my feeling that this wouldn't be very useful, since the adoptees will have vastly varies experiences with wikipedia, but I thought I ought to ask and see what people felt. --Sopoforic 20:34, 12 May 2007 (UTC)

No, there is no definite, or even organized curriculum here. Everything in the mentorship should be customary. It is a decision, or bargain, between the adopter and the adoptee. It was just Magnus Animum asking whether it would be suitable if an adopter includes an EOC in the curriculum. The EOC is not going to apply to everyone. Especially not to those adoptions where either the adopter or the adoptee doesn't feel like to. --Deryck C. 02:40, 12 May 2007 (UTC)

I agree that there shouldnt been mandated "classes" or information you have to teach your adoptee. BUT i do think we should put together some sample questions and answers so that both the adoptee can see what this program is about and what type of questions are customary as well as giving new adopters a feel for what they can expect and what is customary in answering their questions. i've seen this needed on both sides... adoptees sit and have no idea what questions to ask or where to begin... and i've seen adopters who just sit there and answer every question with a link, no explanation, just a link. whatcha guys think ? i'd be willing to put together some q & a examples if that would make what i'm proposing easier to understand ? Matthew Yeager 03:09, 12 May 2007 (UTC)

Above, somewhere, we were talking about whether it would be nice to have an FAQ or cheat sheet for the adopters/adoptees, with the most common questions and most important guidelines. I do think that this could be nice, although we'd want to keep it very short. Anything the typical adoptee wouldn't want to read through in a single sitting would probably be too much, in my opinion. So, if you want to start such a thing, please do! I at least will be happy to help with it. I look forward to seeing what you come up with. --Sopoforic 20:34, 12 May 2007 (UTC)

Well, I think the best way is that if the adoptee doesn't ask questions for a long time, the adopter should check their contributions and ask them questions. I mean, the adopter asks questions voluntarily. Based on the adoptee's contribs. --Deryck C. 06:23, 13 May 2007 (UTC)

Adopter Link

on the page Wikipedia:Adopt-a-User/Adopter's Area if you go to the bottom right under "Future of Adopt-a-User" you see:

 Regular Chores:
   * Update the list of Adopters checked against criteria.

with adopters being linked... when i clicked it went to a users subpage for him checking new adopters ?!?!?! User:Lethaniol/Adopters

is this the current accepted way to do this, that has been agreed on by the consensus ?

Yeah, pretty much. It was back in December. The archive has the details, if you want to read it. Although, Lethaniol seems to be on hiatus at the moment, so I guess that this isn't happening right now. --Sopoforic 12:14, 19 May 2007 (UTC)

Yeah, this was a while ago- when there were few enough adopters to actually do this (some adopters had VERY few edits), but now we seem to be well past that stage. CattleGirl ^{talk | sign!} 09:15, 22 May 2007 (UTC)

what do we all feel like doing as an alternative, as its the current link displayed on that page... which means some users may be visiting it and therefore gaining incorrect or old information. any thought ? MatthewYeager 04:59, 26 May 2007 (UTC)

Co-Adopting

I was thinking of adopting, though I would like to start with a co-adopter who is fairly experienced in this program. Would anybody be able to help? Greeves ^{(talk • contribs • reviews)} 17:44, 26 May 2007 (UTC)

In my experience, interaction with adoptees mostly consists of answering questions they ask you, so I'm not certain what you mean by co-adoption. However, if you mean that you want someone to ask if an adoptee should stump you with a question, I'm sure that you'll find ample help by posting at the help desk, if you need a quick answer; or, if you prefer, and if you don't mind waiting for a few hours, you may feel free to post questions on my talk page as well. If you want someone who would take a more active role, perhaps someone else here will volunteer. --Sopoforic 05:41, 27 May 2007 (UTC)

Alright, I'll try adopting alone and see how it goes. Thanks! Greeves ^{(talk • contribs • reviews)} 14:14, 27 May 2007 (UTC)

If it comes to co-adopting, it'll look like WP:AC, which teaches more sophisticated use of Wikipedia. Which is something we aren't designated to give through this program. --Deryck C. 15:42, 27 May 2007 (UTC)

I think that you mean WP:ADMINCOACH, not the arbcom; but you do have a point. Greeves ^{(talk • contribs • reviews)} 18:48, 27 May 2007 (UTC)

Help

umm... how do I get adopted?--Mangalover911 21:16, 29 May 2007 (UTC)

You have two choices.

If you want to look at the list of Adopters who are ready, willing and able to help new Adoptees, you can check out the list here, and if you find one you like, you can just contact them on their talk page.

If you want to wait to be asked, then just edit your user page and add this: {{subst:dated adoptme}}. This adds you to the list of people seeking to be adopted, and before long (we hope!) an experienced user will come along and offer to adopt you.

Good luck! If you don't get anywhere, come back here and say so. Bencherlite 21:49, 29 May 2007 (UTC)

Adopting

I'd like to become available for adopting a user. However, the page says that one of the criteria is that an adopter mustn't have been blocked in the previous 6 months. I have been blocked once for a 3RR vio about a month ago, and since not been involved in any disputes. Am I eligible for adopter status? Sincerely, SalaSkan 15:34, 3 June 2007 (UTC)

Thank you for your interest in the scheme. However, your block wasn't exactly 3RR block as I read it: see talk page here for the build-up; the block reason is here "Continued edit warring over goatse article (and image) despite warnings". Although I wasn't involved in setting the threshold for block-free status, my reaction is to say that I agree with a lengthy period for "rehabilitation" purposes. Your block is less than one month old, which is far too soon for my liking. I don't think WP:AAU can risk adoptees picking up bad habits. Sorry. Come back in 5 months if you are still block-free. Bencherlite 16:04, 3 June 2007 (UTC)

Well, it was a violation of the 3RR, at least. And I got blocked for a standard 3RR time, so the guy probably just didn't include "3RR" in the block summary. 5 months seems a bit exaggerated to me, but alright, I'll spend my time on other things. SalaSkan 16:14, 4 June 2007 (UTC)

A little piece of advice for you: one way to avoid blowing your top and getting into wars on Wikipedia is to stop reading from your watchlist. Whenever you wanna edit, just type the name of a page or crawl through the wikilinks and work. I've tried this a year ago and it cleared me of all kinds of conflicts. And because of that I accumulated reputation across editors from various fields. --Deryck C. 16:27, 4 June 2007 (UTC)

I'm interested in adopting someone, but as the criteria stated "User shouldn't have been blocked in the last 6 months"; I was BLOCKED in January!!!! Am I qualified or do I have to wait a little longer?  ThinkBlue  (Hit BLUE) 19:28, 07 June 2007 (UTC)

WP:AAU Barnstar proposal

A Barnstar!

The Adopt-a-User Barnstar text goes here

Various WikiProjects have adopted their own Project Barnstar to recognize work done for the Project - see here. WP:AAU doesn't have one - yet. That excellent adoptee, CA387, has come up with this splendid effort <lie>representing the culmination of all the work by his adopter in teaching principles of template coding, being bold, WP guidelines and the like</lie> and I invite comments on whether this should be promoted from the Personal User Awards (General awards) area here. Bencherlite 21:42, 5 June 2007 (UTC)

Good idea! Well done too. Go for it! --Mschel 22:03, 5 June 2007 (UTC)

Oooo, I want one! It's so..., shiny! :-) *Cremepuff222* "As cool as grapes..." 23:33, 5 June 2007 (UTC)

Wow great design! But wait, I'm afraid the people at WP awards will not accept this since the scope is too narrow... But anyways we can have a try. --Deryck C. 09:37, 6 June 2007 (UTC)

Err, I disagree. WP:Awards doesn't get to tell us whether they like it or not. This is a WikiProject barnstar, not a "mainstream" barnstar that would go here, so WP:AAU decides whether (a) we want one and (b) this design is acceptable for our use. From the text at the start of the Wikipedia:WikiProject awards page:

A WikiProject award is awarded for work on a WikiProject, or work of substantial interest to those members of that WikiProject. Once the members of a given project have decided on what form their project star should take it can be added here.

Also, you might not have heard, but Wikipedia:Barnstar and award proposals has been tagged as "historical" after the bureaucracy involved was condemned at a MfD discussion. Bencherlite 10:01, 6 June 2007 (UTC)

Of course I have heard - I was one of the early moderators of BAP. --Deryck C. 10:29, 6 June 2007 (UTC)

Sorry, didn't know that - never got involved, but saw that it had gone. Bencherlite 10:51, 6 June 2007 (UTC)

Haha... Yeh... Only when things get deleted from Wikipedia do they get full attention... That's why people nowadays say "esperanzify", though the meaning of this term has nothing to do with the old Esperanza group, nor the meaning of the word esperanza. --Deryck C. 10:54, 6 June 2007 (UTC)

<even more off topic>How true</back on topic> Bencherlite 10:58, 6 June 2007 (UTC)

'Tis bittersweet, but I think we should award one to Flameviper for his early work in starting the project. - 2-16 16:57, 6 June 2007 (UTC)

Well... then we should really make this up as soon as possible. --Deryck C. 05:36, 7 June 2007 (UTC)

I'm glad everyone liked it so much. I've moved it to the WikiProject Awards from the Personal User Awards. You can use it by typing {{subst:Adopt-a-User Barnstar|message ~~~~}}. Cheers! --CA387 06:49, 7 June 2007 (UTC)

Told you he was good. I've added it to the front page too. Bencherlite 08:51, 7 June 2007 (UTC)

Merge Discussion:

G1ggy suggested the merge of Mentorship and Adopt-a-user

I support the merge of "voluntary mentorship" only. Since Mentorship is part of the dispute resolution process, having voluntary mentorship still seemingly be part of the dispute resolution process probably makes it undesirable to most users. Adopt-a-user, however, is good for voluntary mentorship. The "mentorship" program should be dedicated to only involuntary mentorship that is part of a dispute resolution. Though adopt-a-user could also be implemented to contain an involuntary program as well. But the merger of only voluntary with adopt-a-user is probably the best in my opinion. --HAL2008 16:41, 10 June 2007 (UTC)

I oppose this merge because mentorship is part of dispute resolution, which is when two experienced users cannot get along with each other. Adopt-a-User, however, is for experienced users to help new users learn the ropes. (→zelzany - review) 16:58, 10 June 2007 (UTC)

I would oppose, since these two things don't seem to have the same goal at all. However, is this mentorship thing used at all? I can only find two cases in which arbcom used mentorship (based on the inbound links), both from late 2005. Perhaps it would be more appropriate to mark Wikipedia:Mentorship as historical, instead. --Sopoforic 05:23, 11 June 2007 (UTC)

My suggest was mainly based on Sopoforic's comments; it's not being used. If, in the rare case that someone actually wanted mentorship, I'm sure it would be easier for everyone to redirect them to this program, since it's a hell of a lot more active. - G1ggy ^Talk/_Contribs 06:06, 11 June 2007 (UTC)

I agree; it seems that mentorship is part of dispute resolution, so I must oppose the merge. -- Cielomobile ^{talk / contribs} 09:09, 11 June 2007 (UTC)

Actually it seems fine to merge voluntary membership into WP:ADOPT, as long as involuntary membership remains separate. -- Cielomobile ^{talk / contribs} 09:11, 11 June 2007 (UTC)

Well, how about just a note at the top that says new users may wish to look at WP:AAU, and more experienced users may wish to look at WP:ADMINCOACH, then remove the language about voluntary mentorship from that page? --Sopoforic 13:27, 11 June 2007 (UTC)

Agree that involuntary mentorship shouldn't be part of AAU. There's also WP:ASSIST {Wikipedia:Editor assistance) for discussion/help for more experienced users with particular problems. Bencherlite 20:10, 11 June 2007 (UTC)

Time limit

Is there a time limit as to how long you have to wait until you can adopt someone, if you yourself have just recently graduated from the adoption program? Dreamy 01:38, 12 June 2007 (UTC)

No, there isn't. But make sure you are able to answer any questions etc. - G1ggy ^Talk/_Contribs 04:49, 12 June 2007 (UTC)

Inactive users

Should we remove users from the list who have not been active in a long time? This could apply to adopters and adopties. --Mschel 00:33, 13 May 2007 (UTC)

I think three edit-less months is good enough a benchmark. --Deryck C. 06:08, 13 May 2007 (UTC)

Hmm, no. We should only update the adopters' status on Wikipedia:Adopt-a-User/Adoptee's Area/Adopters. Users were in the project once, and they may come around again, it's a bad idea to remove them from the list. Listing them as being inactive is good enough. As for the adoptees, I don't see the advantages of removing their names from the category. Removal would only be necessary and helpful in the future when the category is getting too long, and the editor is inactive for a year or so. Three months is a rather short time. PeaceNT 09:36, 14 May 2007 (UTC)

The category is already too long to be reader-friendly. --Deryck C. 17:26, 14 May 2007 (UTC)

Question: How long is considered too long? Also, it seems most of the users in Category:Wikipedians seeking to be adopted in Adopt-a-user have been offered adoption. There's actually no backlog. PeaceNT 05:19, 15 May 2007 (UTC)

Actually, both problems were recently addressed. Matthew Yeager went through the adoptees list and removed banned and inactive users (not sure what the specific criteria for inactive were), and left messages on the other's talk pages offering adoption. I believe that all those requesting adoption have now been offered adoption except those who added their names after Matthew's message. I see no problem with 'dropping' folks who have requested adoption and then do not respond to two or more offers of adoption after a month or two, leaving them a note explaining why the template was removed from their page and letting them know that they were welcome to replace the template if they still wanted to be adopted.

I agree that the list is too long. Is the current list completely chronological now? That is, is the first person listed the oldest, and are all the newest requestees at the very end? Would it be better to have the users listed by month for greater clarity?

Vishwin60 sent a message to all listed adopters letting them know we were trying to revitalize the project and asking them to comment and/or update their status. The adopters list should probably have some sort of maintainence also, we don't want inactive adopters to be unresponsive to those who might request adoption. Changing their status to inactive and letting them know what we've done and why would give them a chance to opt back in at a future date while keeping adoptees from getting no response to a request for adoption.--killing sparrows ^(chirp!) 22:18, 14 May 2007 (UTC)

The list of users requesting adoption is now totally chronological--I went through a while ago and manually added the date adoption was requested to the template for every user who was requesting adoption; I thought that I had left a note to that effect on your talk page, but I may have neglected to do so. I've also removed a few templates from users who haven't edited since February or so. It'd be good to go through and remove the templates from anyone who hasn't edited in more than two months, I'd think. Of course, we'd want to leave a note explaining that.

I don't think that we should split them up by month. Ideally, we wouldn't have anyone waiting a whole month for adoption anyway; once we get the current backlog cleared (and it is shrinking, slowly), it should always be manageable anyway. The best thing that we can do is to remove the inactive users who are requesting adoption, which will probably cut out 15-20, then just start offering adoption beginning with the oldest requests. I'm not sure how many active adopters we have now, but an additional 10-15 adopters would probably be enough to totally clear the category of users requesting adoption, even if no current adopters helped out. If we can get enough people adopting for the program to be self-sustaining, that'd be best.

Regarding inactive adopters: it's probably possible to have a bot or script or something to look at all the people who are offering adoption and discover when their last contribution was. We could use this to find anyone who hasn't been active in a while and so keep the category (and list) clear of inactive users. Let me know if this seems like a good idea, and I can try to work something out. --Sopoforic 03:32, 15 May 2007 (UTC)

Question: What's the purpose of having the list/category clean? The backlog urges people to be more active. About the adopters, I don't see the point in removing their names if they're inactive. As I said, users were in the project once, and they may come around again. People who go taking a three-month Wikibreak wouldn't appreciate it when they come back and discover they've been left out of a project which they were involved in previously. I suggest splitting off the members section to identify active and non-active members, definitely not removing members from the list. PeaceNT 05:19, 15 May 2007 (UTC)

We want the list of potential adoptees to be clear because we don't want people to be waiting for adoption offers for four months, which is the current situation. Small list -> short wait. Regarding the list of adopters: the purpose of that list is to allow adoptees to choose an adopter that they like. If there are inactive users (and, eventually, we would expect that the list will contain mostly inactive users), then an adoptee will ask an inactive user for adoption, and then never receive a response. This isn't a desirable outcome, so it's to our benefit (since it benefits the adoptees) to keep the list clear of inactive users. --Sopoforic 09:08, 15 May 2007 (UTC)

(unindent) I made a little program to check the date of the last contributions of a set of editors, and ran it on Category:Wikipedians seeking to adopt in Adopt-a-user. Most have edited in May. Those who haven't are (with date of last edit):

• Lethaniol (25 April)
• Saturation2 (10 April)
• Thatperson (6 April)
• Walter_Humala (2 April)
• Willscrlt (14 April)
• Jfell (12 February)
• Avatarfan6666 (30 March)

That's the data. Discuss. --Sopoforic 14:22, 19 May 2007 (UTC)

Well, first off I think it's pretty good that less than 10% are currently inactive. I wonder about the list you used though, I notice I am not in that category, was it recently updated?--killing sparrows ^(chirp!) 16:13, 19 May 2007 (UTC)

Yeah, I pulled it today, right before I ran the program on it. You aren't in that category because you aren't using {{adopting}}, which people who are intending to adopt are meant to use. I suppose that you've put yourself on the list but not in the category, which is unfortunate from the standpoint of automation. In order to test the people on the list and not in the category, I'd have to make the list by hand, probably, which would be a pain.

The low percentage of people inactive is actually quite a surprise, but a welcome one. I'll take a look at the list page and see if it's regex friendly; if so I can re-run my program on it to get the inactivity information for the users on it. I'll let you know what happens. --Sopoforic 02:47, 20 May 2007 (UTC)

Template added! I notice there are some others missing from the list but I'll bet the percentages hold. Quite cool. —The preceding unsigned comment was added by Killing sparrows (talk • contribs) 08:05, 20 May 2007 (UTC).

So, I looked at the list, and it seems that people have signed their names in every inconvenient way imaginable, so I'm not going to be able to easily check them. However, unless for some reason people inclined to use the templates are also inclined to be more active, it's pretty likely that we'll have about the same percentage of users inactive in the list as in the cat.

One question that I should have asked earlier, but didn't: how many adoptees are approaching the adopters and asking to be adopted, as opposed to using {{adoptme}} and waiting? Is it common? Inquiring minds want to know. --Sopoforic 07:08, 21 May 2007 (UTC)

FWIW I haven't had any ask me, and I was adopted after putting the template on my userpage and waiting. I think that at the present time (after a random sample of 20) most everyone on the adoptees list has had at least one and sometimes two offers of adoption. By the way, regarding 'assignments' for adoptees I noticed that User:Cremepuff222 does have a list of tasks for adoptees here, something to think about. I was originally not too hot on the idea but these seem pretty simple and worth a look.--killing sparrows ^(chirp!) 07:26, 21 May 2007 (UTC)

I'd personally go with 3-4 months before you take someone off the list. A user I requested to be the adopter of hasn't been active for 2 and a half months now. Meldshal42 17:11, 16 June 2007 (UTC)

Question regarding Adoption Vs. Mentorship

This is a question regarding the potential overlap of the two programs above. Personally, depending on how you all feel, I can see adoption, perhaps with a slightly different template, being extended to some more experienced editors in instances where they are now beginning to work in article topics with which they are not familiar. For instance, when I started the WikiProject Oriental Orthodoxy, I have to admit that I wasn't really sure exactly which churches were covered by this term, and that sort of thing (hopefully on a smaller scale) probably happens to other users as well. I can see that if an editor is beginning to devote a lot of attention to areas where they have a lot of enthusiasm, but not much experience, or really have experience in only one or two areas and are now expanding beyond it (like maybe to some of the other wiki entities , i.e. Wikiquote, Wikisource, Wikinews, etc. or even if there previous Wikipedia work has dealt with only one subject). Also, and here I acknowledge my own lack of knowledge of other aspects of wikipedia as well, I have seen that there are a number of editors who have indicated by userboxes that they might have a condition which could occasionally result in involuntary problematic behavior. I'm thinking of users who use some of the Wikipedia:Userboxes/Health userboxes, for instance. I can see how, if an editor with a health condition might be considering trying to become a more active part of wikipedia, but think that a condition might cause some sort of problematic conduct, that they might want to have, for lack of a better word, an emergency alert contact person. This could be particularly useful for, for instance, a person whose neuromuscular control occasionally lapses, and they think they might at some point wind up adding incoherent gibberish to an article accidentally. It might also be useful for some of those with mental conditions as well, particularly Asperger syndrome, from what I understand of it. These adoptions would be somewhat different, in that they would probably be rather longer than others, but would still potentially be rather valuable in keeping editors with these conditions active and contributing members of the community. Are there any wikipedia groups which might better deal with circumstances such as these, or would this be the best location for such a support/assistance program? John Carter 20:40, 2 July 2007 (UTC)

(Hullo, John!) That's an interesting thought. I'd be interested to hear what others think of it. The Jade Knight 01:37, 3 July 2007 (UTC)

I don't mean to offend but could you try making your message more concise and/or cut into paragraphs? A wall of text is fairly difficult to read for many people. (I'm not very fond of them myself) - Zero1328 _Talk? 05:00, 3 July 2007 (UTC)

As for the first part ('adoptions' for topics), I think that is more suited to the WikiProjects. A post on most project talk pages should get you any information you need, probably. As for the second part, I'm not totally sure what you mean. Do you mean that the adopter would watch all of the adoptee's edits, in case he adds gibberish to an article? For anyone even moderately active, this would be quite a large task, and I'm not sure that the benefits would outweigh the costs. However, perhaps others will feel differently. --Sopoforic 12:16, 3 July 2007 (UTC)

Basically, I'm referring to maybe creating (if there already isn't one) a way in which an editor who has any of a variety of personal characteristcs which might potentially prove problematic, like some of those at Wikipedia:Userboxes#Health, and is aware of that fact, can indicate that and maybe have someone listed who can be contacted who might be able to work with them productively should related problematic behavior ever arise.

I've seen that we have a large number of editors who use one or more of the userboxes on that page, and that some of them might be for personal quirks which could, in time, be problematic. Asberger Syndrome is one of those that comes to mind. From what I know of the subject, individuals with such a condition can sometimes involuntarily take to using obscene speech for an extended period of time. That behavior could be a problem if it were to surface here. If such a person had a "contact" listed on their page who might be able to address it in a way the party would be most receptive to, someone offended by such speech could contact someone who would, with luck, be less likely to respond with similar obscenities, and maybe, as it were, apologize to the offended party. That party could also maybe communicate with the user in question non-confrontationally and, if required and maybe permitted by the user in advance, either block the adopted user from the problem page or maybe from wikipedia in general without controversy or delay until the problem disappears, when the delay required when going through regular channels might not prevent further negative developments from arising.

So basically, it wouldn't be someone keeping an eye on another user, but someone (or group of people) who would be able to step in quickly and maybe deflate a situation which could become worse without such involvement. I don't know how likely this is, but I do see that {{User Aspie}}, to use the previous example, is used on about 380 userpages, and that might be the condition which might most likely create these situations. I hope that's a bit clearer. John Carter 13:21, 3 July 2007 (UTC)

The term mentoring definitely makes better sense as 'mentoring is a more adult to adult contractual relationship" whereas adoption implies a parent to child relationship. Obviously some people have this huge child in them that wants to be adopted/ parented and some people have this huge parent in them wanting to adopt a child. This is evident by the number of people offering to be "strict" critical parent adopters and i suspect some would even want to spank their adopted kids. Perhaps the wikipedia is not an appropriate place to encourage family games and social games. A more adult relationship like mentoring is perhaps needed to have mature outputs. — Preceding unsigned comment added by crguna (talk • contribs)

Matrix17 (talk · contribs)

As part of an agreement to be unblocked, Matrix17 has requested adoption. If someone intends to accept him for adoption, could you contact Durova (talk · contribs) or me so someone can unblock him? Thanks.--Isotope23 18:54, 6 July 2007 (UTC)

How can a user who has been blocked by community consensus (at the end of the discussion) be offered parole like this? --Servant Saber 15:30, 10 July 2007 (UTC)

It seems as though a chance to get some helpful advice rather than a barrage of blocks is improving his editing. His spelling and grammar aren't great (what do expect from someone whose first language isn't English?) but the content is fairly good. It could take a while, but we'll make a Wikipedian of him yet. Now, if only we could broaden his horizons a little further than Swedish B-list celebrities... CarrotMan 11:08, 16 July 2007 (UTC)

Adoption fairy?

I've been a bit of an "adoption fairy" myself, putting short notes on not-yet-offered-adoption users' talk pages that look like this:

User:Example is looking for someone to adopt. Would you like to be adopted by him/her? ~user:orngjce223 how am I typing? 01:30, 12 July 2007 (UTC)

I'm assuming that's fine, correct? ~user:orngjce223 how am I typing? 01:30, 12 July 2007 (UTC)

I think that's just splendid. The Jade Knight 02:28, 12 July 2007 (UTC)

I created a template for that, so it can be done quickly. Template:Adoptsuggest ----HAL2008_TK ^CT 21:59, 16 July 2007 (UTC)

Adopt-a-User Barnstar:

I noticed that nobody put the Adopt-a-User Barnstar on the WP:Barnstar page yet, so I put it under General Barnstars. Just to give you guys the heads up. ----HAL2008_TK ^CT 21:47, 16 July 2007 (UTC)

Well, that's because it's at Wikipedia:WikiProject awards, where it shares the company of, err, other WikiProject awards. As the other WikiProject awards aren't also listed at the WP:BARNSTAR page, I have reverted your addition. (Nice idea about the template, by the way, although using "have a nice day" in the text means that I probably won't use it on principle!) Bencherlite^Talk 01:08, 17 July 2007 (UTC)

Ah ha! So that's where it was, Giggy told me it was somewhere, but said to check What links here on it's image, which didn't list it there. Don't worry about it. And yeah, I'll take out the "have a nice day", it seems too store-like... or something. ----HAL2008_TK ^CT 03:42, 17 July 2007 (UTC)

I deny everything! Hal, I told you to check here, where there's a link to Wikipedia:WikiProject awards ;) Giggy _U^CP 03:50, 17 July 2007 (UTC)

BalanceRestored

I've been advised to get adopted by Vassyana as people are finding my edits a bit serious. But before that I would like to understand how this thing works.BalanceRestored 07:36, 17 July 2007 (UTC)

You'll have a somewhat different experience depending on who adopts you. As for myself, I mostly encourage any questions from my adoptees, and occasionally provide suggestions if I notice anything in their contribution histories that wants a comment. Essentially, I'm here to answer questions and help my adoptees deal with any situations that may arise. I believe that there are some others here who take a rather more active approach; I'll let them speak for themselves. --Sopoforic 00:20, 18 July 2007 (UTC)

Blocked user seeking adoption

A recently blocked user has requested adoption. I would be willing to lift (or at least lessen) the block should he or she receive such an offer. If anyone is up for it, the info can be read at User talk:ZordZapper. Pastordavid 21:15, 19 July 2007 (UTC)

quick question

My adopter, User:HammerHeadHuman, is a great guy and a solid contributor. Right now, he is on a wikibreak (and has been for a couple months). But previously while on wikibreak, he responded to my and his other adoptee's talk comments. I gave him an update for July awhile back, and up to this moment he has not responded. In mainspace, he has not contributed since June. What is the procedure for graduation, or do I simply have to un-adopt myself and start over again if HHH is incognito? VanTucky ^(talk) 07:08, 2 August 2007 (UTC)

Oh wow, I'm really suprised to see you're being adopted. Anyways, the process is to add {{AdopteeGrad|HammerHeadHuman}} to your userpage (or just remove the "adopted by..." box), and leave him a talk page note or email telling him what you did. Giggy ^{Talk | Review} 22:13, 2 August 2007 (UTC)

Criteria

The third criterion, "[a]dopters should not have any recent blocks (last 6 months) or vandalism (last 3 months)," seems a bit silly to me. Could I suggest you try to readjust this criteria to be more realistic? Not blocked in the last six months would, for example, disallow Jimbo... maybe "is a user in good standing" instead, to eliminate numerical barriers and the potential for lawyering over eligibility altogether? Picaroon (t) 04:03, 9 August 2007 (UTC)

Jimbo is special - most users are blocked by rouge admins. Giggy ^Talk 04:50, 9 August 2007 (UTC)

adoption tasks

i adopted my first user yesterday. i have seen on a few pages that people have tasks for the new users but i have nothing. all i have been doing recently is answer questions for the person. do i need a list of tasks for the user to graduate or is it recommended. please reply to my talk page. Smithcool 20:34, 9 August 2007 (UTC)

(also copied to User talk:Smithcool)

You needn't have any tasks for your adoptees. Some adopters have a rather structured approach to adopting, and some (including myself) do as you do and simply answer questions and offer advice. You should do whatever works best for you and your adoptees. --Sopoforic 01:39, 10 August 2007 (UTC)

Possible problem

Holmes.sherlock has been offering adoption despite not meeting the criteria and despite requesting adoption himself. For other issues, see his talk page. I have removed him from the list of potential adopters. Perhaps others could keep an eye open as well. Thanks, Bencherlite^Talk 07:41, 21 August 2007 (UTC)

I just offered him adoption then. CattleGirl ^talk 08:18, 21 August 2007 (UTC)

I saw. Thanks! You're braver than I am. Having an admin paying close attention to him is probably no bad thing either... Bencherlite^Talk 08:21, 21 August 2007 (UTC)

Recruitment

A mentor needs to be found for PalestineRemembered. This user has experienced many hardships in his time here, and has had a controversial editing history. The most recent discussion about him ended with a consensus that he should go through mentorship. Unfortunately, a person who volunteered for this task [6] has recently turned out to be a sockpuppet and was indef blocked [7]. So would anyone like to take on this task? There is some discussion already at WP:AN#PalestineRemembered (talk · contribs · deleted contribs · logs · block user · block log). 20:26, 25 August 2007 (UTC)

Question

Does anything ever happen here, or is it like so much of wiki[??]: more advertizing & promises, rather than reality, truth, results??

[[ hopiakuta | [[ [[ %c2%a1 ]] [[ %c2%bf ]] [[ %7e%7e ]] ~~ -]] 07:00, 29 August 2007 (UTC)

Do you mean here at Adopt-A-User or at wikipedia in general? Urbane (Talk) (Contributions) 22:15, 1 September 2007 (UTC)

Can I?

Can I adopt? Here's my history. --  ThinkBlue  (Hit BLUE) 00:20, 01 September 2007 (UTC)

So long as you can get on often to check your messages and are willing to devote time to your adoptee if necessary then you seem to meet all of the requirements. I can see no reason why you should not adopt. If you need any help putting this into practice then please drop a note here or contact me personally and we can sort something out for you. Urbane (Talk) (Contributions) 22:33, 1 September 2007 (UTC)

Yeah I'm on Wikipedia almost everyday. Yeah, I wanted to know first hand before I did anything. Thanks, if I need anything I'll make sure to drop a note. --  ThinkBlue  (Hit BLUE) 00:38, 02 September 2007 (UTC)

How to??

I am realy new and i've been looking everywhere on this site to find out things and i cant even find an adopter and i realy need help with this i dont know anything about this.Oh and also contact me my name is Goldxeagle on this thing.

Contact one of the users listed here. Dihydrogen Monoxide (H₂O) 00:21, 15 September 2007 (UTC)

More boxes?

Could we have some more boxes for our adopt a user status. maybe something like 'This user can adopt {{1}} more users' where {{1}} is a paramete liek adoptnum|1 . or a box adoptfull with text like 'This user has current adoptees but can not take anymore for the time being' Blacksmith ^talk 00:28, 15 September 2007 (UTC)

Well, I find that some adoptees take more time than others, so I don't think that specifying a particular number would be especially useful. What are the adoptees meant to do? Check the number, check the adopter's contribs to see if they have offered adoption to more than n users so far... something? And, I think that just removing {{adopting}} should be enough if the point is to discourage new users from requesting adoption--it will remove the adopter from the category, after all, if they remove the template.

Incidentally, paramete liek adoptnum sounds like scary latin. I like it. --Sopoforic 11:32, 15 September 2007 (UTC)

whoops that was a typo i meant 'parameter like adoptnum,. l like it toBlacksmith ^talk 12:20, 15 September 2007 (UTC)

Looking for a special adopter

Hi all! We have a user that seems to be autistic who is having trouble communicating and properly contributing. He has made some good contributions, but we fear he may be banned if we cannot find a way to help him because many of his edits could be seen as disruptive, although not intentionally. A few other editors and I have been discussing his case on my talkpage and have decided that his best bet is a one-on-one mentor or adopter who can read through his edits before they are posted. A potential adopter should probably have some experience with autism, and possibly talk to this user over the telephone. We realize that these are rather specific criteria and we probably won't find anyone who has the time to deal with this, but I really feel that we should do what we can to help someone who has good faith try to get his bit in. After all, this is the encyclopedia that anyone can edit. : ) If anyone is interested, you can join our conversation, it is at User talk:L'Aquatique#Hopiakuta. Thanks! L'Aquatique ^talktome 19:28, 10 October 2007 (UTC)

Candidate?

Durova has suggested that I should look in to being adopted. I'm not sure exactly what issues she feels I need to work on, so I'll just give a quick background/overview. I've been editing since January 2007, but had been watching and reading WP:POLICY for about a month before. I thought this program was more for people who are not very good at or don't want to read the rules here.

I'm sorry I don't have more specifics, but because Durova could be right I thought I'd see if my questions could get answers here. Anynobody 03:26, 29 August 2007 (UTC)
Anynobody (talk · contribs · deleted contribs · logs · filter log · block user · block log) Anyeverybody (talk · contribs · deleted contribs · logs · filter log · block user · block log) (I had a password issue, which is why there are two accounts.) It occured to me it'd be easier to review my appropriateness for ADOPT if I made it easier to see my history. Anynobody 22:30, 1 September 2007 (UTC)

Hi Anynobody, did Durova say exactly why she wanted you to join the adopt-a-user program? Maybe you could ask her or get somebody else to ask her. I do believe thta you have missed the object of the program somewhat however. It isn't some kind of probationary process for disruptive or 'bad' editors. It's simply a way for user's to develop their skills with the close help of a more experienced editor. I myself was adopted. I have seen users with literally thousands of edits request adoption in order to learn things that they did not already know. It is no shame whatsoever. If you would like help contacting Durova about this please leave a message here or at my talk page. Urbane (Talk) (Contributions) 22:55, 1 September 2007 (UTC)

I recommend WP:ADOPT to editors who are in arbitration and could use some guidance, especially if they've made mistakes and want to turn things around. Hope that's not a problem over here - I haven't received any complaints if it is. Durova^Charge! 03:13, 5 September 2007 (UTC)

Please don't think that I don't think this program couldn't be useful. I also fully believe Durova wants to help me, but she wasn't very specific about what I need help on as she sees it. (She can vouch for me, I asked quite a few times.) I'm theorizing she doesn't want to offend me which is why she wasn't specific, because I promise it did occur to me that any potential adopters would want to know what's wrong (Durova this is exactly what I was afraid of, by not having anything specific to address I feel like I'm "teasing" the editors here.) I feel no shame in posting here, except for the not knowing why part, nor should anyone else who takes advantage of the opportunities provided by ADOPT.

It's just that when you went through the program I'm sure you knew what or why you were doing it. I've been referred here by a person who truly wants to help me, just without saying how. I decided there must be something so obvious anyone could tell, which is why I went ahead and posted here. Anynobody 03:36, 5 September 2007 (UTC)

Don't worry, no offence was taken. It seems that Durova has referred you because you hae been in arbitration. If you would still like to take part in the porgram (what with it being voluntary) then you would be more than welcome to do so. It seems Durova would like you to. It sounds like you could just do with someone to watch over you, intervening if things get too heated, assuming i have not misread the situation.

If you do wish to partake in the program then you can either select an adopter from the list of available adopters, or i can watch over you. Do not be put off by my lack of edits on this wiki, i have more than sufficint experience for the role.

Let me know what you decide, either here or on my talk page.

Regards -- Urbane (Talk) (Contributions) 18:05, 17 September 2007 (UTC)

I'm so sorry not to have responded sooner, stopped watching the page around the 11th. The truth is that I'm a victim of human tendencies when dealing with disputes between someone known and relatively unknown over garden variety Wiki issues. Since it seems like everyone who disagrees with pretty much anything an admin does, says the admin is abusing the tools or screwing up when said admins are obviously not. So like a person in a prison who insists they are innocent, I have an uphill battle.

I honestly don't feel any additional stress by this difficulty. Anyone who would intervene on my behalf could be making themselves look as "bad" as I do, which actually might start causing stress because I have no emotional stake here but a mentor might. If I get in trouble, or banned (which I seriously doubt would happen) I'll just keep making images on the commons and maybe write an amusing e-book on why Wikipedia is doomed by the negative human tendencies which usually eliminate the positive ones in optimistic notions. I don't wanna feel guilty about tarnishing a good editors reputation if that worst case scenario happens. Anynobody 23:58, 23 September 2007 (UTC)

Don't worry about the lateness in reply, people have taken longer before. You seem have a good grasp of things, and a good working ethic. I don't think you need the mentoring to be honest, i don't think that you would benefit from it. If you do run into trouble in the future don't hesitate to ask for help though, it's here for you if you need it. Urbane (Talk) (Contributions) 20:07, 26 September 2007 (UTC)

I think this is a great program so if indeed persistent trouble finds me, I've not taken it off my list of options. Thank you very much for your time, and once again I'm sorry to make the original request sound so vague. I feel like Homer Simpson might have when trying to get a letter he wrote to his boss back from the post office:

Clerk: Can I help you?

Homer:Yes, I believe you have a letter for me. My name is Mr. Burns.

Clerk: Ok Mr. Burns, what's your first name?

Homer: I don't know.

Asking why I need mentoring is a fair question,

Me: Hi, do I need mentoring?

You: Why?

Me: I don't know.

Anynobody 05:26, 27 September 2007 (UTC)

hi adopters!

it could possibly be usefull to compare your efforts to the german 'Mentorenprogramm' - at least for those who speak a little german... let's get in touch and exchange our experiences! regards, --Ullipurwin 02:24, 3 November 2007 (UTC)