Wikipedia talk:Don't bludgeon the process/Archive 1

Archive 1

October 2008

This was created out of userspace, with input from several editors over a few months. It is still a little rough, but I am confident with some help it will improve. PHARMBOY (TALK) 00:12, 20 October 2008 (UTC)

I have read your article and find it provides good pointers how to deal with decisions processes, but I feel it is not fully applicable to general discussions on issues considered a minority view by the active majority, personal or dealing with a single user actions, be them right or wrong. The level of difficulty to present even any type of defense is skewed by the uneven playing field and because the Wiki is a publishing medium and perception is extremely important, the article does have some pointers to avoid errors or appearing foolish by doesn't take in consideration the uneven forces in action besides advising retreat to the debate. That, will undoubtedly lead or be interpreted as a concession to the other party argumentation or statements, since on any significant size Wiki only a minority would be willing to check any existing facts outside of any major dispute. --213.22.5.71 (talk) 03:39, 22 January 2009 (UTC)

Change in scope

• I'm thinking about rewriting this essay to narrow the scope to deal with just the multiple replies in discussions, and would invite any opinions (if anyone actually watches this page...). For the record, I am Pharmboy above, I just changed my name since creating this essay. Dennis Brown 2¢ © 14:11, 28 April 2012 (UTC)
• Already reduced in scope, but needs to be more concise. I've asked for outside help. Dennis Brown - 2¢ © 20:02, 5 May 2012 (UTC)

Non-admin bludgeoning

In response to Scolaire's revert of my addition: it happens quite a fair bit on AN and ANI. It's a form of process-bludgeoning: the user will seek to disqualify non-admin participation in a discussion if the non-admins aren't backing up that person's opinion. I added it precisely because I saw this essay linked in a recent AN thread where this had happened as part of the bludgeoning. —Tom Morris (talk) 14:06, 30 June 2014 (UTC)

Except that this essay really deals with the likes of RfCs, AfDs etc. which are open to all to participate, and the suggestion that a non-admin couldn't participate would be ludicrous. Besides that, it specifically refers to attempts to force a point of view by the sheer volume of comments, not to the substance of any comment, whether a reasonable one or not. I don't doubt that it happens on AN, but it doesn't belong in this particular essay. Scolaire (talk) 14:14, 30 June 2014 (UTC)

Sometimes the person bludgeoning the process is also argumentative and repetitive, but sometimes the comments are civil and to the point. In the latter case the only problem is that there are way too many of them -- a case of Wikipedia:Civil POV pushing. --Guy Macon (talk) 19:51, 4 August 2015 (UTC)

Header

I'm on the fence about the new header Guy Macon. The original intent of the essay when I wrote it was AFD, with the understanding it applied to other places (AFD was more of a cesspool back in 2008). Of course, Wikipedia changes as does the direction of the essay. I'm not saying the new header is wrong, I'm just not sure if it is "more right" or not. Pondering it, with the understanding that it isn't my baby any more, and not rushing to judgement. Dennis Brown - 2¢ 20:21, 4 August 2015 (UTC)

Right now, bludgeoning the process is more common in RfCs than AfDs, but you still see it a lot on article talk pages. I think that they key to deciding which header to have is whether anyone actually disagrees with the basic premise of this page, and in my opinion pretty much nobody except the bludgeoners themselves does. Nonetheless, I am fine with whatever the consensus turns out to be. --Guy Macon (talk) 20:52, 4 August 2015 (UTC)

I think you are right that RFCs are the problem today, just as AFDs were in the past. Will leave alone, I think you have some reasonable ideas that I just hadn't thought of. Dennis Brown - 2¢ 16:10, 6 August 2015 (UTC)

Bludgeoning vs legitimate discussion

This essay makes some excellent points, but there seems some scope for misusing it... even, to use it in what is arguably itself bludgeoning.

It's been linked to a couple of times from Talk:New York (disambiguation)/Meta and also from the RM associated with that page, which is what brought me here.

I have created a new shortcut, see Wikipedia talk:Bludgeoning, which may help a little!

Comments? Or just watch this space. Andrewa (talk) 21:49, 17 July 2017 (UTC)

• I started it back in 08 and I've seen it used a lot, but I really haven't seen it misused. It draws a pretty clear line with "If your comments take up 1/3rd of the total text or you have replied to half the people who disagree with you, you are likely bludgeoning the process", as well explaining in detail what it means. Do you have any actual examples of it being misused? Dennis Brown - 2¢ 21:52, 17 July 2017 (UTC)
  • Wow, that was fast! See the RM to which I linked. (And I've linked here from there.) Andrewa (talk) 22:03, 17 July 2017 (UTC)

The case in which I (and others) have been accused of bludgeoning... perhaps rightly as the essay stands!... is characterised by failing to get the point and rantstyle (more in the past than currently but it's starting to reappear... and I'd love your comments on my user essay to which that last shortcut leads). Andrewa (talk) 22:20, 17 July 2017 (UTC)

• I'm working on a couple of projects, so I notices pretty quickly. Being the resident bludgeoning expert (he says tongue in cheek) I did a random sampling of how many times a bunch of editors have edited that talk page, as it currently sits, and this is what I got.

Andrewa 37

Beyond My Ken 3

bd2412 6

Emir of Wikipedia 4

Station1 5

Amakuru 16

SmokeyJoe 13

Paine Ellsworth 27

I didn't get into the details of the conversation, as this is more academic than administrative at this point, but worth noting. At first glance, it does seem that the term is being used a bit loosely there, as bludgeoning as a "crime" is usually reserved for XfD, RfC, RfA and other polling situations, although it isn't necessarily limited to that. Again, I don't have time or the inclination to read that entire page, but your name is scattered all over it and you have posted more than anyone, greatly more than most, so you may be giving someone the impression you are bludgeoning even if you aren't. This isn't any different than people arguing about what is "incivil" and where the line is for WP:NPA, stuff like this is rarely a clearly defined line in the sand. Bludgeoning is most commonly done by responding to everyone who disagrees, but can also be any kind of dominating of a conversation to get others to capitulate or drop out. As to what is happening or not, I will leave to the editors there to decide at this time. Dennis Brown - 2¢ 22:35, 17 July 2017 (UTC)

From my point of view, I have done a great deal of work on this proposal, see Talk:New York/Proposed move and its history and Category:New York City and New York State move discussion pages, and am in possibly a better position to reply to many posts than anyone else, and two editors explicitly supported me in this when the bludgeoning allegation first arrived.

So that's the other side to this. It's also been offered as evidence of bludgeoning that the oppose !votes have all been discussed inline, some extensively, unlike the support !votes. But my experience of consensus in the Uniting Church in Australia#Decision making is that this is exactly what we seek to do... I have been in one meeting where the initial poll was 200 to 3 one way, so we listened first to those three, and ten minutes later it was 203 to 0 the other way. That is how consensus should work IMO.

I am not the only one accused, but all of those accused have been on the support side, and all those accusing on the oppose. So in this I am hardly uninvolved!

any kind of dominating of a conversation to get others to capitulate or drop out... Very well put. Have a look at Talk:New York/July 2016 move request and I think you will see plenty of that... and again IMO all on one side. We will never know how successful the tactic was, but there is a nasty smell of intimidation about the whole business frankly. Lots going on. Andrewa (talk) 23:31, 17 July 2017 (UTC)

That is what RFCs are for, to bring in fresh perspectives and put ideas to a vote. I can't speak to this essay in this situation, but I see policies and such misquoted all the time. People call edits they don't like "vandalism", they call editors with a different POV "disruptive" when they are equally disruptive. They call them "deletionists" when someone thinks an article doesn't meet the criteria for inclusion. This situation isn't unique. Dropping a line at a project or at the village pump is probably the best way to put more eyes on it and break a stalemate before it gets to the point of running people off. Dennis Brown - 2¢ 01:02, 18 July 2017 (UTC)

Definition

Would anyone object if we changed "To beat powerfully with force with an object of great mass" to "To beat powerfully with a massive object"? "Powerfully" and "with force" is redundant, the consecutive prepositional phrases is a bit awkward, and it really doesn't have to be an object of great mass (the Sun an object with great mass). Unless this is a sourced definition from somewhere (I didn't see the source). -Jordgette [talk] 19:47, 6 February 2018 (UTC)

• That was a typo and I'm not sure when that got there. I changed to "To beat powerfully with an object of great mass." Yes, it does have to be of great mass, but it kind of does here, as in a mass of comments. Looking at dictionary definitions, they seem to always mention the tool being heavy or of great mass. Dennis Brown - 2¢ 20:20, 6 February 2018 (UTC)

Each time you use an argument, it becomes weaker.

I doubt that and it seems to prohibit discussing. Sometimes different people post the same vote-message - and one shall not be allowed to reply to each of them, trying to convince them, or let them convince oneself. 77.183.70.51 (talk) 22:04, 31 July 2019 (UTC)

• See WP:WABBITSEASON.--Paul McDonald (talk) 20:59, 9 December 2019 (UTC)

This essay goes against WP:NOTAVOTE

The essence of WP:NOTAVOTE is that Wiki decides things based on consensus, not on pure vote-counting. As such even one editor debating a point that is opposed by ten others, possibly for differing reasons, may carry the point, or of course that editor may not carry the point but they may still have a response to make to each of the ten others. Establishing consensus necessarily requires discussion even if it is between a small minority and a larger majority. However, were one editor to respond to ten others then, according to this essay, they might be engaging in disruptive editing and sanctioned at ANI for doing so.

More generally this essay is now being used extensively by editors in the majority against those in the minority, simply because the number of comments an individual in the minority might make in a discussion will necessarily be higher than those in the majority if they are each responding to each others points, and this use is often accompanied by threats of being reported to ANI, not for rudeness, not for repetition even, but purely for the 'crime' of WP:BLUDGEON. Even the numerical limitations given on this page can be ignored in doing this, apparently.

This essay needs to be reigned in and made fairer to those in the minority if it is ever going to be accepted by the community. There is a valid point here (don't repeat yourself pointlessly) that's buried under verbiage that is too readily misused. At its most extreme it is simply gives carte blanche to those in the majority to silence those in the minority FOARP (talk) 13:30, 18 January 2019 (UTC)

• The essay is quoted because it has been accepted as good advice for 10 years. The number of comments isn't the only measuring stick to determine if someone is bludgeoning. If someone makes 10 comments and they are all unique answers to questions, that is not bludgeoning; that is discussion. If they keep repeating the same basic comment over and over 10 or 20 times, that is bludgeoning. The essay covers this: Bludgeoning is making the SAME argument over and over. As this is an essay, you are free to ignore it, but don't be surprised if others still quote it. Dennis Brown - 2¢ 13:13, 19 January 2019 (UTC)

If it's about repetition then it needs to be limited to that. At present it isn't. Instead it's about "dominating" the discussion in a way defined only in numerical terms, and gets quoted even - or especially - when those numerical limits aren't even met, by people who themselves regularly repeat themselves. I would be happy to edit the essay to be limited to repetition if that's OK with you. FOARP (talk) 18:38, 19 January 2019 (UTC)

• You are welcome to start a discussion here requesting the change, and we will see how the WP:CONSENSUS comes out. Dennis Brown - 2¢ 02:03, 20 January 2019 (UTC)

Essentially it would be to edit the lede to read:

"Bludgeoning the process is where someone attempts to force their point of view by the sheer volume of repetitive comments"

and the definition section to read

"Bludgeoning is when a user dominates the conversation by repeating substantially the same argument over and over in order to persuade others to their point of view. It is typically seen at Articles for Deletion, Request for Comment, WP:ANI, an article talk page or even another user's talk page. Typically, the person replies to almost every "!vote" or comment, arguing against that particular person's point of view using the same argument they have already made elsewhere. The person attempts to pick apart each argument with the goal of getting each person to change their "!vote" using points already made elsewhere in the same discussion. They always have to have the last word and normally will ignore any evidence that is counter to their point of view. It is most common with someone who feels they have a stake in the outcome or feels they own the particular article or subject matter. While they may have some very valid points, they get lost due to the dominant, repetitive behavior and others are less likely to consider their viewpoints because of their behavior."

(additions shown in under line, deletion shown in strike-out). FOARP (talk) 13:12, 21 January 2019 (UTC)

• I reverted. Again, you need to get consensus. This essay is 10 years old and has been more or less stable since day one. Major changes need a consensus discussion first. Dennis Brown - 2¢ 15:38, 23 January 2019 (UTC)

My proposal edit above was an attempt at starting a discussion. WP:BRD here is another way of doing it - what is right/wrong about my proposed edit and how can it be improved on? FOARP (talk) 15:50, 23 January 2019 (UTC)

I'm saying it already covers the topic with adding a lot of extra verbiage. You are welcome to start an RFC or just discussion on it, but I don't see how adding all those extra words makes it more clear, but I'm always for using fewer words rather than more. Again, it is a stable page, the burden to get a consensus to change is on you. Dennis Brown - 2¢ 20:23, 23 January 2019 (UTC)

Getting an RFC for a mere re-stating of the point in more clearly/with extra words (delete as appropriate) is more than a bit of over-kill, no? Ultimately this is your personal essay, you know best what it means. The attempt to promote it to a supplementary essay back in 2015 was reverted and hasn't been re-attempted, so so long as we're clear that this only applies to repetition it really doesn't matter how this is said - this talk page is sufficient evidence of that. FOARP (talk) 20:55, 23 January 2019 (UTC)

This is widely used essay, and the vast majority of the time, it is used properly. I don't think that trying to narrow the language down helps reduce the few misuses. And there ARE times when someone is responding to multiple others but they aren't saying the exact same thing, yet it is still bludgeoning. If every response is just contradiction with no new information being presented, then it is still bludgeoning, for example. Volume of replies isn't the sole determiner of whether someone is bludgeoning, although that is obviously an element. It is about how they are replying. If they are arguing with everyone and countering every single vote, they are bludgeoning, which is disrespectful of the individuals and the process for building consensus. Bludgeoning is kind of like porn: It's hard to define, but most people know it when they see it. As I have never seen any significant amounts of abuse, or any really, I'm hesitant to go about redefining the term when it has worked quite well for a decade, and has broad support among Wikipedians. Dennis Brown - 2¢ 14:16, 24 January 2019 (UTC)

• Support discussion on these changes--I have to say that they make sense to me. WP:ALLARGUMENTS is an essay I put together a long time ago that may apply here. I believe that many editors mistake "discussion" with "bludgeoning" -- I've seen many times when several editors seem to team up against a minority voice in an attempt to silence that one voice. Being "long-winded" is not the same thing, but it sometimes is treated as though it is.--Paul McDonald (talk) 14:31, 24 January 2019 (UTC)
  • No need to support/oppose discussion. I've already recommended an RFC. The problem with doing it local only is that this page isn't watched by a large number of people, so the only way to get a consensus one way or another is by getting outsiders involved. Dennis Brown - 2¢ 22:20, 24 January 2019 (UTC)

A talk page is very appropriate place in which to build consensus as to content, and is indeed the appropriate place for an RFC according to WP:RFC if you want to start one. If this page is widely used already then I'm sure there'll be more people along to give their input. FOARP (talk) 08:54, 25 January 2019 (UTC)

• Support restricting it more clearly to "repetition" if it is only meant for "repetition" 77.183.70.51 (talk) 22:08, 31 July 2019 (UTC)

Coming back around on this, Dennis Brown, there does appear to be a degree of support for my proposal. FOARP (talk) 20:44, 9 December 2019 (UTC)

That isn't the same as a WP:consensus. You can always nominate it for deletion if you really think it violates policy. Dennis Brown - 2¢ 21:49, 21 December 2019 (UTC)

As far as I know, there is no point in deleting an essay. FOARP (talk) 11:21, 14 February 2020 (UTC)

• As a compromise, and to add a bit more clarity, I added "Typically, this means making the same argument over and over, to different people." in the lede. I use the term "typically" because it isn't restricted to just repetition, although that is the most common issue that is considered "bludgeoning". As this is in the lede, this should clear up what little ambiguity in the definition, without restricting the definition solely to repetition. Simply being contrarian to every point made is also bludgeoning, even if it isn't the same argument, btw. ie: saying "That isn't true, what about $x" or similar arguments to each person's vote is more than a single instance of whatabout, and is bludgeoning. Dennis Brown - 2¢ 12:05, 23 February 2020 (UTC)

Not a guideline and yet....

With some frequency this essay gets cited at conduct resolution forms (mainly WP:ANI) as an example of conduct from a user that needs to be stopped. However I have found it impossible to issue sanctions on the basis of BLUDGEON'ing because it's not actually a guideline and so I don't know where the lines or what the community does and doesn't support. There are other behavioral guidelines and policies (e.g. WP:CIVIL) where the community has wide ranging disagreements but a thoughtful administrator can be expected to know how to issue blocks related to the policy/guideline without causing ire and how to issue ones that might cause disagreement but which will ultimately be supported by the community and importantly I also know how to counsel editors about them. I don't think that's the case with BLUDGEON. However, I think, again owing to the frequency with which it's cited (there are two different threads referencing this at ANI right now), it might behoove us to try and move this from essay to behavioral guideline. Best, Barkeep49 (talk) 18:45, 3 June 2020 (UTC)

At WP:Village pump (policy), you can propose making it a guideline. That's where making WP:BRD a guideline was proposed. That proposal failed. Flyer22 Frozen (talk) 20:52, 3 June 2020 (UTC)

I could. I don't think is ready to be proposed as a guideline. Hence my starting a discussion here. Best, Barkeep49 (talk) 21:07, 3 June 2020 (UTC)

• I started the essay years ago as an explanation for people participating in AFD, which was a wilder place back then. I don't think it should ever be a guideline, although I respect differing opinions. The purpose of the essay is to summarize existing guidelines and policies, and help the reader understand these larger, broader policies, as they apply to a fairly specific type of behavior. It has been fined tuned over the years, and continues to be, although I believe it is fairly stable. The advantage of leaving essays as essays is you can have 10 different essays that accurately describe the same guideline, but each applies to different types of behavior. WP:BRD is easily the gold standard of essays, and is accepted as virtually being policy because it accurately explains existing policy without adding anything new. Like BRD, this essay doesn't add anything new to our guidelines, it just explains how they apply to a particular behavior, in a way that anyone can understand. Dennis Brown - 2¢ 00:21, 5 June 2020 (UTC)
  • Btw, if I need to block someone for what is described in this essay, WP:DE or WP:TE (which itself is an essay) usually is just fine. ie: "Blocked for WP:DE, specifically WP:Bludgeon". WP:DE isn't the only policy violation possible, but it is the most common. I think WP:DE will always be a better rationale than this essay, which was designed to STOP WP:DE, not justify the block. Dennis Brown - 2¢ 00:27, 5 June 2020 (UTC)
• Basically agree with Dennis Brown here. Bludgeoning is at some levels an issue but trying to phrase a proscriptive rule or guideline against it is going to be hard as it is more one of those "you'll know it when you see it" phenomenon. Too often people simply deploy it against a prolific commenter on the opposing side in an RFC without 1) checking to see whether they really are repeating themselves or are instead just commenting a lot in a perfectly valid fashion, 2) considering whether they too, or someone on their side, may have been equally prolific or even repetitive. I think it was correct to revert this back to an essay when Guy Macon tried to promote it to guideline. It is also obviously not balanced against WP:NOTAVOTE - in a discussion it should be possible for even a single commenter to show a consensus based in the policies of Wiki over a dozen others, but if you are going to bar a single commenter from responding to a dozen others then you potentially foreclose that possibility. FOARP (talk) 15:56, 5 November 2020 (UTC)
• Ditto the above. I'll add that WP has a number of {{Essay}} (and {{Supplement}} – a narrow class of essay) pages that have enough community buy-in to be effectively actionable, like guidelines. They are not tagged {{Guideline}} because they are not written in guideline wording, more often have situational exceptions than the actual guidelines do, are about something too narrow to really require a guideline editors are expected to absorb (see WP:CREEP), and because Wikipedia is not a bureaucracy – consensus can form anywhere and even not be written down; it does not require exact legalistic labeling and categorization to be consensus. Just a few examples of guideline-level essays are WP:BRD, WP:AADD, WP:TE, WP:ROPE, WP:DUCK, WP:CIR, the aforementioned WP:CREEP, and various {{Wikipedia how-to}} and {{Information page}} instances (which are of essay authority level), e.g. WP:GOOGLETEST, WP:ASPERSIONS, and so on. Then we have guidelines that effectively have the community acceptance and reliance level of policies (e.g. WP:RS, WP:MEDRS), while there are policies that few people read and which are rarely cited outside of a specific circumstance (e.g. WP:Clean start).

  [There are occasionally also questionable guidelines that probably really have the community awareness and acceptance level of essays. E.g., several wikiprojects' {{WikiProject style advice}} pages (WP:PROJPAGE essays) have, over the years, been moved to "WP:Manual of Style/..." names and given an MoS guideline banner, despite no WP:PROPOSAL process to elevate them to guidelines. I can think of at least two that were semi-recently reduced again to PROJPAGEs and moved back to "WP:WikiProject Foo/Style advice" names, or even marked {{Failed proposal}}.]

  The policy/guideline/supplement/information-page/essay/how-to/help/etc. distinctions are often nebulous, and may have to do with how the page came into existence, whether exceptions to it should be less or more circumstantially permissible, whether other pages of a certain type should be considered equal or subordinate to it in cases of conflicting interpretation, the nature of its wording and tone, whether it stands alone or is interpreting another, pre-existing page, how important it is to the community or to the foundation, whether what it says is normative or just descriptive, etc., etc. This nebulosity, this lack of bright-line categorical boundaries, is one of the reasons that "Well, that's just a guideline" and "Who cares what some essay says?" are often wiki-ignorant arguments that do not understand these pages, their rationales, and their interplay, or the community itself. Cf. WP:Writing policy is hard, and WP:Wikilawyering.

  The general nutshell: Wikipedia policies are what are required for the project operate at all; guidelines are what help it operate smoothly; high-acceptance essays are what help its operators not make fools of themselves; and miscellaneous essays are part of the community mindshare that helps shape all of the above over time.
   — SMcCandlish ☏ ¢ 😼  23:31, 30 November 2020 (UTC)

WP:SATISFY

Someone, for unexplained reasons, butchered the SATISFY section and turned it into "No one is obligated to answer you". That completely missed the point. It's not about whether we are obligated to type out a reply to someone (and in some cases we might be; cf. ADMINACCT). It's about whether someone's tendentious insistence that we must satisfy their (often unreasonable or one-sided) demands and expectations, creates an obligation of any kind on the part of other editors (it does not). It's about the attempt to WIN by badgering the hell out of everyone, from a sense of entitlement. So, I have reverted that change, and also made the material a bit clearer, so the section doesn't get mangled again by someone thinking it's about questions and answers. Or ... whatever the heck that was.  — SMcCandlish ☏ ¢ 😼  00:14, 1 December 2020 (UTC)

• It was too verbose. It wasn't butchered, it was made more concise, and now it is less concise. That section doesn't need more than two sentences, really, else we are hammering them. The primary goal of the page has always been to keep the page simple and short so people will actually READ it. Dennis Brown - 2¢ 23:03, 1 December 2020 (UTC)

Suggested addition

How does everybody feel about adding this under "Dealing with being accused of bludgeoning the process":

"5. Finally, remember that if an accusation of bludgeoning is incorrect, it will probably seem incorrect to most people and will not help the case of the person making it. If the accusation is correct, responding just makes matters worse."

--Coretheapple (talk) 22:03, 16 January 2022 (UTC)

No offense to Coretheapple, but I think it's unnecessary, wordy, unhelpful, and not easy to understand.--Bbb23 (talk) 22:09, 16 January 2022 (UTC)

I was thinking the same, but waiting for the ANI to calm down. Dennis Brown - 2¢ 22:16, 16 January 2022 (UTC)

The intention is noble. That said, I agree with DB and Bbb23, but coming at this with perhaps the opposite perspective. If I read the suggested addition, I would not know how best to proceed. Chumpih ^t 13:08, 17 January 2022 (UTC)

People forget, this is one of the most stable essays around, since 2008 and often quoted without nary an incident. That doesn't mean changes can't be good, but when an editor is crying over it while bludgeoning, the problem is probably not the essay. Dennis Brown - 2¢ 22:19, 16 January 2022 (UTC)

Irrelevant digression.--Bbb23 (talk) 00:51, 17 January 2022 (UTC)

Well, the ANI is closed now. We live and learn. IMHO the concept 'Bludgeoning' needs a revamp, possibly with the suggestions made in the section above - and it's of course open to debate. Just not too much debate from one person. Chumpih t 22:35, 16 January 2022 (UTC) No, it doesn't. It's working as intended. Three editors objected to your AFD, and you responded to all three right off the bat. You were advised that it wasn't necessary or desirable to reply to every comment. You ignored that advice, and apparently got your feelings hurt in the process. I understand that; it's normal to feel bad when criticized. But it's time to let it go. Please. BilCat (talk) 23:20, 16 January 2022 (UTC) Here. Look. It's a bludgeoning link + request not to reply, when from me there was just one apology/explanation and one clarification requested. Not three. That aside, I'm grateful for the sympathy. And yep, that stick will get dropped now. Chumpih t 23:36, 16 January 2022 (UTC) Two, actually, but not 3, so I stand corrected. But you did reply to the third one afterwards. It's sometimes hard for me to remember that the goal of an AFD isn't necessarily to delete the article, but to determine whether or not it meets Wikipedia's policies. If an article I took to AFD is improved because of the AFD, then I did my job in nominating it. Samuel Johnson said, "Depend upon it, sir, when a man knows he is to be hanged in a fortnight, it concentrates his mind wonderfully." And well-timed AFD can get people moving to save an article, and that's a good thing. BilCat (talk) 23:50, 16 January 2022 (UTC)

• Well I won't weep bitter tears if this change doesn't go forward, but I do see a lot of wikilawyering over "bludgeoning" accusations (not just this latest unpleasantness), and I think it would be helpful to make the point that if you are accused of bludgeoning, ignore it. Don't get your underwear in a twist. I fail to see the harm in that, but let's see if there is further input In fact I think it is generally true that "arguing over arguments" is a waste of eenrgy. Perhaps that's worthy of a separate essay, if it hasn't already been done. Coretheapple (talk) 22:00, 17 January 2022 (UTC)

I don't understand the argument, a large section of the essay is already dedicated to dealing with being accused of bludgeoning the process. It's called "Dealing with being accused of bludgeoning the process". And there is further advice below that. Blame me if you want, but the essay isn't "the problem", it's just a summary of policy for a very specific issue. Dennis Brown - 2¢ 22:22, 17 January 2022 (UTC)

Actually, yes, you have a point. Chumpih ^t 22:25, 17 January 2022 (UTC)

How about: "5. If you're accused of bludgeoning, there's at good chance it was done for a valid reason. Consider the number of interactions you've made, and engage the full capacity of your prudence, skill, judgement and cool head before interacting further." Or something like that. or not - as DB points out, words are already there. Chumpih ^t 22:25 + 22:33, 17 January 2022 (UTC)

My biggest battle has been to keep the essay short, very short, so it is more likely to be read. My original goal was 5k in size. Then I agreed to 8k. It is 9k, and if anything, needs trimming so again, it is more likely to be read. Dennis Brown - 2¢ 22:52, 17 January 2022 (UTC)

They...they...their

Can we clear up this sentence?

"While they may have some very valid points, they get lost due to the dominant behavior, which makes others less likely to consider their viewpoints."

Here the subject "they" refers to valid points, but the beginning and the end of the sentence uses they and their to describe an editor. This is unnecessarily confusing.

My first choice having been reverted, I suggest: "While there may be some very valid points, they get lost due to the dominant behavior, which makes others less likely to consider those viewpoints."

-Jordgette [talk] 22:55, 25 January 2022 (UTC)

That's a bit clearer. Also, should it be "dominant behavior" or "dominating behavior"? I'm genuinely not sure, but the latter seems better to my ear. BilCat (talk) 23:03, 25 January 2022 (UTC)

Good point. I prefer "dominating." It highlights the act rather than the result of that act. -Jordgette [talk] 23:10, 25 January 2022 (UTC)

I've modified just a bit, and I'm always open to ideas to improve it. Keep in mind, when I started this, the goal then (and now) is to 1. Keep it as short as possible, so people would actually read it. 2. Keep the language simple (ie: 8th grade level), as many of the people who need to read it may be young or have English as a 2nd language. and 3. Avoid too many adjectives or fluffy words like "very", "exceptionally", etc. Of course, I don't own it, but I still edit it with these ideas in mind. It isn't necessary to be completely thorough or go in excruciating detail, it just needs to summarize and be useful. It is one of the more often linked essays on behavior, so keeping it simple and concise is important. Dennis Brown - 2¢ 23:57, 25 January 2022 (UTC)

Two sealions

If I look for WP:sealion (lower case letters) I end up here, No one is obligated to satisfy you; If I look for WP:SEALION (capital letters) I end up here, Wikipedia:Civil POV pushing. Does this make any sense? In case it does, I suggest to write WP:sealion (instead of WP:SEALION) in the box with the shortcuts on this page. Gitz (talk) (contribs) 20:13, 3 August 2022 (UTC)

• Not sure what to say. This is a much more viewed and used essay, by a mile (disclaimer: I created it in 2008). I agree they should both point to the same place, however. You could be bold and edit one to match the other, I suppose. Dennis Brown - 2¢ 20:17, 3 August 2022 (UTC)

  It's a hard call. The essay on Civil Pov pushing has recently become one of my favourite readings, but I wouldn't decide which sealion to suppress on that basis. Besides, I'm not sure I have a good grasp on the figurative meaning of "sealion" - I've never hear that word until a couple of days ago. So I'll wait for others to jump in and if nothing happens in a couple of days I'll through a coin in the air and remove one sealion (also in the "Sea also" section of this essay there's a link to Wikipedia:Sealioning and Sealioning that needs to be modified). Gitz (talk) (contribs) 07:35, 4 August 2022 (UTC)